" my elder sister " booking office cuts piece of 300 million beans 7.4, why to after elder sisters

" my elder sister " show a club for amateur performers of Beijing opera 3 days to already was defeated only 300 million, fabaceous valve grading amounts to 7.4 minutes. This film wins not only came high booking office, and also got public praise is approbated, zhang Zifeng's acting is wide suffer reputably. However, browse fabaceous valve film review, you can discover, have not less likewise " elder sister " the audience of the identity, after stating oneself see movie very furious.

This film from director, playwrite, leading role uniform it is the female takes on, cut exquisite female perspective, mirrorred a female according to the facts the place in actual society and experience. This kind is opposite of woman place in all affection, essence of life hit affection pain spot of the female definitely, made them produce extremely strong generation to enter feeling.

Of personate of Zhang Zifeng place peacefully this one part, because be the girl natively, very unfair treatment underwent in former unripe family. This kind of experience, caused the resonance of friend of a lot of female. "Elder sister " people the experience that associates because of film to oneself, it is the girl, had done an elder sister, this kind begins to enchase the secret anguish on the body from life initial stage, be come out by easily Gou Lian drawing so.

These secret anguish, painful in detail, painful in the groan in parents, painful in the ignore in grandfather grandma, painful when the little brother bullies you high and mighty with of course in. "You are an elder sister, letting a little brother with respect to this. " parents establishs the iron rule below as a child, decided you are in the home " second-class citizen " position, grew up in you even, still be compressed in the iron rule that is this imparity.

"The demon that help younger brother " cold-shoulder for place of a lot of people, but " the demon that help younger brother " how to arise? Come from parental domestication just about: You are an elder sister, everything is letting a little brother with respect to this; Have delicious, want to eat to the little brother first; The difficulty in the home, can read for your little brother only; You work to earn bit of money more, add dot head to pay to your little brother.

The aunt in the drama of Zhuyuan Yuan personate says: "I am an elder sister, from be born that day is, it is all the time. " " elder sister " the identity ases if is an original sin, bearing heavy responsibility natively, prepare to make sacrifice for the life of brethren of another opposite sex at any time.

France is famous ideologist Lu shuttle says: "Life and equal, however in present everywhere chains. " this comes from traditional society be with the family standard, male honour the idea idea of female low, still confine is worn modern woman, become even chain the chains of female lifetime.

Had entered 21 centuries more than 20 years nowadays, and heavy male light female feudal thought pernicious influence still is on this land blossom everywhere, work of our novel, film, movie and TV still must reflect the theme of this one cruelty, still have many woman audience, sit in the cinema, go up for screen " elder sister " the experience of experience is hit, cry bitterly, indignant, because this is them,this group encounters jointly, it is the secret anguish that illegallies or forcibly occupy difficult in their life character.

As the child that is not protected by parents as a child, mastered independence peacefully, learned to protect oneself, learned to be before ride roughshod over do all one can revolts. Her effort, brave, stubborn, university period is in economically already depended on parents no longer, rely on oneself to work do one's best bore all tuition, living cost. She just has a job, have one Duan Wunian's feeling, preparative take an examination ofing grinds, struggling for the dream.

Parents is final if wished to give birth to a little brother, in a photograph that 3 happiness are permeated with, not peacefully. Return the home, the little brother resembles a small devil bullying her euqally, before them, like feeling oneself resemble an alien peacefully. Try hard through oneself peacefully fortunately, gradually wherefrom broke away from in the former unripe family that does not have him space come out. She is about to develop her life truly, pursue oneself career and value.

However an accident traffic accident, threw into confusion everything. Parents double die, the destiny gives birth to the little brother forcedly unripe push peacefully before. Had not met a few times with the little brother peacefully, without what feeling foundation, she also brings up the little brother's obligation without have to actually.

But the pressure that comes from traditional idea and familial kin, coercing she bears a burden that raises young younger brother. The aunt asks straight from the shoulder to raise a little brother peacefully, although she also is an elder sister that once dropped him future for little brother sacrifice. Because this is heavy male light female idea, the aunt is sufferred from by its, abandon a dream, old hind the life that lives not up to much, nowadays however the first accessory that makes this male authority society, press niece continues to sacrifice for the little brother. Generation another generation, continueing the female's distress.

But the career pursuit that having oneself peacefully and life program, the little brother of childhood is not in her program detailed list. Initial stage faces the pressure of this kind of outside, refuse flatly peacefully, not.

In the viewpoint of value that is standard with the family in the tradition, domestic interest just is the first, the individual is asked to be a family and stoop to compromise, into the harmony of family front courtyard and continuance. The elder sister sacrifices for the little brother, be regarded as of course.

As social development and progress, the viewpoint of value that is standard with the individual gradually dash forward show come, respect the individual's desire, emphasize ego development of the individual and self-fulfilment.

