At the outset " 80 hind " when just walking along a society, be called by play " the generation that break down " , and nowadays " 80 hind " people very big one part has gotten married establish what course of study perhaps had him to live mode, blended in development rhythm of the society. But now " 90 hind " begin to step a society in succession, even " 00 hind " people also go up in the road that build up. So, their live is the current situation how? Netizens convey those who gave his bluntly to experience in succession, also spoke oneself predicament, understand together!
3 without the youth -- " without the room, without the car, without deposit " , very confused@ is blue: 90 hind female, lone, without the car, without the room, without deposit. The profession bids commissioner, often work overtime, rely on mental, physical strength to use up earn money, angst job foreground, develop a space, without detailed profession program, fear prospective science and technology developed, oneself are replaced by the robot.
@Ann: Without the room, without the car, without deposit! Current and confused, think exchange labor is made, think the company that go casts resume to do not have a reply.
Youth couchant hole -- " not be to be in hole, just came out from hole namely, be about to go possibly next hole " , very hole@ is small 2: 90 hind female, work 3 years, in apply for a job, preparation finds new job however as before confused.
@Andy: 90 years male, work 5 years, be in one year partly small town, wait for 3 years in second line city, just took a month of a small company now, the feeling is dropped " hole " in, resigned immediately, preparation applies for a job afresh...
@ Ji of a hare: 90 hind, the job has 5 years, civil member. Good work not easily eventually, salary is stabilized basically come down, attend a meeting to the sale before before long suddenly brainwashing hits gallinaceous blood, feel very fast to the company is met from double rest go back sheet rests.
Kink youth -- " it is too good to do not calculate, but also not be too poor, have dissatisfactory, but still be in hesitant " , very kinkShe @ is distant: 91 years male, undergraduate course, do not have female ticket, do not have a car without the room, trifling deposit, do cross condition cable business, the all the time wants to find new job.
@Tomorrow: 90 years female, on one invests an industry, now nowadays a week of probation of medical treatment industry, do not like content of medical treatment job to think, another still calculated well-known travel company to give Offer, but probation salary in one's hand just 6 1000, after the individual feels company setting and working content are right helpful, but the feeling can work overtime be away on official business busier.
Youth of content with one's lot -- " know what oneself want, know what oneself are doing, and do it proud " , very contented@ dream preciouses jade: 93 years, second line city, salary many 6000 month, work one year 9 0 months. Come back from city of a gleam of before two months, salary of city of a gleam of 7.5 1000. Deposit money at present 35 thousand put in investment. Each minutes oneself earn, very proud.
Actually label is dead person, but the person is work, above also was to generalize a few kinds of circumstances merely just, constant presence is worn the state of affairs with various more. And no matter you are in what condition, what phase, if still want the base oneself upon on on-the-job field, so the ability that handles very human relation is indispensable absolutely.
In the instantly society that group of be particular about cooperates, the processing capability of human relation is individual quality is important reflect, and just is human the relation is not a simple knowledge, be in duty field personally especially, should " Xiu Lian becomes spirit " admittedly very difficult, but as a new personality, how to blend in a group better, still have a few small tricks of the trade, small write a proposal:
1. participates in collective activity actively. If the branch organized a group to build an activity, can try to take an active part in so below, perhaps can disentomb the everybody in new group's common spare interest interest. Through participating in these activities, can be eliminated quickly and the new move between the colleague, rise to blend in new group very good " broken ice " action.
2. can share snacks actively to wait with the colleague at ordinary times. This is to help the human bearing is the quickest method between close colleague, because the other side turns around experience the kindness that releases to you first, so it is a lot of easier to get along to be met.
3. uses working lunch time and colleague to become one with. The form of the working lunch of every company is different, if you are in the colleague great majority of the company,be to take meal and order meal, so you can try to join them, lunch time is the hour that loosens quite relatively, the news that can know on table perhaps imagines so that want to abound than you a lot of oh.
4. smile faces the everybody all round. New personality just took a company, no matter be opposite who, want smiling face opposite, diffident, alleged " stretch his hand not to lay smiling face person " . Most at least everybody feels you return pretty to be close to easily. Since had this kind of impression, can be helpful for the farther contact from the back.
