Civil: Cc bead edits: Gu Fang square
Origin: Marriage and domestic magazine
ID: Hunyinyujiating99
" the elder sister that brave the wind and waves " the 2nd Ji Kaibo two period, search is heated up on frequency, the topic is full.
The forthright and sincere of the Na Ying after we see musical circle day is direct, see Cheng Lisha walks out of comfortable area to pursue a dream, see A Lan breaks through him to want to spell... the courage that sees 30 elder sisters break heavy in the past him mold.
The years that once had gone is in what elder sisters stay on the body is precipitation, it is wisdom, it is mature glamour.
Besides 30 and the arena of Yi, elder sisters have 30 more and the feeling of Yi is watched, this soulful is connected fully with freely, also bring us a lot of enlightenment.
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Love is the cherry on cake, not be all
As the elder sisters of 30+ , pass practice of emotive all previous, the likelihood meets a person not kind and gentle over- , the likelihood is junior had dashed ahead without thinking his safety, those who had tasted love is sweet, also had sufferred sad pain, they know love more the heft in the life ought not to be exclusive.
Be in " elder sister 2 " on dormitory coze, yang Yuying says: "Love is a cherry on cake, although sweet but just adorn. Although sweet but just adorn..
Deep think like that.
If give 20 years old of right-and-left woman students this word, they may not believe, just can for years so little when flying moth attacks like fire and all in vain get hurt.
Remember the A Duo of on one season, once young when also inspect love all, still interviewing in had said: "Came when love, I am OK () everything gives love. I am OK () everything gives love..
But, once be grown directly into love, complete him consign, suffering and disappointment often are met subsequently and come, after all love and the other side bear feebly so tall expectation.
Below the condition of day of amative serious offence, the can of 3 paragraphs of feeling of young Shi Aduo weighs disaster:
21 years old of careers rise period for first love male friend throws everything, before long, face about of the other side is off the rails boudoir is sweet;
23 years old encounter talent Gao Xiaosong, make her deep however low in dust;
The 3rd male friend is more merciless, cheat light whole body home of A Duo.
She is opposite a finish the expectation of love, one breaks her self-confidence into pieces, one is taken away she is all belongings.
This ability sees the A Duo that is hit to wake by reality clear, gamble notes sign of heart of him whole body in love, if did not encounter right person,be an issue with how large risk.
The A Duo that becomes silent 5 years later is in big hill him rehabilitate, search inner music, redefine love, the definition lives, "Dead in renascent " she generates the elder sister break through brambles and thorns-hack one's way through difficulties that brave the wind and waves again, with colourful everybody of actual strength Jing.
A Duo of 40 years old still can enjoy love nowadays, dan Gengqing wakes clear, ethical music is pursuit, opening a firm is bottom gas, love is a desert only just.
Feng Xuemei ever had said: "One of recipe with successful marriage, do not regard love as namely probably all, love is loaded do not have a woman all great trust. Get, life much portion is gorgeous; Break, life does not come cave in. Life does not come cave in..
The dimension of the life spends all along rich and colorful, love is only firstly, we can believe love, but need not inspect mix exclusively all.
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Discharge oneself in the first place, ability protects good family
The elder sisters that brave the wind and waves as before fresh and be not manacled in the age of 30+ the ground goes pursueing a dream, very main reason depends on retaining ego, and the hand holds option.
They pass in experience after volt rising and fall since emotive, the sort that knows life more should choose to put his in the first place.
What Dong Xuan says no less than: "Because had protected oneself,oneself are the first, ability protects good family. Ability protects good family..
In the family, discharge oneself advanced, withheld the individual's integrality, won't have sacrificial feeling, also not be the love that binds type.
Resemble Dong Xuan, she is OK far when incident just produced Gao Yunxiang go to a thousand li to cost ten million to engage in a lawsuit, inspect there is affection finally justice help, but won't choose to excuse, regard as whats did not happen deceive oneself as well as others submit to humiliation.
" everything is the other side " changeover is become " everything is him happiness " hind, dong Xuan is courageous and resolute divorce recapture counterpoises actively, it is the opportunity that sets out afresh to oneself after do what by humanity and duty, also protected the child to be not harmed by gossip place, below his care health grows.
After watching a lot of people to be not arranged in experience feeling instead, be used to a child of pressure impute to, can say " I do these is for you " " because of you, I just endure humiliation in order to carry out an important task " , this is not love child, however of imparity place.
The choking feeling in feeling often is such generation, always be in platoon of the other side, child the first place, those who be hanged on mouth edge is forever " without him, I am penniless " " the life that the child is me " , little imagine, the more such, the more one ground chicken feather.
Because Xian Shaoai crosses him, "Without me " can bring others aeriform pressure only, face up to oneself only, satisfy the requirement of own heart first, after him joy heavy full figure, ability is capable to love the other side, love the child.
Emotive truth is namely after all previous Jing Qianfan, learning to love oneself more a few, such ability bring family happy sense.
03
Real love is alimentary, let you change a child
" elder sister 2 " in the attitude that included a lot of women: You are OK and lone spell a career, happiness can stand below divorce pursuit, also can the career immerses to enjoy that safe feeling in real love again.
Zhang Xin grants to belong to latter.
Zhang Xin grants to say in the program: He is a person that can ask a bottom for me in my heart, my present condition is returned to again (to) dot.
Before marrying, the love that Zhang Xin grants always is affixed negative label, be said to vie, argumentative, can be in when her " divine arms strange dog " in after encountering He Jie, the heart was full of reliable, care, nice feeling.
There is one act in the program is Zhang Xin grants to be besieged by 4 police dog, he Jie develops the past to pull open instinctively, protect her with the body, return one face to feel distressed.
Zhang Xin grants to fall ill, also be He Jie send her to go to a hospital for a short while, prep let alone is ferial those who prepare breakfast is the inquire after sb's health in, close...
He Jie explained the person that loves you truly is you in the eye, it is the love that does not hide and full protection.
Two people married 2018, zhang Xin grants to promote to a high office army elder brother's wife, this love rose again height.
She call He Jie spiritual prop, hold a bottom in the palm for her forever, support her to do her, it is changeless rear force.
In " elder sister 2 " everyday the Zhang Xin below the training of high strenth grants pressure is very great, she can call cry, comfort in what hear He Jie soft voice hind, resemble be full of energy is achieved like report.
Up to now small gain of He Jie has only, brief introduction is " the umbrella that does an adamancy, the whole world that protects you to love " .
An only comment is to give Zhang Xin to grant to hit Call, call her the child, this is the nickname that He Jie grants to Zhang Xin.
He protects her to help somebody attain his aim, take care of her mood, zhang Xin grants to be experienced, also say " oneself become child like regression " .
Love divides a lot of kinds, but real love is alimentary, it is not to let you get hurt, it is to let you set his mind at to do a child in the home, even if harships also won't make you wringing greatly again,be.
Just be like " marriage is psychological " that word in: "Bad marriage turns the person into lunatic, good marriage turns the person into fool, best marriage turns the person into the child. Best marriage turns the person into the child..
Return to the 3 feeling view of elder sisters, reflection gives mature idea, also let us see the woman can have different outlet, realize different dream and pursuit.
The life is pursuit, love is to perfect, if did not encounter the love that can become the child, that also asks ground of do one's best to love that, see unfolding on a magnificent scale, taste economize to avoid running short, go braving the wind and waves!
