Marriage is the obligatory course of majority person lifetime. Some people have happy marriage, some people spent lifetime perfunctorily, in the end still complains marriage is the graveyard of love.
Actually the life after your marriage passes how, there is mark before marriage already but abide.
01.
Guard marital bottom line
The hall is registered in marriage of bureau of civil administration of Guangxi cane county recently, produced the event of an astounded letting a person.
Be registered to the men and women marry, result woman says for fun " should consider " , the man beside immediately be ashamed into anger, the fist since brandish is bungled toward woman body.
The woman is without the force that ward off blows, one fist one fist, be bungled to her head entirely. Be hit so that the woman of Liang stagger Qiang is overturned to be in the ground by the man directly, continue to hit, connect the staff member beside to cannot prevent this to send crazy man.
Play joke because of only, be in by the man communal circumstance mad beat up, fortunately this has not gotten card, take the advantage of this opportunity recognize his real features, get away of as soon as possible also does not calculate too deficient.
What make a person did not think of however is, two people still are troubled by greatly in civil administration bureau in the morning, happy afternoon will get card. Still taking old Mom and little brother to come over together, look the look that is everyone is happy actually.
They return an explanation to say, want a consideration namely in the morning, felt to be no problem now, get card so.
See here, I want to say only, you can grow the girl mug-up!
One does not divide green red black and write before marriage, to the man that you strike violently, don't you imagine the day after marriage?
One is battling oneself physiology advantage, connect the man that the woman plays, what good thing can you be?
Knowing perfectly well is a fiery pit still is gone to in jump, are you foolish? Marry such man, have very big hidden trouble.
But a lot of girls are such, in love when, meeting fine long hair includes unprincipledly everything of the other side, flatter oneself a kind of expression that this is love the other side, but she forgot however, the more such, let the other side feel you do not have a bottom line more.
Then he is met second ground goes exploring you, till finally you are driven beyond forbearance, but harm had been caused.
This is not to loving the other side actually, however indulgent, also be irresponsible to oneself, might as well in shine with respect to banner brightly at the beginning oneself bottom line.
It is good to see a person, it is good to there is many to you when it is good to cannot see him, should look however there is many to you when he is bad bad, and this " bad " degree is a bottom line.
I cannot accept the man that has violent tendency, if once, part company immediately, absolutely not laggard; I cannot accept off the rails man, once discover, decisive leave.Such, the other side knows your bottom line, running time of this paragraph of emotive, also can notice not to let oneself span mine field, because he knows, once he was done so, cost is him cannot susceptive.
In the bottom line, I will be patient everything what you do, besides the bottom line, feel embarrassed, roll my world please.
02.
Do not try to change opposite party with marriage
Skyline has a netizen that calls Duan Chen the brook to ever was sent post appeal, she is 22 years old when marry with husband, husband is 29 years old, had divorced, because his gamble was owed,the reason that divorces in those days is usurious, his mother borrows Qian Cai to still go up everywhere finally.
When talking about love with her later, husband is particularly good to her, belong to a kind that when grant whatever is requested.
The family member does not agree at that time, think to gamble this abuse, meeting future trouble is boundless in the future. But she feels, because gamble causes breaking up one's family of a marriage, husband can get a lesson for certain. Besides, husband loves her so, she can let husband change for certain, then honor permits no turning back was married.
After marriage before long, the business compensate in the home, owed a few debt, at this moment husband begins to confuse again went up to gamble, a month was defeated 150 thousand. In very fast home again be heavily in debt.
The more such, husband wants to pass gamble drain more, feel big to win to be able to return all debt, the result jumps over defect however deeper.
She and husband had made a noise to had been been troubled by, every time husband says to be not betted, but the result just transferred underground from bright face, his excuse goes out to sign a contract, talk about the business, but was to sit to bet every time on the desk.
Finally, she can choose to move only, move very far from gambling house place, but husband has idea namely, pick up a very close gambling house, continue to bet.
She does not have economic origin, think the divorce is afraid of again however raise not vivid oneself and child, live in kink and anguish everyday. All day long in the home is troubled by even fowls and dogs are not left in peace, , after husband was losing money, strike her violently even.
After all, this a bitter pill to swallow can swallow by oneself only.
