Author | Edit all right into Sai Min | Thriving
Want to see bit of put together art only recently, the star that discovers a rate giving looking glass is very high not hard -- Guo Qilin, actor of actor of the little ganger of heart cloud company, comic dialogue, drama of movie and TV. Of course, the son that there still is Guo Degang in his Title, star is 2 generation, rich 2 generation.
The closest period of time, announce of true it may be said of this little ganger is full, especially put together art, attended what 1000 royal seal chair He Gui, Xie Na, easy melt " the friend has listened please " , Hunan is defended inspect " requested, freezer " , " yearning life 4 " , CCTV " the most powerful head " . In addition, he is returned and " celebrate one's remaining years " the play staff attended together " ace is right ace " , and " sound faces its situation " .
Basis put together art films spot drama is appeared, guo Qilin still attended new one season " run! Brother " .
Sweep anything away of Guo kylin true it may be said is famous put together art, he not only attend, still contribute many hot search, cause heat of one numerous netizen to discuss.
He Gui speaks even the master of ceremonies in the program Guo Qilin: "How to often come up against you recently, HOW OLD ARE YOU (Chinese style English: How often you) ? How often you) ??
Pa Guo De Gang is opposite even him son be jealous must be no good. Small gain of Guo heart program uploads a piece to wear common opera dress, control up individual photograph, match a character to say: "Son, redo program, the manufacturer that has dress of that assistance opera is wanting to choose father " , match the expression of a love.
Everybody knows Guo Degang loves to sing can sing, like an opera especially, prefer gown of boa of opera major dress, this kind of play takes good value not to poor. Guo Qilin of son of propaganda to the enemy at the front line of this Guo Degang helps him help assistance, do laugh dye-in-the-wood.
Of course, this is the fun between father and son just. Guo Degang is the means that uses a kind of such humour actually, to Guo Qilin's current development and achievement, give attention and affirmation.
Subsequently and those who come is to follow of hot search and discharge star from media article, while to Guo kylin affirms, the Yo that also affirmed Guo Degang means, guo Degang " Yan Fu " achievement is more be alluded for many times. Regard De Yun as the vermicelli made from bean starch of the company, I think Guo Degang is strict to Guo Qilin truly, but say this father blindly strict, biasedded a bit.
Lu Xun gentleman writes a poem: True hero of merciless may not, pity child how not the husband.
The fact is such really, guo Degang treats Guo Qilin, heart of Bodhisattva of thunder method + , have absolutely " androgynous " feature.
01 " Yan Fu " Guo Degang: Teach the child to be an upright person, learn art, monetary view, meticulous.Guo Degang is a Niu Ren, he ox, because he is enough really to oneself,be firm. He learns in one's childhood art, the day does not shine to rise train one's voice, was brought up 3 times to be become into Beijing " north floats " , end is dead, bitter dead, tired dead, did not abandon be being entered to professional pursuit and essence.
Because kind and enmity leaves the Li Jing of comic dialogue actor of heart cloud company, also accepting the affirmation when interviewing this: "He lets a person admire to professional persistence, a day no matter what do, the promotes major plan of the row now thing, finish now, won't protracted, won't sell at a discount. Won't sell at a discount..
Experience is jealousy of person of the same trade, false later advertisement, cover an area of dozen of reporter, prentice leave etc is dispute blame, heart cloud company closes a month is transformed, management upgrades. Old partner was full of at modest admire: "If not be him this strong disposition, won't have heart cloud company today. Won't have heart cloud company today..
Strong bovine person father, the career makes the unboiled water that get wind, gain both honor and money, also withstand test because of bearing, the route goes wider more, go firmer more.
Serve child field, niu Ren is taken oneself " Yan Fu " feature. But Guo Degang is right Guo Qilin's severity, be not All matters, basically reflect in 3 crucial aspects.
The first, be an upright person.
Because of the home in prentice much, live in the home, kylin of Guo of his for fear that bullies alien as master home, ask oneself child is letting others first as a child. What good thing lets others eat first, final ability is turn for Guo Qilin.
Yan Hexiang ever recollected Guo Qilin's partner say master Guo Home De Gang, see there is a bag of biscuit on the desk, take eat.
Guo Qilin says cautiously: Elder brother, can I eat this cracker not? Yan Hexiang very questioningly: "Why cannot you eat? This is your home. " so Guo Qilin arrives as a child big, courteous, comity, low-key the custom that became in one's heart, who is red, whose fire, the meeting in his heart is envied, but he never envious.
