Life 3 big money, how many do you have?

Person all one's life, busy to finally, metropolis discovery, true happiness and free, not be the ascendancy of riches and honour that earthly place thinks. Should know in the be content with one's lot in content with one's lot, progress ceaselessly below the help of friend of be apt to, clever in happy life happy and comfortable.

Without disease the first benefit

Common saying says: "All over the body that do not have disease is light. " the person that has laid an a serious illness has experience. A person just when prime of life when, green and junior, high-spirited and vigorous, arbitrary brandish is aspersing vitality, but once enter old age, the body begins downhill, ability is clear " disease is done not have on the body " it is true happiness.

Clear minor details civilian renown cure Li Qingyuan is in first " an account in one's own words of preserve one's health " in say: "Food has a red-letter day, daily life has constant, not absurd makes work, reason can all of body spirit appearance, calm 100 years old of above. " means says, dietary pattern is logical, on time regular work and rest, spend overworked nevertheless, can body spirit is healthy and abundant, long-lived 100 years old are not tickler.

The ailment of the body lets us generate worry admittedly, and psychological defect, it is to make our day and night is not gotten more quiet. For example should be born in our heart corrupt, be angry, crazy when waiting for trouble, although try hard to try divert oneself from loneliness or boredom, just leave heart however, go up again brows, so ability not equal to one's ambition. Be full of in for example heart again a variety of desire, although do his utmost to try to exercise restraint, however things go contrary to one's wishes, cannot follow one's inclinations.

Change worldlily without giving thought to how, place of the condition outside wanting our heart to be only is moved, maintain the state of mind with a kind of carefree take things philosophically, criterion all honour or disgrace, dispute, gain and loss cannot control us, the world in the heart is infinite and broad. So, body and mind does not have disease soundly, just be the biggest increase.

Content with one's lot the first rich

Common saying says: "Popular feeling is not worth a snake to swallow an elephant. " because the person has self, to worldly everything what go up always is flay a flint.

Temptation and pressure, stimulating the appetite of people, those who making a heart is greedy. Too much person, itself has the life of envy making a person, however because of the desire, and lost happiness thoroughly.

Exorbitant is so corrupt take, unjustifiable requirement, it is unfruitful only bring oneself trouble, and in day the angst of nocturnal night anxiouslies expect day in, before still doing not have savor joy, already sufferred anguish to suffer.

Be apt to is friendly the first thick

Life is alive, total meeting has a friend. The friend is having great sense to any person, they can affect our lifetime even.

The friend has a variety of, confucius is in " family name of season of · of the analects of confucius " have the friend dividing is 6 kinds: "Beneficial person 3 friend, caustic person 3 friend. Friend is straight, friendly forgive, friend is heard more, beneficial. Friend monarchs, affable soft, friendly given to flattery, caustic. Caustic..

Confucius thinks, the good friend has 3 kinds. The first kind " friend is straight " , it is to speak friend; The 2nd kind " friendly forgive " , be can excuse a person quite, the friend with clement individual character; The 3rd kind " friend is heard more " , it is the friend with broad and profound knowledge.

It is clear to must be investigated carefully before the friend list that we decide to include our a person a person, ten million cannot let the generation of those pass away the sham as the genuine enter his friend ring.

Alleged " beg with gas phase, things of one kind come together " , be close to knowledge of be apt to, if enter the room of irises and orchids, long and not Wen Jixiang; Knowledge of knot become enemies, if enter the shop of abalone, long and do not hear its smelly. Accordingly, good friend is the most accessibly person, namely " be apt to is friendly the first thick " .