Always have some of thing, can encounter cannot beg
Always have some of person, can beg cannot stay
Do not know everybody to had looked " breathed confess " this book, such saying there is a word inside, "We are born firstly eventually, it is to cast off of other expect, find true oneself. Find true oneself..
This word makes a lot of people impressive, experience sympathize. Really, the world is very great, will of people is very young, want to go out alive true oneself are very difficult really!
Because of the person this all one's life, total somebody envies you, somebody is fed up with you, somebody envies you, somebody looks down on you. You are again good, pay again, cherish again, also cannot make everybody satisfactory.
In the life, we should contact different person everyday, a lot of moment, constant the feeling because of attend to other, and subdued oneself, to achieve all round the person's expectation, and severe exacting him requirement, as far as possible show perfect pattern, think to be able to be admitted everywhere so.
But, move back and forth at mixed person in, total meeting is encountered inevitably helpless when.
Be like some things, had tried hard obviously, the result still fares badly; Some people, had drawn out a heart to draw out lobar treatment obviously, those who change is cool detachment photograph is waited for however; Some things, had handholded closely obviously, still slide finally from inside the hand.
Soon all effort all one's efforts wasted, our meeting not reconciled to, agonistic, do not wish to let go.
Can make eventful,
Care about more, jump over things go contrary to one's wishes;
Importune more, force oneself so that can go without the road more;
Make everybody satisfactory hard more, jump over oneself tired dog-tired.
A lot of moment, we must admit, so called compare the heart the heart, pay having get one's own back is be an armchair strategist nevertheless.
In the life, always have some of thing, can encounter cannot beg, always have some of person, can beg cannot stay.
To life this gives play, no matter you are deduced much weller, do not have decretal everybody satisfaction. Even if make much ado, beautiful empty idea goes pleasing, misunderstanding, blame, disappoint still comes unexpectedly, the more enduring, jump over bad others of meeting be used to, bring harm to oneself.
The brigade in rough cragged life, each pace goes not easily originally, why to raise negative charge to oneself even. Be approbated for a of others and subdue oneself, expect never-endingly for that, let oneself second get hurt.
Go up in this world everybody is unique, without who should please who.
The life is him, behoove passes for his expectation, be not is the world that takes others, the setting that goes be born when people on one's own side.
The life, the most important is to let his get happy satisfaction too, is not the look that oneself adornment likes into others.
Ever had seen a paragraph of such words,
In a paragraph of relation, no matter be friendship or love, if let you feel exhaustion, explain you should end this paragraph of relationship, of stoop to compromise maintain, can make oneself more and more depressive only.
You come to this world is not for repay a debt, so you need not be in charge of for the feeling of other, life is brief, what you should do most is to please his hard.
In a kind of any relations, if be one-sided only desperately please, meet only will true oneself are forgotten, lose finally in the world of others.
The meaning of life is not the model that turns his into other to expect, want to do a person that oneself like however. Want to gain the favour of other, should do sincerity above all oneself, listen attentively to the sound of own heart attentively, follow a heart and go.
Will wind so much person back and forth in life, accomplish impossibly make everybody satisfactory. Person vivid generation, not easy, why to subdue oneself for undeserved person or thing even.
So, in limited time, as far as possible him please, do oneself to think the thing that do, say oneself think saying word, still oneself a relaxed and wanton life.
After all life is alive, final we look to oneself alive, know only how to get along with oneself, ability maintains the harmony of body and mind. Know how to get along with oneself, just be life is essential.
How to see us as to others, it is the thing of others, set his mind at to had done oneself, it is the biggest cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine.