This individual be addicted to knows to bet before marriage, if can Buddhist monastic discipline is gotten, before one paragraph of marriage also won't such fall to pieces. But she is plunged into directly unluckily go in, innocent thinking depends on the force of oneself to be able to let realize one's errors and mend one's ways of the other side.
Too much woman resembles this girl same, always think marriage can transform a man.
There is violent tendency before marriage, irrespective, he is too care about me, after marrying, we have each other only, he set his mind at, won't start work; The be addicted to before marriage is betted, irrespective, I am providing the economic power in the home after marriage, do not have money to go out to bet to him, he also is met slowly Buddhist monastic discipline is betted; The heart is spent before marriage, irrespective, I and he married, had sense of responsibility, he is natural after marriage of meeting concentrate on more serious things;But, if him person does not have the resolution that wants a change, so no matter how the outside lets him change, he just handles a period of time at most, can restore normality very quickly.
The when resembling author poplar is in " marriage is a bagatelle " in say in that way:
Do not try to change opposite party into oneself to imagine medium appearance, he is what kind of, after marrying, be what kind of, imagining after marrying, he can change you to imagine medium appearance, that is nonexistent empty insignificant illusion, the life should be built on reality, not be to build on fiction.
Every purpose serves as condition and method to change the man's girl with marriage, be defeated like red the gambler of the eye, on their detain oneself the result that all weight used on a balance go to betting an inaccuracy to decide, but this result, often be not quite good.
03.
The water that drinks in the brain before marriage will become the tear that sheds after marriage eventually
Author luxuriant and beautiful shared the experience of herself.
Husband disposition is more irratable, it have what thing is very easy to have what thing mood out of control. Before marriage, they see disagreement because of affection of a thing, quarrel greatly one.
Husband is like abrupt and crazy general, start will take get up the pillow that go up is bungled toward her body, it is firm firm ground is bungled, subsequently, he forces in front of her, clutch lives her neck, that eyes, like seeming to want homicide gloomy and cold.
Parents all the time the manner is very determined the ground expresses to object, think this man disposition is immature, the following matrimony is very difficult happy.
But she is inexorable at that time go, although be opposite before husband she this appearance, but hard to avoid of husband and wife quarrels, she is willing to remember his fine to oneself detail more.
But marry later, husband still is important matter bagatelle does not divide green red black and write to start work lay a person.
It is in the evening once outer drink, call say not to come back, two people are noisy in the phone rise, midnight husband come back, to her what sleep soundly firm firm swung spank.
Still be two people produce contradiction for a few bagatelle again once, husband hit her before the face of daughter of 4 years old not only, still played a daughter.
So far, she can no more continue to bear. It is for the daughter, after also thinking the daughter is grown, face mom every day by the setting with cruel home, and lose confidence thoroughly to marriage, final they or divorce.
In those days the person that oneself are determined to want to marry, she thinks can be a good a home to return to, never consider the matter that parents objects to the utmost however, never also think the serious flaw on disposition of the other side.
A word says well: The tear that sheds after marriage, it is the water that drinks in the brain before marriage.
Obviously a few weakness that cannot ignore are placed in at the moment, but you still are one bring shame on two, thought of a heart should be married the other side, lead to blunder finally, even if he is wrong, but that act wilfully oneself, should also want to think over?
04.
A lot of people feel, oneself marital misfortune is to meet a person not kind and gentle.
But you had thought, perhaps you are in before marrying, the other side had exposed a lot of principle errors, it is you think this loves only can penitentiary he, then you hold a pair of this in beginning sodden card closely, the purpose is recumbent lot has hit it, to finally, did a plateful to all be defeated however.
Marriage is not pair of anybody save atone for, it is OK that those are saying of put up with, opposite party can be changed after marriage, the majority, passing finally is not very happy.
We realise should soberly, only careful before marriage ground chooses, ability lives leisurely after marriage.
Because the age arrived,do not begin anxious, also do not marry with respect to the choice because of temporarily impulse, marriage is not the tool of trial and error, you also need not for an undeserved person, oneself lifetime on compensate.
Enter a paragraph of marriage blindly with its, be inferior to enjoying the life of instantly first.
Those who a word says is good:
Did not marry fasten confused, wait for those who marry not busy, had managed oneself, cherish instantly time, all this total meetings that come arrive.
What be afraid of, years is long, your a person's mind is kind-hearted, eventually can one person accompanies you equestrian drink all directions.
