What is all corners of the country? Teleplay " little handsome " in Zhang Zunlin's explanation is most classical: "All corners of the country is not to hit dozen kill, all corners of the country is the way of the world, it is not easy to can be answered, if understand complete, absolutely impossible! Absolutely impossible!!
In short, all corners of the country points to the way of the world namely! "Favor " inside have sincerity, also have hypocrisy; "The ways of the world " or pliable, or crafty. The place of somebody has feeling of gratitude or resentment, kind and enmity has all corners of the country, the person is all corners of the country. Actually, dining table is the epitome of a small all corners of the country, inside hidden knowledge is very intimate, look be like calm, actually undercurrent is billowy.
Often attend meal bureau, leave observation, everybody can discover: On dining table, have the person of these 3 kinds of behavior, often very hypocritical. See through do not say to appear, we still are good friends, the best method that treats hypocritical person is stay at a respectful distance from sb. We look together below!
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1, the person that fawns on blindly;
" add An Xianwen " in say: "Have Qian Daozhen sign, the language that do not have money is not true; Do not believe but the wine in seeing feast, cup cup urges wealthy person first " , although this word sounds very plunge into a heart, but the portraiture that also is real life, because the person often is,disrelish deficient love is rich. In the life, resemble village in that way not the person of admire fame and gain, very few; Deep resembling contented bright in that way " do not be 5 bottles of rice bow " person, little little.
On wine desk, the seat often has the branch of honour low, people proposes a toast above all the person of seat of honour, also be fair and reasonable. But, if someone is fawned on blindly, flattery insinuates the person with exalted position, cup cup faces towards seat of honour, to be the same as the someone else be indifferent to sth of the desk, appear too " snob " . This kind of hypocritical person, we often also are seeing on meal bureau, to them stay at a respectful distance from sb is the best thing to do.
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2, the person in the choose whatever is to one's personal advantage in meal;
Eat a meal with other, can see its accomplishment and character most. E.g. , see a person treat the clerk's manner, can discriminate piece he is cultured; View the action when a person orders dishes, can judge piece he is considerate, understand to be not known patronize another person.
Actually, on dining table, still a kind of behavior can reveal the character that gives one individual selfishness most. That is namely in meal choose whatever is to one's personal advantage, had eaten only, do not have difference. Ceng Guofan becomes two rivers governor when, a fellow-townsman comes go to somewhere for shelter he, want to seek an assignment to do. But after Ceng Guofan and this fellow-townsman ate a meal, dismiss the family went back, why? Because this person has a meal,moment likes to choose course, had eaten only. Ceng Guofan judges this person sure cannot eat to suffer from, reduce egoistic a mean person easily.
Selfishness and affectation often are a pair of twin, adhere to at the same time go up in one the individual's body. Selfish person, consider him consider only, love is peacockish, because this is hypocritical; Hypocritical person, present a backside, like to overtly agree but covertly oppose, it is him seek only most golden eggs. Say so, in the person of the choose whatever is to one's personal advantage in meal, the person with egoistic since, also be the person of affectation, to them stay at a respectful distance from sb is the best thing to do.
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3, do not eat intentionally on dining table, the person that after coming home, has a meal again;
Honest person, also have hypocritical one side, that is the person of the slap one's face until it's swollen in an effort to look imposing. They do not have that actual strength, must put on air, sufferred from oneself finally. Have on dining table so a kind of hypocritical honest person, they do not eat meal intentionally on dining table, install very gently, eat two to put down a chopstick a little. People asks why he doesn't take course, he says " I am not hungry " , " had eaten " wait for a word, it is hungry abdomen actually. Once come home hind, let family cook to oneself again eat, voracious, seeming is like showing real features in the ability in the home only.
This kind of honest person, outside too frank, but not honest, all show instead hypocritical, argumentative. Since be everybody,have a meal, why not satiate had eaten, after coming home even, having a meal covertly? If do not want to attend meal bureau really, do not go, went, do not waste time and energy, had eaten to had been drunk together, this ability is a real person. Say so, dish does not have a meal intentionally on dining table, the person that after coming home, has a meal again, belong to shabby-genteel have a hell of life, very hypocritical.
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Epilogue: Make friend, the key is in " sincere " word. Have sincerity only in order to wait for, our ability is accurate forecast its future behavior, feel this person relies on chart, ability is at ease to him. And hypocritical person, ascertain letting a person is not appeared, still one is plant as by deceit and treason feeling, everybody is wary to its avoid not as good as.
Detail reveals moral quality, bagatelle affection can see big question. On dining table, have above the person of 3 kinds of behavior -- " the person that fawns on blindly " , " the person in the choose whatever is to one's personal advantage in meal " , " do not eat intentionally on dining table, the person that after coming home, has a meal again " , often be hypocritical very, we want careful beware of, stay at a respectful distance from sb is the best thing to do. Friends, you most which kinds of behavior on dining table be fed up with?
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