Cloud roc says small Yue Yueyue: "He if the person of easy jealousy, our day won't feel well. " Guo Qilin not only not envious Yue Yunpeng, still should aid to Yue Yunpeng act, speak ceaselessly from black, small Yue Yue of foil leading role.
The 2nd, learn art.
Him Guo Degang is very persistent to comic dialogue art, go into business of school work of break down of Guo kylin junior high school learns comic dialogue, bai Yuqian is division, from be according to traditional comic dialogue the way of show of assiduous training, basic skill, small theater, special performance goes at the beginning, and other and prentice same, without exception.
This child had not gotten father is praised almost, the severity of all of one suit, made a fault, publicize criticism, did not leave a feelings. Guo Qilin gives Yue Yunpeng special performance to do aid act, because field of selection of subject, expression and special performance theme, gas is special not tie-in, guo Degang has not been enraged, before dawn 2, at 3 o'clock, ground of paragraphs of big on small gain still paragraphs of big character scolds Guo Qilin: "Clumsy child ignorant. "Clumsy child ignorant..
Although Duan Zi of kylin of others boast Guo says well, have a root, but father does not express an affirmation face to face. Even Guo Qilin should appear on the stage only, guo Degang gets perspiration with respect to insecurity, appear on the stage to return insecurity than oneself.
The 3rd, monetary view.
Guo Qilin is a star 2 generation, more rich 2 generation, but he is afraid is to resemble least of all rich the person of 2 generation of 2 generation, star. Hire door of room, dig or dig out with a finger or sth pointed, outside eating, sell, the thing became bad bearing, shop have dozen fold do not agree to let off absolutely.
He is in many put together art in said, as a child he does not have pocket money, it is recumbent money given to children as a lunar New Year gift spends a year, as a child content desire is lower. He says cross talk in heart cloud company, pa Mom should be smoked, little ganger is on his name, it is an employee actually. The place that he earns is rich, it is oneself one mouth says one mouth a comic dialogue, announce an announce runs.
So, guo Degang is " Yan Fu " , but went up strictly in the dot.
02 " feline pa " Guo Degang: Aid the child to become his, accomplish oneself, patience is meticulous.Guo Degang once had had a classical word: "My Guo Degang is what kind of person, you saw Guo Qilin know later. " netizens say later " parturient should be like Guo Qilin. " do what one says of Guo Degang it may be said.
If father is severity only, be just like is only " red Lou Meng " in father Gu Zheng of Gu Baoyu is same, the child is to be afraid of him, but do not respect him from the heart. Parentage became a kind of feudal the Confucian or feudal ethical code.
Guo Degang record of formal schooling is not tall, but love read, feel comic dialogue actor can do not have diploma, but cannot do not have culture. No matter be to review the history, still savour experience, he very know Guo Qilin, also need most in Guo kylin life when, the patience that if loving mother is general,gave out, meticulous with warmth.
Guo Qilin says comic dialogue has had confused period.
Guo Qilin's show, at most two audiences. On the side Yue Yunpeng's a place where people gather for various purposes, the person gets bench to sit not quite completely, still come over to move a chair. He cannot see a hope, think back out. He and father say to want not to say cross talk, think up a country to study abroad learn a director, feel Yan Fu can stamp with fury originally, ke Guode program said below a paragraph of words.
"You had thought, can go. There is a bottom in my heart nevertheless, do not know you are performing a respect to be able to reach a what kind of artistic height. But say cross talk, you should believe I see the person's eye, you are this material. You had tried hard several years, if abandon at this moment, true regrettablly. Hard to avoid can regret in the future. You consider cautiously again. You consider cautiously again..
Guo Qilin cannot think of, strong father can be mixed like the friend his confide in sb, patient ground said so much word. He decides to insist to be boiled again later, precipitate again precipitation. He reduces weight later successful, professional essence of life is entered, discharge vermicelli made from bean starch subsequently and come, special performance entrance ticket once second of put on sale is empty. Because one him pace steps the success, he did not wave, modester instead discretion is low-key.
Guo Qilin wants to do his all the time.
