Above all we will be defined, what is a singleton female? Is what have a child only a singleton female? I think to be opposite completely, because this is literal meaning only. In close child will look on educational level, I feel the interval of two children exceeds 12 years old, that there are two only sons in the home then female. (please advertent, I am to say the level that teaching says) because the child arrived 12 years old,had been children no longer, however teenage, a lot of things have his subjective consciousness and judgement capacity, wait to have acting channel then with little brother or little sister. So be apart exceeds parent of 12 years to also wanted to notice between two children.
Singleton female what common fault to have normally? How should be dissolved again?
1, female parent is opposite the singleton the child often too doting, the child is easy " egocentric " him feeling resembles " king " same, want wind to get wind, want rain to get rain. So the parent is sure to keep in mind cannot bestow favor on regarded as love, regarded arrogant as raise. Love is not right on child life too take care of, want body to be reached to the child's education now however groom on, make child health grows. Accordingly, want rigid surelysubject sb to discipline to the child, elaborate education just is love. In the family, must not the special status child park family, want to make the child feels the position of he and other member is equal. This, be being made from everyday life minor matter is crucial. My constant classics says with my child: In the home each person has his responsibility, father's responsibility is to work hard, create good living conditions to you and mom, accompany you the responsibility that this is father. Mom's responsibility is to take care of good family, the thing that class him action earns the money that come back to buy his to like the responsibility that this is mom. And your responsibility is healthy joy grow, read in school intention, make the little boy that classmate teacher likes, mom of help is in the home does the chore of own in one's power, this is your responsibility.
2, singleton female parent often energy is excess, (a few people takes care of a child can not is energy excess? ) so easy too chatter, force parent apiration easily on child body. The domestic atmosphere that builds a harmony, democratic, warmth to the child so is very important. The child's choice should not disobey principle problem to be able to value the child's option only, become the nag remind, proper when still can let the child make some of small fault. (for instance: The child comes back to work to forget replace satchel originally in the evening, remind him, he still is not done, know perfectly well him to forgot to take the following day do not tell him again, let him answer the school to give a teacher criticism, classes are over the following day reeducate coming home, ability can notice after such children. If help him check every time, he still is met after that is likely of forgetful)
3, singleton female often not much with communicate with age person, classes are over mostly come home on have father and mother only, communicate ability so, cooperative drive is poorer. So the parent should be encouraged more the child and play with age person, mostly the child likes collective activity, especially game. Through children a meeting enjoying gift is known how to get along with the person, mutual business is quantity, self-effacing. Even if be to suffer little injury to also not be afraid of, be at ease let the child take exercise in young associate, develop the ability that its and person get along.
4, existing mostly on singleton female body fragile, should overcome this to plant " fragile " method, it is in actual life lets the child take a bit pain. Accordingly, in corporeal respect, the parent does not offer too good condition; to still should supervise and urge the child does a few chore more, especially him child thing, let him child do as far as possible, sometimes, the parent also can install a few obstacles and difficulty conciously to let the child take exercise. Such, the child forms free-standing, self-improvement easily, have sturdy belief, firm and indomitable perseverance and good psychological quality, such child just can be brave in face the pressure that the life brings, just won't by difficult place knockdown.
3 years old are decided 80, once the child forms his main body consciousness, have capacity of conscientious, critically thinking, the ability of group efforts, communication ability he can dare to assume responsibility, project oneself, know oneself, affirm oneself, surmount oneself benign loop. Perfect free individual character, forceful character, can accompany his lifetime. So the child's education is cannot small those who inspect.
Civil / ursine father
