Do not know from when to begin, the friend beside does not love to sent a friend to encircle.
Remember accidentally a few days ago very long do not have contact 90 hind friend, want to see him working recently, then I open his friend circle, the ring of a friend that discovers he is the closest still stays when the year before last year spends the New Year.
He was not installed " 3 days are seen " , it is friend circle white, whats are done not have.
I am mixed previously him, still another is the same as age the friend often is fond of happy get-together to chat together, share each other to be opposite the manner of a few things and viewpoint.
Open the friend circle of another friend when me, he is more flat, one strip condition is done not have, wrote directly: Not be my screen you, however I never had been sent.
Sent a small letter to ask them, why to send a friend to encircle?
They reply very quickly say, without what reason, did not want to send namely, did not send the desire that the friend encircles completely.
This is one 90 hind the time that becomes silent gradually, I remember last year when, a batch another batch 90 hind the article of the format brushs screen in succession in friend circle.
The first batch 90 hind had become a monk or nun!
The first batch 90 hind already bald!
The first batch 90 hind the stomach had broken down!
For the first time 90 hind had begun preserve one's health!
After Zhang Xiaolong says setting of 100 million people 3 days to see, now the first batch 90 hind be disinclined even friend circle to send.
Why to want to send a friend to encircle?
Scruple too much.
Send the picture of travel?
Others can feel you go out to play to be shown off in friend circle even, who still had not played, what outfit to install?
Send the picture of child?
You feel your child is very lovely, others does not see. "Not with respect to one child what good hair there is? " " who wants to see fart of shit of your home child sleep every day? Can you send? Can you send??
Hair pat oneself?
One piece is lived to press the face that chafes on the ground, filling black rim of the eye, whacked, after colour hair of P graph beauty goes out, even by others Diss, "Your this face is too fat " , " the leg is too thick " , " filter lens leaves too suddenly " .
Send a mood?
Calculated, is there a sentiment now who dare be still sent toward friend circle? But the friend group that should know you has leader, colleague, relative, do not take care to be able to cause misunderstanding, the father and mother that still has you also is encircled in the friend, how can you let their be in a state of anxiety?
The thing of too negative energy cannot be sent, too the thing of ego cannot be sent, cannot bask in a thing to cannot bask in a person, cannot random transmit, cannot too argumentative, cannot...
So, after wanting to go presumably, did not have the state of mind that wants to send a friend to encircle already.
Someone says, you can be seen in group.
Calculated, also be very troublesome in group, did not send simply.
Wrote cutout, cutout write, apprehension is too much, final input method remembered I think saying word, oneself want to the friend cannot be sent to encircle however if saying, what do such friend circles still have necessary?
Friend circle is finally the window of drain of mood of that one chanting folk tales to the accompaniment of simple percussion instruments, once shut, a lot of things can sink silently only bottom of the heart.
" nice gentleman " in have so a word: "Do you know what the biggest distinction between adult and child is? It is adult him need clears away an awful mess. It is adult him need clears away an awful mess..
When we are junior still, OK and capricious ground cries, be troubled by, had a mood to be able to abreact to the top of one's bent.
But adult is no good, they can undertake to oneself in night simple gruffly heals only cure, pretend again the following day next as if nothing happened.
That word place says no less than:
"There is night on the world, leave those having the adult of cut namely, give what they can lick lap wound one piece alone is black, and be discovered not easily. And be discovered not easily..
The article that does not stay up late has been written before the table, a lot of readers leave a message in succession dot assist says he also does not stay up late again, but did not pass a few days to begin to stay up late again.
Why is our give up dropped stay up late?
The time that the most primary reason is night just belongs to him, that interstitial ability is done true oneself, reveal true mood.
Diurnal time who dare?
The world of adult, early give the expressive mood, way that shows cut be blocked up dead slowly.
If let them express a sentiment, need pays attention to time, circumstance, platform, need is cautious, need decides a safe space, return to normal inside the shortest time next.
