Article Piao blessing forest mammy
There is first gear recently program of put together art is called " mother-in-law and mom " , lin Zhiying took wife Chen Reyi and mom to enter a program, and forest the manner that mom treats daughter-in-law, caused the comment of a lot of netizens.
Chen Reyi is wearing knickers to go to mother-in-law home, be said on the spot by the mother-in-law " not courteous " , still ask she changes body clothes; Chen Reyi cleans sanitation, the mother-in-law is criticizing her action aside, want such brushing to be not brushed in that way; The guest came in the home, the mother-in-law directs Chen Reyi to do this do that all the time, let Chen Reyi do not have face very much...
Chen Reyi's cautious before the mother-in-law pattern, let a lot of popular feeling ache unceasingly, suspect incidentally, such matrimony, does she feel happy really?
Although must admit, lin Zhiying is very outstanding, lin Zhiying regards the husband as good father, very eligible also, take a son to attend from him " where does father go to " can see just a little, but lopsided spouse concern and wife and mother concern, brought a worry to Chen Reyi really.
In form of prescription of Chinese family photograph, the stand or fall that wife and mother concerns has main effect, this brings about both sides of husband and wife more incidental contradiction, the course that runs to the youth's family added a lot of tasks.
The office has a schoolgirl to often date recently, encountered the thing of very strange flower, will to the company can follow us to say. This makes me right present date the market had a brand-new knowledge:
The mother-in-law is carried first before carrying husband, if ask to come out the mother-in-law is not reasonable, see do not see;
After discussing to marry first, be to still live with the mother-in-law together, if live to also do not see together;
Seeing the man is brother a few, if the mother-in-law is prejudicial another child, this schoolboy also does not see;
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Do not know these fundamentals, it is the lesson of tears of blood that which female must come out, became guidance to meet unexpectedly dating admonition.
In the final analysis, it is the home that oneself should leave after female marriage, go in another family, this process appears too easily problem.
Beside many friends, encountered the problem that gets along with the mother-in-law, because wife and mother concerns,have even and divorce, visible, the problem between wife and mother, not be bagatelle, it is affecting the life after marriage cogently, domestic happiness and stability.
In a family, what is the mainest concern?
Without doubt, it is spouse concern of course.
No matter be the parentage of pair of before last generation, still issue the parentage of generation, build the base that concerns in husband and wife over, but the people in the life often does not do this.
There is before two years on the network very igneous noun, be called gigantic baby.
Of appearance is to be in too the child that grows in too doting family, after calculating year after year, he still cannot cast off infantile condition. Apparently look, he can resemble a normal person same wive is parturient, have oneself cause, have oneself life. But encounter a trouble, the problem of his oneself is exposed came out.
The commonnest is contradiction of wife and mother, as mom, if be opposite the child's love too passed, once the son had new family, she is met panicky, cannot help destroy the relationship between he and daughter-in-law even.
And son, arrive to bearing the maternal love to this his massiness greatly as a child, he can stand in spite of oneself in the mother here.
Then was brought about, as the daughter-in-law of outside person, by mother-in-law repulsion, husband does not understand, domestic dispute is ceaseless.
Mention when Chen Reyi and Lin Zhiying have a meal, she very be afraid of before the mother-in-law missay word, because the mother-in-law feels his son is very outstanding.
And him Lin Zhiying also admits, "Mom is stricter to us, opposite likelihood also can be compared to daughter-in-law strict. Opposite likelihood also can be compared to daughter-in-law strict..
Some husband's father and mother cold-shoulder daughter-in-law end, cold-shoulder a daughter-in-law ugly, also have cold-shoulder daughter-in-law height native place of not tall, other place is waited a moment. Although their surface does not say, also meet below illicit make oblique references communicates their idea to the son.
Remember one's early years having a sister, talk about love with her colleague.
Two people are gotten on for when marrying, the man's parents feels schoolgirl stature is short, won't dress up, do not agree with them to be together. Good later not easy man persuaded his father and mother, stepped into marriage this closes, result marriage does not have a few years, two people divorced.
Listen to that sister to say, she marries them after the home, husband's father and mother still not very is waited for see her, in the home because the bagatelle of a few trifles is troubled by,often contradict.
For instance she sweeps the floor to was not swept clean, the bowl was not washed clean, can be taken by the mother-in-law nag, she was not these thing irritate fire less.
And her husband clip is among mom and wife, getting mom at the same time to wife cold-shoulder, listening to wife at the same time to mom complain, both sides does not please, final he is flat go out sought a new home.
Had seen a word before: All relations on this world are to point to get together, only the relation of parents and child is to point to parting.
Say to give birth to a son " married daughter-in-law to forget a woman " , actually this word is not to saying the son is supercilious look wolf, saying however, the life of a person takes every stage, have emphasize particularly on differently, arrive from the mother wife, droit is having complete a business transaction.
Say so, had oneself wife, man when the child, parents is about to have such consciousness: Be the main life that moment exits children.
Have a teleplay before New Year more special fire, a lot of people still have impression, be called " naked marriage age " , "Naked marriage " one word also is discussed because of this teleplay by a lot of people at that time.
Leading role of male and female originally special conjugal love, so that they decide not to consider house car these marriage condition, also do not care about the domestic environment difference of two family, resolutely together.
But after marriage, bilateral parents is too much to two children interpose, all sorts of reasons arrive integratedly one case, bring about two people finally to part company.
"Detail defeats love " , arrive from love marriage, have the wide gap that a need spans, a lot of people had failed, right now the participation plus bilateral parents, let a lot of bagatelle cut ceaseless manage to return chaos, do not have a fault, but the outcome is not quite good however.
Actually, when the child gets married, even if parental or else is at ease, also must regard the child as wait for in light of adult, "Gigantic baby " the vacuum region that only experience crosses to be in charge of without the person, ability him society faces the life, period of this paragraph of vacuum, those who had lived is again bad, it is to need the road of classics.
And parents also need not feel sad, the life that has him himself because of child itself is itinerary, if we concern husband and wife precede over parentage, so you can discover later, accompany those who be beside oneself, still have your other in part.
