" word of the night that surround furnace " for the person when Qing Xianfeng Wang Yongbin is written, with bright generation Hong Yingming " dish root Tan " , of Chen Jiru " fenestella is deep and remote write down " say " conduct oneself in society 3 big strange books " . The author is fictitious day of a winter is having heater, to the circumstances with communicative and literary friend of be on friendly terms, make this book language kind, natural, legible, and because its are original,opinion is in China important place is had on literary history.
" word of the night that surround furnace " whole book cent is 221, with " make one's home establish line of business " for total topic, respectively from morality, cultivate one's morality, read, bring 10 sides such as deficient happy path, godchild, faithful filial piety, hardworking and thrifty, announced " establish heart, make contributions, predication " reach " establish line of business " for this profound meaning.
" word of the night that surround furnace " the language is brief and pithy, in a few words, however accumulate the life philosophy that contains profundity, read will make a person vigilant.
01
Teach children Yu Youshi, handy have conscientious weather; Day of Yu Ping of check body and mind, cannot not have care diligent watchful severe time.
Paraphrase: Begin to teach when children childhood, foster the spirit of their integrity, broad, on the up-and-up; Should meditate constantly in daily life oneself behavior and thought, cannot supervise and urge without hardship consciousness and ego, the cultural kongfu of ego encourage.
02
Make friends with the friend, must take their advantage the heart to learn to come, just can be benefited; Verbal to sages and men of virtue, necessary going all right all the same at ordinary times, just calculate read.
Paraphrase: Interact with the friend, must take care the good qualities that observes a friend, learn his advantage draw lessons from come, ability gets benefit. If what saying to ancient emperor wise man, must abide by in daily life go doing, just be read truly.
03
Deficient is not had but Nai alone begs frugal, yi He hamper wants clumsy only diligent.
Paraphrase: Poor hopeless when, only economical in order to overshoot difficulty; The nature should learn conscientiously only foolishly, still can make up for inadequacy.
04
Play person wanting era is made want, read must cut oneself is diligent.
Paraphrase: When handling an issue, want to replace others consider more, look to whether can make a person because of his convenience no-go. Read however must oneself are cogent the ground is diligent, knowledge is him, others can not take the place of read.
05
One letter word is establish a body this, so the person cannot be not had also; Word of one excuse me is receive thing should, so lifelong and feasible also.
Paraphrase: " letter " the word is person on earth those who establish a body is essential, so the person cannot do not have credit; One " excuse me " word, it is the moral character with the mainest the way one gets along with people, the person should be so lifetime pursue.
06
Teach children appropriate to father, enough of tight energy of life makes the same score impetuous gas; Wait for Lilliputian appropriate to respect, jing Xin can turn wicked idea.
Paraphrase: Want to teach children with strict manner, because of impetuous of fur of child idea dense, cannot place a heart to come, strict manner can depress them floating heart. To the Lilliputian with frame-up idea, best with esteem careful heart waits for him, because Lilliputian idea is frame-up, if respect him, perhaps he can want to retain we are respected to his, and the idea that abandons out-of-the-way of unhealthy environmental influences that cause disease.
If be no good, get along with cautious attitude and him, at least won't its kill incur, the heart that says Jing Shen so can dissolve the heart of out-of-the-way of unhealthy environmental influences that cause disease.
07
Cai Bitao hides, be like a rough diamond, dark however day Zhang Ye; To learn to no keeping anything from each other, be like running water rack, day then unceasingly also.
Paraphrase: The person that has ability is sure diligent at accomplishment, hide one's candle under a bushel, gold and jade like what consider without abstraction general, although do not dazzle person information, but with the passing of time knows its intrinsic value. Do knowledge scarcely but discontinuous, want to resemble the running water that does not cease and float rack, keep advancing forever.
08
Heart can differentiate thing blame, play square can make a decision; The person does not forget sense of honor, establish a body from not despicable and filthy.
Paraphrase: Can discern in the heart what is right, what is wrong, when handling an issue, make make a decision none can hesitantly; The person can not forget heart of sense of honor, play for the person socially, nature won't do the thing that gives any mean defilement.
09
V/arc true man plays, discuss dispute, no matter misfortune good fortune; Person gentleman predication, expensive smooth, detailed of especially noble essence of life.
Paraphrase: When the person that has ambition is handling an issue, asking how to be done only is right, asking what bring as oneself so is blessing or disaster after all; The scholar is writing an article or be when writing book end to say, the most important is make a point wants fair justice, if can ask essence of life wants further detailed, that is more commendable.
10
Annals cannot not tall, mark is not high, criterion associate with an evil person, do not have sufficient promising; Heart cannot too big, the heart is too big, abandon close plan far, difficult period have.
Paraphrase: The ambition of a person have to tall, if ambition is not tall, be affected easily by bad environmental place, what serves as impossibly greatly. The ambition of a person cannot too big, if ambition is too old, can abandon the work with feasible close to so, and go the target that angle cannot amount to far away, have what success very hard.
11
Very impatient, it is humanness a serious illness; Learn to be in an unfavorable situation blindly, it is to play effective prescription.
Paraphrase: Cannot bear a trouble to the thing to the person, it is a person's oldest weakness. Can adopt the attitude that would rather be in an unfavorable situation to everything, it is the method with processing best business.
12
No matter make what kind person, always cannot have ritzy energy of life; No matter review what kind course of study, always cannot have thick centre of buoyancy.
Paraphrase: No matter choose to be an upright person what kind ofly,method or you are what kind of person, cannot have the timeserving, bad habit that recalls a name to pursue interest quite; No matter you choose what kind of career, cannot enrage coarse and flirtatious, impatient idea quite purposely.
