01.
What a lot of husband and wife pass is not happy, it is to maintaining marriage constrainedly even, live cat-and-dog life everyday, or as stranger general, without any speech communication.
But pass without giving thought to how, do not divorce namely, be to had not wanted to divorce? Perhaps fear to divorce?
Actually a lot of husband and wife had had the idea of the divorce, but still meet after reason analyses advantages and disadvantages and gain and loss, a lot of husband and wife or choice been makinging do with.
Why can fear to divorce after all, and the woman of the divorce most fear what? We might as well listen to these 3 a n experienced person how to say!
02.
A: Ms. Wu, 32 years old, divorce two years
Because with husband 3 view should not,divorcing at the outset is, what to do not to do, I what he does am not accepted, he what I say also does not understand.
As time passes, our husband and wife is communicated without any phonetic, everyday you watch your TV, I see my mobile phone, like passing so that resemble two stranger.
such I am not borne, divorced with him, fortunately we still do not have the child, left me to also won't regret.
But I now most those who fear is marriage, get hurt, lifelong and unforgettable, in one day is bitten by the snake, be afraid of well rope 10 years.
Blame only quite at the outset oneself are too capricious, good without understanding rapid move marries him went out.
B: Ms. Liu, 37 years old, divorce 3 years
Our husband and wife originally very happy, the marital trend cracked that brings about me finally because of former husband off the rails. I want to be illogical, where he plays at ordinary times go where be away on official business, I not very has gone asking him, because I am very trustful he, believe he won't be done outside I am sorry my thing.
But he is off the rails now, because had been not enraged temporarily,feel wronged and act rashly with him divorced. I may be more ambitious, face marital problem the look in my eye must not have the least bit sand, it is to betray what is more,the rather that more.
Want at the outset I am too innocent really, the accredit that thinks he is enough and space, he can be known cherish me, I discover in the end I became wrong, but I won't because such and lose a hope to future.
Once husband and wife's clinking accredit, because,be however too too trustful ability brings about the other side off the rails and betray, evermore does not know to who should believe.
After the divorce most those who fear is to trust again other, because you exceed trustful each other, instead by the other side from hind the back gives ground of your firm firm one knife.
C: Duckweed elder sister, 42 years old, divorce one year, bringing the child
Everybody thinks domestic happiness is perfect, but reality has a lot of things to cannot achieve what one wishes.
After I divorce oneself a person is bringing the child, the child goes up now first 2, very sensible very filial also. I present was at ease a lot of, but I am done not have also the plan of marriage.
If no matter be the child of oneself child or the other side,remarry, can fear. The child of bad certainly the other side, father to be able to provoke person complaint, say stepmother abuses the child; A bit more loose, fear again alien says pair of children without any consideration, it how be done is difficult to how be done.
Miss oneself child again, whether can be treated by inequity, fear to faced the child to become a bank of woman of a lot of divorces, hard a bank of exceed.
03.
Pass person of a paragraph of postnuptial to experience for, no matter be because of what reason divorce, should realise him marriage because of what reason burst.
No matter the route in front goes much hardlier, marriage fears after the woman calculates a divorce, fear to trust again other, fear to face the child, also want hard to go from inside the shadow of the divorce.
For oneself for the child, want to learn to face the life leisurely, is not too pessimistic in the past, it is better and better to should believe to come oneself were not met.
