2018-06-07 07:47 | Zhejiang news client is carried | Colourful county Party committee of king of reporter of learn on job reports group of Zhang Shangwei foliaceous ceremony mark
"Read a book more, enrich oneself, in mediating a process ability know how things stand and feel confident of handling them is enraged! " on Xie Xuewei's desk, put two large books -- " Sikaofa is in charge of " and " people court is practical manual " , this is the baby of his mind, want to break up on a few times everyday. Dark skin, laugh to bare white tooth, xie Xuewei of 48 years old is bureau of judicatory of green cropland county director of institute of lukewarm brook judicatory, also be Qing Tian's famous people adjuster.
"Hear your mediation is famouser, my husband should divorce with me, can you help me? " on June 1 in the morning 8 when 30 minutes, xie Xuewei just reached the office, the Wei of woman Xiangxie snow that urban district of a Cong Lishui comes appeals. This woman all the year round outer deal, like card games, often lose money. The husband disrelishs wife disposition poor, return gamble, the requirement divorces. After Xie Xuewei understands a situation, also called the man judicatory place, let two people communicate face-to-face, speak.
"Resemble seeing a doctor to the hospital, the doctor opened medicine to you, you do not cooperate to eat, how can you solve a problem? Disposition does not change, bet addiction not Buddhist monastic discipline, family how can harmonious? " " harships of husband and wife has gone more than 20 years, the wife encounters difficult problem, want to carry a responsibility to help her walk out of predicament as the husband, escape to be able to make a circumstance more abominable only... " two people of Xie Xuewei and husband and wife chatted one morning, two people from meet to quarrel calm, promise to come home to be communicated well.
Will appeal like such admire names Xie Xuewei's person is very much. Neighbor neighbour sees Xie Xuewei, metropolis affectionately cries on one times " foliaceous director " . Village somebody encounters traffic accident, xie Xuewei helps actively mediation compensates for matters concerned; Sisters-in-law wife and mother is troubled by contradiction, he can explain legal knowledge to them; Encounter neighborhood dispute, he is reincarnate peacemaker, locate the problem source of bilateral conflict, mediate separately... " I am peasant family background, villagers find sth useful I, it is have a good opinion of me. " Xie Xuewei says. These year come, foliaceous snow Wei dissolves seniority contradictory issue many 1000, among them difficulty contradiction dispute many 500, was not complained together up to now and go back on his word.
What should ask Xie Xuewei mediation has alone door unique skill? That is him sum up according to reconciling experience for years " listen, comb, differentiate, attune, definitely " solution of 5 tones of Chinese characters. Xie Xuewei likes to open the intercessory spot of type, participation person is more, heard thing is more comprehensive. Mediating the spot, he can talk about the daily life of a family with the other side first, seek collective site, atmosphere of delay vent one's anger, pull close quarters, open each other radio receiving set. Listen attentively to the its reason of bilateral party affliction again, serious record, after the event is combed believe source fact, involved law regulations with all possible means, manage gives a clear logistic line, time line, character clue, judge dispute responsibility.
"Small contradictory processing is bad, possible meeting leads to big question. " once had " small contradiction " look for Xie Xuewei, however " be a hard job to " a few his months. Lukewarm brook town has a family, wife and mother often quarrels, the mother-in-law is not willing to be communicated with the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law cannot understand a grandmother, domestic contradiction become rigid 8 years many. For the relation between alleviation wife and mother, he is not afraid of cold face, come repeatedly. Talk about the daily life of a family, talk about legal principle, share the happy case after other family contradiction is dissolved, have a few times took a wife to help mediation together even. "The home is port, the home and ability all things are promoted, want to miss each other good point more, mutual understanding... " in two months, he uses a variety of method mediation, eventually repair the crack of 8 years between wife and mother.
The fellow with this strong-bodied appearance loves to consider particularly, can rectify evening to ponder over intercessory plan occasionally. He still likes to study the intercessory case of others and way, often mediate a method to the adjuster ask for advice with famous county. "The force of my person is faint, everybody tries hard together thing more easy to handle " . He still is by choose " mediation of live abroad countryside is round " colonel, his mediation experience is without reservation to impart everybody, drive more ginseng and mediation.
