How to lie between Dai Yoer to defeat? The method always compares a problem much, will quickly liste

Introduction: Speak of present Yo come, really can the family with much pretty can choose is the old person will help bringing the child, there also can is young pa Mom beside is the business that goes up as a result of the job, can't well have all the day time goes bringing the child, let the old person in the home help taking namely their main alternative.

The point of view that also can have a few is to think the old person looks after children meet some malpractice, and these problems can be solved very much not quite again, often can bring the home to the dispute in perhaps is not patted namely and come loose, have a place really later " one should care his own business " imply, when the old person sees the child, young pa Mom must open an eye to close a key point namely, otherwise leaves calculated, give entirely the old person is done.

But, the where that does father and mother can so is indulge worn the child follows an old person and complete without giving thought to? The gift that makes parents after all is person of the first responsibility. The problem goes in this, the child must let an old person help again taking, oneself think out to crosscurrent still cannot be conveyed forthrightly again, so how should the child do?

Now, we see those who perplexing everybody separate the issue that era fosters together? How to lie between Dai Yoer to defeat? Method always compares a problem much.

01, domestic education is need target consistency

One, case analysis

Inside look after children in the old person, one of most main problems are to feed the child to have a meal, perhaps meet when have a meal first oneself blow cool food with the mouth, otherwise is flat go be being chased after run everywhere resembling is playing blindman's buff child to be being fed with adult eat. Anyhow, such phenomenon is met pretty is general, even if the meeting of parenthood fights such way, also can suffer an old person in order to feel distressed grandson the viewpoint of generation gives refute to come back. Can be the problem that build is fond of really.

2, applicable method

1, above all, still set out in order to understand the point of view of the old person, help after all bringing the child is not the business that must do an old person, set out with this angle, the likelihood does not listen to the old person persuade, be willing to act wilfully more many the way that the ground feeds a meal to eat will be calm, also can appear not easily the contradiction of two acting people.

2, young father and mother is in when having time, accomplish oneself to bringing the child as far as possible, the time that allows an old person to also have his goes doing his to consider the business that do. If see in the old person young father and mother need not be chased after,feed a meal, can let the child achieve the goal that takes food independently likewise, the child's appetite is increase gradually, those who do an old person perhaps can have change Yo the apiration of thinking idea.

3, in the old person very the Yo that holds to oneself when means, the can convey an old person to look after children first heart that makes parents is to be very fond of, of care. Oneself and old person are same mood, considering the child to be able to face the need of too garden, collective life in the future namely, be necessary to having a meal independently this is adjusted somewhat. Hope old person and oneself stand together very much, had made educational field of the child jointly. Pretty can understand and the old person also can promise to come down.

4, additional, if encounter old person strength urgent, when getting angry very easily, the scarcely of parenthood also should follow anxious, it is clear to want to say this thing say this thing with the old person very much, became to the old person " criticize and denounce sb is met " , censure, very easy harm longs to be very fond of very much to the old person grandson the heart of generation. Be sure to keep in mind, young parent friends do not let an old person think you are to want to make him acknowledge a mistake, oneself are in Yo the idea that go up, practice is without desirable place namely, hope the old person changes next ways on some thing however. Such old people will be more recipient, listen to an opinion.

Key clew: Yo an important matter that is a family, undeniable also is the child the importance in Chinese family is pretty is tall. So, in us at ordinary times Yo on the road, lie between especially be about on Dai Yoer more understanding, fine character has handled this issue.

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