An added ingredient

Close paragraph of time, zhu Dan heats up search because of chairing a mouth to go up twice by accident. Natural, every time mouth meets those who cause people to speak by accident, some is flat call Zhu Dan " mouth by accident king " . This is laughingstock of course.

This year some earlier moment, zhu Dan ever expressed in one program, with husband Zhou Yi is surrounded when quarrelling, it is husband gives chance to extricateoneself from an awkward position, and oneself can fall down step, be called for a time " low-down red " .

Dan Zhudan is in when relating such issue, be all over the face smile, whole person gets drunk in happiness. Zhu Dan gives the person's sense, she is happy in this paragraph of marriage.

Actually, zhu Dan is in before encountering Zhou Yi to surround, still had had a paragraph of brief marriage. Former husband is Zhejiang defends inspected Lin Han, two people get along 6 months married. But this paragraph of marriage maintained two years to proclaim only burst.

So, want a woman to be able to have managed her only, find that right person, no matter whether once experienced marriage, can pass very happily like. This premise is the woman is for oneself marry.

But there also are a lot of women in the life is not marry for oneself, experience the happiness that is less than marriage so.

For others marrier

Friend of my a female is spruce, after the university graduates, work on a few years first originally, next scrape up chooses fund, can go to look to favorite place. But when arriving 25 years old, her parents must force she looks for a man marriage, fear her age became old marry do not go out.

So, spruce spruce the telephone call that can receive parents everyday, persuade her to look for a boy friend at once, date many times for her arrangement even.

Spruce spruce to parents urgent, feel very cheesed, feel oneself enrol cannot sustain a bit.

Later, she dates in in, encountered " OK still " man, two people from realise the time that does not marry to spend 3 months.

But, after marriage before long, spruce spruce produced all sorts of brawl with the man, the thing that speaks of to quarrel comes, it is the thing of a few trifles. Finally must with divorce wind up.

Why can you produce such job? Greatly, because marry at the outset,be when not be to be oneself, too cursory also, each other do not have sufficient understanding, marriage hind is very so difficult happy.

The reason is very simple, the woman goes up to did not embrace too great expectation value at all to this paragraph of marriage, not be to be oneself to marry, it is other marriage however, won't give too much feeling to other in part of course, get the real situation of the other side feels very hard also naturally.

Later, spruce spruce the time through a few years, the harm that brings on one paragraph of marriage is digested, marry for who no longer, encountered that right person finally. From now on, woman of this 2 marriage also went up too happy matrimony.

For him marrier

Ever saw a such stories, it is a mother is asking a daughter: Is you pass still bad very after all? Must tell the truth to mom.

Daughter truly ponders ground answer: Mom, you of hundred be at ease, the marriage that has had failure, this I see those who forbid to won't marry, since married, I will be capable to pass good.

The answer of this daughter, sounding full is self-confident. Very apparent, this daughter marries this for oneself, is not resembling first time is to suffer what go by force of parents marrying in that way.

Result nature will be different.

For the woman that oneself marry, often having clear program to his life, to looking for a what kind of man, want a what kind of matrimony to wait, have oneself idea, be willing and to it marrier joint efforts, until live to old age in conjugal bliss.

My classmate, it is an university accepted foolish Bai Tian, be willing for marriage after graduation do a family to boil Fu, ever to give birth to 2 embryoes, did not know to plunge into how many needle on the body.

A lot of people that know her, it is her such paying afraid, think she is to decide future oneself so.

But classmate however enjoy sth bitter as if it were malt sugar, she explains so with us: I am married a man because of love, everything what what I do is not for the man only, also be for oneself at the outset choice.

Active with passivity, both the distinction that has essence. Be in charge of actively energized, passivity is paid contain completely grievance and unwilling.

When cannot be in charge of for oneself when you only, other ability is entered and decide your life.

Affection epilogue

In a story spruce, the first paragraph of marriage is not marry for oneself, failed so. And the 2nd marriage, it is the partner that she chooses seriously, devoted feeling, discover the other side has a lot of advantages.

Because be to send,wish from inner meaning, be in the 2nd times so in marriage, the look of look upon the other side differred, when encountering contradiction, also can be solved with actively manner.

Marriage can make a woman already, also can destroy a woman.

Otherwise wants, with who, when to walk into marriage, power to make decisions does not depend on other, and depend on feminine itself, the woman has a palm to control the power of own matrimony.

According to oneself apiration walks into the woman of encircle a city, often can have a paragraph of good and happy marriage.

Because him apiration marries,if woman is not, unsuccessful marriage gave a woman again the opportunity that new control controls him destiny. Want feminine firmly to grasp this opportunity only, can make you true do your, what give oneself alive truly is wonderful.

The matrimony that blesses Zhu Dan is happier, also wish the marriage of all women is perfect.

# Zhu Dan resembles my when the exam #