13
Conduct oneself in society to be a law with honest and tolerant person, pass the home to get idea of hardworking and thrifty beautiful.
Paraphrase: Conduct oneself in society for the person socially, ought to follow the example of an object with faithful honest and sincere artificially, pass with offspring want to be able to have only mix with one's shoulder to collar economical meaning is best.
14
Misapplication is clever, he Re defends clumsy all one's life; Excessive makes friend, be inferior to all day reading.
Paraphrase: Clever with the fault place, be inferior to all one's life defending stupid and clumsy sincerely, won't make mistake at least. Make friend casually, still be inferior to shutting the door to read.
15
But duty oneself, not duty person, this is far enmity path also; But letter oneself, do not believe a person, this is taken be defeated by also.
Paraphrase: Blame oneself only, do not blame another person, it is the best method that is far from resentment. Believe oneself only, do not believe other, it is the main reason that becomes its failure.
16
The plan is astute, call oneself from plan, defeat grandfather like that child domestic sound person, surely this person also; Guileless is simple and honest, do not have first very strange, the person that earth up the vigour of descendants like that, surely this person also.
Paraphrase: Everything haggles over every ounce, the person that is in an unfavorable situation none, flatter oneself is very successful, but rot of the good reputation of ancestor, sure it is this kind of person. Honest and economical and the person that honest and sincere needs a person, although do not see he has the show with peculiar what,just began, make descendants can have one to plant however pure deep breath, long lasting, it is this kind of person.
17
Play have He Dingping, but beg this heart be able to pass; No matter,establish line of business size, always want this body to be done.
Paraphrase: Humanness plays, the standard that regards judgement as dispute with what, should accomplish only unashamed went; Do poineering work to must not say what size, must choose according to oneself ability, want to suit oneself to go only.
18
Temperament disaccord is smooth, criterion article work skill, all is not had sufficient take; The language is much more foppish, criterion bearing intention, all belong to doubtful.
Paraphrase: If a person waits for a person to play,the heart is enraged not gentle, no matter be to become knowledge,still be make contributions course of study so, whats won't deserve the place that other follows the example of; If one individual language is intended affectation, affectation is disloyal, so the moral character of this individual and heart sex make a person suspect.
19
Of Gu Jin promising person, neither is light do it person, the person of country party favour, be not the person of dawn thing surely.
Paraphrase: From of old, every somewhat factitive person, not be the sort of person that promises a business blindly absolutely. In home village or town, always nosy person, often be the person with what very not reasonable job.
20
Have true temper, must have true self-restraint, have great knowledge and experience, have big implied meaning therefore.
Paraphrase: Want to have the temper that comes not to have absurd really, want to real cultural talent is achieved first certainly; Should draw up immortal article, want to have immortal experience above all.
21
Diligent at inside person, surely at outside beg without place; Act the role of the United States at outside person, do not have among them surely all.
Paraphrase: Seek ascensive person hard in immanent respect, won't have a lot of making excessive demands to external object necessarily; Outer watch decorates the person that pursues good-looking desperately, immanent do not have what self-restraint however.
22
Welcome a person compatibly, make the same score affection to answer content; Fight a heart to hope ancient, hide implement when waiting for.
Paraphrase: Go interacting with the person with auspicious manner, go replying a thing with equal mood; Make from photograph period with the exalted heart annals of the ancients, the ability that defends oneself in order to await practicable opportunity.
23
Severe close to pity, fathering like that is healthy atmosphere, pity is good energy of life; Reason holds a body expensive severe, and cannot pity. Modest appears flatter, like that modest is modest, flatter is fawn on heart; Reason social Gui Qian, and cannot flatter.
Paraphrase: Look sometimes gravely resembling is proud, it is the gas of integrity gravely however; Proud it is a kind of bosseyed bad habit however, be self restrained so had better be grave, and not proud. Modesty looks sometimes resembling is adulatory, however modesty is to need a person civilized and not complacent; Adulatory because be begged somewhat,be however and please the other side, conduct oneself in society so should modest, however cannot adulatory.
24
Beg a conscience to be in charge of me, leave some of leeway to punish a person.
Paraphrase: Him hope has the heart of be apt to of a fine, make oneself do not violate it constantly. Leave a few leeway for others, let others also have the place of shelter oneself.
25
Respect another person, it is to respect oneself namely; Rely on oneself, excel rely on other.
Paraphrase: Respect another person, it is to respect oneself; Count another person, be inferior to relying on oneself to go hard.
26
Peace plays, not Jiao Su is tall; Just harbour intentions, do not set machine think wisdom.
Paraphrase: Humanness conducts oneself in society should calm, violate not intentionally consuetudinary, consider oneself is great-hearted; Ferial want just upright and outspoken on purpose, otherwise is opportunistic, think oneself clever.
27
Do not jealousy to be not begged, but infer light state; Do not forget to be not aided, it is appearance self-restraint kongfu.
Paraphrase: Not because of greedy and envious, not because of asking for excessive is begged, can see the state with big gain of light of heart of a person; On the kongfu of self-restraint, both neither should forget gradually morality and justice in order to foster awe-inspiring righteousness, because,also do not want temporarily healthy atmosphere is insufficient, wish the plentiful on horse of outside force of have the aid of.
28
Life cannot peaceful and carefree, preserving course of study, talent is enough close be at ease; Daily expense must brief province, prevent excessive end, namely with Zhao Jiande.
Paraphrase: Person vivid on earth cannot satisfy Yu Anyi only quite idle is weak, had the enterprise that runs for a long time, ability will put this heart that break to call in quite. Common expenditure must be saved simply, put an end to extravagant characteristics, with respect to the goodness that can show hardworking and thrifty.
