Before, wu Zhenyu shares Yo on the program result, explode makings son Wu Feiman ever was in the school the thing of blueness of black-and-blue facial silt, discuss ardently what caused a netizen, how does that star treat campus force to you can be handled?
It is public character after all, if stand to denounce justice for the child boldly, hard to avoid can be commented battling the identity of star bullies a person by a few people, so wife hope child of Wu Zhenyu is in next time encounter such thing, run away at once.
As father's Wu Zhenyu, state the boy is about to be faced bravely however, want to know him protection, cannot because be the son of public character, with respect to submit to humiliation.
"Face bravely, protect oneself! " Yo of this 8 words guiding principle, caused the dot assist of tens of 10 thousand netizens. How is that faced bravely? How to protect oneself?
Before paragraph of the TV station of centrally of Li Mei Professor Jin of university of time public security " begin lecturing " a such queries that spot audience answered in the program: "If your child runs to say with you one day ' the classmate hits me ' , can you say with him ' hit ' ? Can you say with him ' hit ' ??
Her none hesitant answer " meet of course! Her none hesitant answer " meet of course!!
Publicize so publicly on media " with cruel make cruel " educational means, must say, this is true " Li Mei Jin " , to this, professor Li also has his position: "Hit " either in indulgent force, reducing the happening of violent incident with additionally one kind of means however.
Campus is the society of a miniature edition, these " humanness conducts oneself in society " it is better that skill tells the child earlier!
Let the child look " not to be trifled with "
Research shows, the child that suffers campus force is mostly " honest person " , in every case looks not to be trifled with, those small Xiang Yu the Conqueror can hide far.
Want the child to look " not to be trifled with " , want from proceed with of face of tripartite of constitution, disposition, dress.
The child of extremely delicate suffers bully approach the most easily, so, should help the child above all able-bodied constitution. This, the comparison that Japanese does is good, every nursery school over there them and middle and primary school can offer bushido course, still can hold the contest regularly. Look in Japanese, bushido spirit not only the perseverance that can enhance child of fitness, training, still can protect oneself not to suffer harm.
Nature field, compare with the optimistic and lively, child photograph that is good at making friend, the child of those introversion, not good at expression gets more easily bully approach, and such child is being sufferred after bullying, still be fear of tell the parent, can a person hides in the corner to lick lap wound.
If your child is an indrawn person, not be good at installing again fitly, so, the prey of the person that can make bully approach likely. Do not feel dot pays attention to dress or affect study, a person is to come from the appearance at him above all to the impression of another person, the person relies on dress horse to rely on saddle, a child that wearing slovenly can let a person feel his parents is done not have to him so care.
Sufferred bully should tell teacher, parent for a short while
Face campus bully approach, the child can be faced bravely is good of course, but this is not represented should let the child be assumed alone.
Be in " enemy my force " below the circumstance of great disparity, desert, tell a teacher, telling the parent is the method with him best protection, meanwhile, the parent should notice the child's condition changes in time, do the child's most advantageous support.
This year May, a girl of 12 years old is asked for by the classmate gold, but under can steal money from the home only, after parents discovers, she did not tell pa Mom the thing, parents is furious under hit her with conduit, and the girl of be deceived of this both ends, in scared, self-condemned, sad in chose to commit suicide.
If the child can open his mind to the parent, if pa Mom gave the child to be without,scruple pour out an environment, if the parent can discover the child unusual, if believe the child,abrupt unusual move backside has certainly hard the reason that character says, so, ending affirmation is different.
It is the child when necessary " odd "
There is a young division to had shared a such responsibilities on the net: A day of outdoors activity, the child is being done hold, suddenly a little girl cried, I see she is in all the time buckle fingernail, go by to ask how.
The pink that so this girl besmears is direct, other girls are done not have, begin to besiege this girl, say the teacher does not let catch, say her that color is too ugly if waiting for a series of aggressiveness, probably the meaning is, I cannot get be about finish, than I am about well to isolate!
Do not feel the child is pure, dozens small small be troubled by well-meant, in us adult looks the bagatelle of trifles, extremely big thing perhaps is in child eye, be isolated in that girl, when be being atttacked, probably her whole world is immersed in took night.
If this moment you can stand to hold out her, the fingernail that speaks highly of it is beautiful, send other girl the fingernail oil with the paragraph, the father and mother that seeks them incidentally talks about the view to this thing, so the child's automatical meeting from the capability that ego obtains to solve a problem over there the parent.
Be brought up slowly as the child, socialization capability is stronger and stronger, campus bully approach also can disappear subsequently, but before this, want to make the child clear, we not stir up trouble, but also won't be afraid of getting into trouble, encounter a problem to want to be faced bravely, the society protects him!
Do parents to need not take an exam, can err, but the study that must keep, grow ceaselessly.
