A lot of people are looking for successful shortcut, the person fate that feels successful explodes certainly canopy. Actually, if decompose the person's success, analysis, find out regular word from which, can discover luck is occupied only very small one part, good convention is the thing with seize opportunity more important. ? ?
Somebody interviews Dong Qing about reading circumstance, dong Qing replies:
"I basically maintain before sleeping everyday of a hour read, final, a lot of people ask I still can hold to. Be indifferent to hold to, this is a habit.
" good convention can make a person in virtually, can become CCTV one elder sister instigates crossbeam, make cultivation of wide reputable reputable pledge kind of program, doing not have excellent literature to inside information take no less than coming.
Army brother says: "You put time and energy where, decide what you are! " someone goes with time " rich raise " bad habit, somebody uses time nurturance good convention. Have an outstanding eloquence, lukewarm embellish is like jade, dong Qing's advanced glamour backside, it is she comes several years the good convention of nurturance. ?
? Difference is not money, it is a habit
To the difference of wealthy person and poor, apparently cannot leave " money " this word, but be really such? American writer holds Masikeli in the palm, rich factitious what to solve for know clearly rich, the reason of end of poor factitious what, did a research technically.
He was spent full time of 5 years, interviewed 233 moneybags that build up from nothing and 128 poors, undertake investigate and be analyticed to their daily behavior and habit, he discovers: Wealthy person and poor people's very big difference is " become rich habit " .
He borrowed this to write down a book " rich habit " , write in the book: "The wealthy person of 88% can read 30 minutes at least everyday, content promotes with self-study and ego kind read give priority to. Most wealthy person won't read for recreation, wealthy person is read is to get knowledge. Wealthy person is read is to get knowledge..
This conclusion can prove really: Elementary school builds up from nothing without graduation " vitreous king " Cao Dewang says: "Must read the book of 2 hours everyday. " all over and the speak bluntly of Li Chao of business circles wonder's person that retreat: "From young when begin, oneself did not read a book one day, the person still learns English to old age. The person still learns English to old age..
This kind " become rich habit " also be mode of a kind of thinking, the orientation that promotes oneself to had been gone to develops. Mix habits and customs is same, good habits and customs can make person body health is macrobian even, undesirable habits and customs can affect the life accident of people.
Army brother says: "The process of study improves the process of the state namely! " wealthy person has more intense than the poor study consciousness, and the poor that has study consciousness becomes wealthy person more easily also. Either a person is outstanding the habit that just has had, however nurturance a lot of good conventions, just let a person become more and more outstanding. ?
Good convention, bright · rich Lan Kelin says furtherance Gong Benjie: "Once a person had good habit, the profit that then it brings you will be tremendous, and exceed an imagination. " this is the conclusion that he kisses body check to reach. He is in young period, pledge want give up bad habit, nurturance good convention. He gives self-ordained the plan that overcomes 13 bad habits, and obtained the favorable result that expect is less than.
For instance: He to correct bombastic bad habit, nurturance " silent " good convention includes a plan, avoided self-righteous theoretic. The friend says him now and then the sentiment that shows pride, he nurturance " modest " good convention includes a plan. Every night ego introspection, record the result that oneself try hard everyday, replaced bad habit till good convention till. ?
A person should change the bad convention that attends personally only, can change the good habit that brings oneself trend success. Fulan overcomes Lin Nengcheng to be on the patriot of independent district to guide the United States, can become famous scientist, change bad habit with him, good convention does not divide nurturance.
Army brother says: "Life is know to become accomplish, arrive again the process that has done. " somebody knows to there are a lot of bad habits on him body, ever never corrected it however, somebody discovers his bad habit, make a plan, one step by step nurturance good convention. It is very difficult to overcome a bad habit, but for the person that nurturance good convention yearns for to succeed to every very important.
? It is difficult to know easy travel, promote him somebody to ask:
"It why know to change bad habit is very difficult to why know to change bad habit, should be we still changed? Army brother says: "Writing life is ceaseless him promotion. " realize these bad habit block up when us when our progress, be about to correct bad habit for him promotion, replace it with good convention, turn good thing into a kind of custom. A lot of people know to see the advantage of the book, often mix small gain when turning over a book however tremble sound open, at a draught a few hours went. Want to let Tian Li do not grow grass, best means is to plant go up crops, the habit also should be replaced by the habit. Hold bad convention very simple, nurturance good convention is very difficult, but the process that corrects bad habit, promote oneself process namely. In the process that successful person is good in ceaseless nurturance convention, promoted oneself capability, ability seizes opportunity fortunately.