He loves to say cross talk, but he also has deep love for a performance. For the performance, he reduces weight, training acting, be in even a field within an inch of get hurt blind eye. Guo Degang never is barring, say with him even: "You want what to do after, what to do, father does not have an opinion. " Yan Fu becomes feline father thoroughly, let go, do-nothing and treated.
Encountered till Guo Qilin " celebrate one's remaining years " Fan Saizhe, lovely and vivid acting, conquered the director is mixed one numerous actor, also conquered wide audience. The reporter asks: "How does your pa evaluate this your role? " he says for fun: "Do not have an evaluation, my pa does not see teleplay. " later, guo kylin main actor often abandons a modern drama " Niu Tianci " , when respond to a curtain call, guo Degang appears suddenly stagewise. Guo Qilin is to be stupefied first, there is father cry bitterly after more than 20 seconds. Father is touching a son hind back, the person all without exception that knows this pair of father and son uses a facial expression.
Feline pa looks what be like also without giving thought to, paying close attention to the child's tendercy closely actually. Guo Degang shows up personally go explore class, affirm in public: "Act by force than me. " of Guo Qilin touch, should be a sensible child, won father's affirmation eventually, the sort of happy feeling.
So, when Guo Degang is severe, also be " feline pa " , have the softness with general loving mother.
03 how to learn to do " androgynous " parents?I feel, yo want really androgynous, more than it is father should want to understand the child again to child severity already, the mother also should be in perceptual, add rational part. Specific proposal is as follows:
1) before the pine after tightening, sagacious and relaxed.
Good parentage, it is one goes gradually gradually far itinerary. Good Yo, accompany the child to walk along a paragraph namely, help start, send one Cheng. And of the child grow have each level sensitive period, also have the expiration period. When needing most if be not accompanied, do not pay close attention to, no matter manage, arrived to be brought up to just pay close attention to overly, management, be afraid get half the result with twice the effort, the effect not beautiful.
Yo of mother's brother of my home watch had stepped on such hole. He gives more when a child is small the old person will take, arrived after junior high school receive return him home, pay close attention to study only, be in charge of very more however effects is very small. The child is traitorous, close child communicate not free, the child got depressed disease actually, the watch husband'ses father also anxious white head.
2) aid of broad severe look, the relationship is harmonious.
Mr. Fan Deng is in unscramble Yo when education concerns, say, the parent is taught goodly effectively to the child, it is to build on nice affection link. If affection link is short of,be broken or undesirable, this education is afraid so not smooth, instead was become homiletic.
But this is not to say, to cater to the child, with respect to blindly indulgent TA. Plato says: Want finish a child, it is be used to is worn TA. Involve the issue of safety and morality, must strict, cannot cross a bottom line.
In the meantime, strict also not be violent, not be arbitrary. " openly certainly " demonstrate a kind of manner -- tender and sturdy, the benefit of broad severe look that often says with us happens to have the same view.
3) open state of mind, embrace future.
Like believing a lot of people resemble me, had listened to elder sigh with regret: Generation is inferior to generation.
I see 9 jins of old ladies in novel of Lu Xun gentleman often say this word, have actual prototype very much. Can is reality how? The youth becomes drive of brain truster of pioneer of science and technology, management, innovation to wait, this epidemic situation, a lot of 90 hind it is be the first to be affected more, charge forward.
Big probability incident is generation stronger than generation. Guo Qilin says: "My pa is a Niu Ren, I say comic dialogue also cannot catch up with my pa all one's life. Say to defeat avirulent. But I become myself, possible still. Label exists, I am Guo Degang's son, this need not be ripped, also rip do not drop. Also rip do not drop..
Epidemic situation is affected now, heart Yun Shejiu did not open box, guo Qilin however especially active, someone speaks, perhaps Guo Qilin is carrying the KPI of company of cloud of whole moral character.
Actually, the Guo Degang that goes in times front row also is in the round put together of company of layout heart cloud, the way that Guo Qilin Zuo gives in those days, have 100 interest absolutely and do not have kill. Besides the youth the effort of one generation, parents of one generation let go, understanding and support, can let heart cloud company move toward future certainly more the development road that is full of a hope. My wait and see what happens.
Parents loves children, do it plan far-reaching. " reply please 1988 " deep feeling of father of heart be apt to has said: Father also is to become father first, do badly to be excused more please. Irrespective, the Yo that keeps sagacious and open idea, have " androgynous " growing state of mind, we have an opportunity, grow together with the child, embrace greatly the world, had taken happy life together!