Resemble this boy, pressure is too great, dare not cry in the home that day, drank dot wine, a person is holding baluster in the arms to cry cannot from already.
Resemble this girl, pretend before family as if nothing happened, but mood depression is too long, when coming out to take food taken late at night in the evening, flashy mood breaks down thoroughly.
Little elder brother sells outside resembling this, the client retreats sheet, the loss wants him to assume, he sits in the cry bitterly on the ground.
His child got leukaemia, he sends desperately outside sell even if want to earn medical treatment to expend to the child. After crying, he should restore calm quickly, call to the child next.
Life is real not easy, visit the place that be less than in you.
After remembering just working overtime in the company once, the company has a 90 girls after to cry between the corner of corridor, indistinct the back that I saw her, knowing is her.
Boy friend and she parts company, the father of native place falls ill, but she is helpless however, both neither woulds like to ask a holiday to return old home, also can return the home without how many money in, depress oneself mood even by day, pretend as if nothing happened, the corner cry bitterly that when can coming off work only, runs to do not have a person.
I did not disturb her, won't mention with her more this matter, I know that time paragraph she needs so a window, go to the top of one's bent, be without scruple ground him come down in torrents mood, that belongs to him only so a window.
I open the friend circle of that girl later, although her life is so hard, but be encircled in the friend however whats did not stay.
Once someone says to the table, the person is hasten benefit avoids harmful animal, everybody wants to stand by the person of energy, be far from the person of negative energy.
Be, everybody likes energy, how can we transmit our negative energy to others again?
Life is inferior to meaning thing nine times out of ten, and but character and person do not have just a little.
Lu Xun once had said a word, human joys and sorrows is not interlinked, understood this word early in the 90 worlds after, joys and sorrows is fond of happy all depression to be in him heart, exterior wind small cloud is weak, actually heart already terrific.
"Young when, we always want to change whole world. Discovery of the ability after be brought up changes this world without ability, I am forced to compromise to oneself. I am forced to compromise to oneself..
And the process of this compromise, often be have no alternative most, it is cruel most.
Are 90 have a youthful look in a what kind of times?
Course of study of 80 funeral affairs has, domestic happiness, 00 hind still learn inside the tower of ivory mostly, only 90 hind it is the awkward condition that does not lie not to go up to fall.
Forth the face looks, some is the same as age person already the month is entered one billion two hundred and fifteen million seven hundred and fifty-two thousand one hundred and ninety-two, begin to prepare 2 embryoes, and oneself however whats are done not have, face of in the future looks, parents becomes consenescence, sickish gradually, and the ability that oneself did not give them good life however.
Do not know from when to begin, 90 hind move toward adult gradually, went gradually and stand year.
In parental eye, a few fine businesses can begin and we are hit discuss, in alien eye, what we had made a society is main prop up.
Finally, we became an adult that maintain one's composure eventually, a lot of a lot of things hide in the bottom of the heart.
This is 90 hind the time that becomes silent gradually.
The thing dare not say with parents, be afraid of their because of oneself thing concern.
Also dare not say with the spouse, after old trifles and conflict pass, wear repeatedly now be disinclined to make a noise, more recount what is more,the rather that?
The friend beside also each is gradually aloof because of career, family, can talk, can come out to get together, very few.
We look at others to be encircled in the friend active and clinking, look at others to encircle years in the friend static good, seem lively be them, have nothing to do with oneself, can nod an assist silently only, exit a friend to encircle next.
The Chun Shu on the village says:
"Alleged life, no more than is a process that loses ceaselessly. Very precious thing, meeting one after another, resemble comb sacrifice tine is same, slide from inside your hand. Slide from inside your hand..
I think, lose ego, lose a mood, also should be life pass Cheng surely.
When this generation 90 hind the condition that updates oneself in friend circle no longer, recount oneself mood to others no longer, that is meant, he chooses himself to bear silently everything.
That momently our bottom of the heart has a seismic sea wave, but you silently, did not let anybody know.
Friend of 90 late what is encircled?
Calculated, 90 hind do not need friend group.