These two kinds of viewpoint of value attend openly engage in a battle or contest, produce conflict, in film concentration is reflected in peacefully on place. It is the career dream that pursues oneself at the same time, seek self-fulfilment, it is traditional idea forces at the same time the takes care of young younger brother responsibility at the body.

If not be peacefully right now,just graduate of course, the career is in start level, dream will sailing, however already the person arrives middleaged, the career is in stability period, economy has safeguard, perhaps she can give attention to two or morethings is both, can develop a career to be able to take care of young younger brother again already.

But with peacefully the ability nowadays and place, can not accomplish both give attention to two or morethings, take care of certainly will of young younger brother to affect her to go after dream and development facilities. This is sure to have among them sacrifice and abandon.

Peacefully first when the attitude of rebuff, since cannot accept an unfamiliar little brother on affection, also be a kind of revolt that she adds all Yu Jishen's debar from holding office to the tradition, also be the choice that she stems from reason and makes at the same time. She chooses her life and dream, and rather than kisses the little brother that affection binds. By what must requirement elder sister be little brother him sacrifice?

Find the foster parent with rich family circumstances for the little brother peacefully, gave foster parent the in part that sells a house fund, this also is to act on a kind of responsible to the little brother manner peacefully actually, made rational choice.

Little brother even year young, need domestic warmth, and family circumstances the rich, foster parent that does not have the child, can give a little brother care, and have enough economic actual strength, foster goodly to the little brother with education. And compare to it, peacefully economic actual strength and condition are far be inferior to foster parent. By will bring up a little brother peacefully, not only it is a huge burden peacefully to, ask to make self-abnegation peacefully without fail, and to the little brother grow with education character, also may not is a good choice.

Film opened the scar that giving birth to a family formerly as the girl, also revealed become independent peacefully of self-improvement hold to with struggle, and what she faces traditional confine and familial pressure is sober with revolt. But film is in declare publicly place before modern woman after a rational and bright new way, bag bag turns, recur the theme of close affection round again zigzag, let heroine peacefully return a conventional old road.

It is peacefully in the process that gets along with the little brother, the little brother is abrupt the small devil from one each illicit, now.. turns quality, become very sensible, speak a few unlike he the stir word that this age child can speak, the back gives the line that a few have scheming quite by what adult teachs him to say of purpose it seems that. Peacefully the bowstring of the close affection in the heart is ineffable be dialed to move, the little brother called in the last moment, him decision brings up a little brother.

Those girls that had been harmed deeply by serious male light female thought, those for the little brother be forced to sacrifice bear " elder sister " people, face the outcome of this unexpected turn and regain old road, how many have some of disappointment, their expectation came to nothing.

Making the stand of independent female, still return to traditional value sense, no matter how much had experienced pungent struggle to revolt with do all one can, want a dozen going out only the 100 close affection plates that try accurate, the name of the coronal with kissing affection, return to the theme of affection and love, again independent again traitorous girl, take immediately soft, good gracious the baton that has received a tradition, continue to sacrifice ego and achievement " little brother " .

"Elder sister " people can you go without other way?

Just think, give foster parent smoothly little brother commit sth to sb's care peacefully, the little brother begins normal family life, much a care that comes from foster parent is taken care of, again a few growner with respect to enter a school, accept school education. Do not have heavy economic burden peacefully, single-minded devotion is taken an examination of grind, go going all out in work for oneself dream, career, become outstanding and powerful oneself.

The little brother is become no longer peacefully heavy burden, won't have sacrificial feeling, grievance feeling to the little brother peacefully, confront a little brother easily then, arrange its naturally to convey care, resemble a friend same, build friendship kissing affection equally. The little brother is grown after the adult, those who face is one is what he dreams and had gone all out in work to paddle one's own canoe, self-confident and powerful elder sister.

Photograph comparing is little brother him sacrifice at future, in the end misses development opportunity, get not up to much too and the elder sister of bellyful complaint, a such ego develop good elder sister, can the experience with oneself and pattern, bring the influence of more positive obverse side for the little brother, provide more help, mere the sort of self-confident and powerful gas field and life condition, affect the person all round with respect to enough, the effect that produces exert a subtle influence on sb's character to the little brother.

The times is developing, science and technology is in progress, social idea also is in the concussion with unprecedented experience and evolution. And broad female, still be in however kill for stale ideology and traditional ideal place kill, place be a burden on. "Elder sister " people longing casts off this kind of traditional society to add all chains at the body, with " little brother " get euqally equal treatment. "Elder sister " people expect to be in ego development and take care of when the little brother is afoul, can have another kind of choice, can make rational choice without psychological burden ground, and be not censured inscrupulously by social public opinion.

After all, they are themselves above all, just be an elder sister next. And do an elder sister, also have different way.