Divorce rate of Japan is not low, about 3 have divorce of a pair of choices to the meeting in husband and wife. In this article, I think the sheet that talks about Japan again kisses a family, saying exactly should be single close mother child family.
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Be in Japan, front courtyard of odd relatives by marriage is called commonly family of one person Yin (い of て of か of や of お of ひ と り ) , single close mother child the family is called mother child family (い of て of ぼ し か ) , more extensive nevertheless appellation is ー of ザ of マ of ル of シ ン グ (Single Mother) , often can see this word on the media such as TV, newspaper, what also made clear this group from flank is big, get Japanese society the wide attention of each respect.
After coming to Japan, discover sheet kisses a mother child the family is absent a few, see sheet kisses family of father and son rarely however. Student of a lot of Japan also is met ground of as if nothing happened tells him others is front courtyard of odd relatives by marriage, experience less than allowing almost why violate and feel.
The data that according to Japan deep unripe work saves shows, to 2011, single close mother of Japan child domestic number is achieved 1.238 million, occupy all agreement that have child family number 6.8% , 25 years in the past, grew 1.5 times; Family of only close father and son is counted 223 thousand, occupy all agreement that have child family number 0.8% , 1.3 grow in 25 years of in the past times.
That is to say, in front courtyard of odd relatives by marriage, mother child the family was occupied 90% the left and right sides. And, once had sufferred Home DV(cruel) be absent a few.
Be what reason brought about single close mother child domestic generation?
From 2011 we can see in data: The divorce was occupied 80.8% , 20% grow to control in 25 years of in the past; Husband square death was occupied 7.5% , maiden Yo child occupied 7.8% .
Each age layers of Single Mother distributing as follows to pursue:
Can see from inside the graph, age of most single close mother is centered in 30-49 year old between, especially with 35-44 year old be in the majority.
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In Japanese nursery school, especially in public nursery school, the child of front courtyard of odd relatives by marriage already common occurance. Also because such, kiss the feeling of maternal family child for attend to sheet, unapt harm child's little heart, a lot of nursery school cancelled to had continued the old special congratulatory activity that conducts in father's day, especially the sort of activity that draws and so on of father image graph is to take care doubly more. A lot of nursery school are flat even the congratulatory activity that links mother's day also cancels, perhaps incorporate 2 festivals together, child place tags previously " う of と of が of り of ん of お father さ , あ " (thank father) " う of と of が of り of ん of お mother さ , あ " (thank mom) also united " う of と of あ り が " (thank you) .
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From the data of above paragraphs we had known, once Japanese family divorces, the child can be brought up basically by the mother. A lot of moment are not a mother want to raise the child, however father one party rejects to bring up, wait for a problem as a result of child age Shangxiao, even if does a court, the judge also can sentence a mother to bring up.
Not only such, after major father divorces, won't give the child allowance. According to province of deep unripe work the investigation 2011 shows, have 6 become divorce families about, never had taken any allowance from father one party. Still have one share after midway is broken, also had not taken a minute of money from father one party again. Can take allowance from father one party continuously, occupy all single close mothers merely child of the family 20% the left and right sides.
With other country not quite same is, be in Japan, about the bargaining problem of child alimony, great majority passes a judiciary nevertheless, however both sides of husband and wife perhaps talks things over between family solve. Be in Japan, nonexistent also the government organization that imposes alimony compulsively, the consciousness that stays in bilateral bargaining to follow father one party almost on this one level. Although Japanese government was opened " alimony seeks advice support a center " , but it is to offer merely seek advice with the proposal, be without real significance almost.
A lot of Single Mother to bring up the child is mixed live, must be engaged in all sorts of working for long. Although the obtain employment rate of single close mother has 80.6% , but regular employment (formal employee) scale has 43% only, great majority is engaged in working, the informal employ such as Part works. This kind of employ does not have performance bonus almost, not stable, do not last, make the salary of single close mother so little that have pity on.
Additional, japan also is one of countries with bigger difference of salary of male and female. Bring up the child's female especially, salary has 40% male only about. Informal employ sums vast salary difference, make Japan odd kiss year of average income of the mother to have 1.81 million yen only (add up to 90 thousand 5 1000 RMB about) , the average wage of informal employ has 1.25 million yen only (about 60 thousand 5 1000 RMB)
(Ps: Even if is current Japan, the woman of 60% can get married to perhaps be borne because of wearing and demit drops the job, become full-time housewife, whole society or with " the male " for domestic economy pillar. )
Japanese sheet kisses a mother child of the family " change miserably " problem already very serious, 2012, the poor rate of front courtyard of odd relatives by marriage has been achieved 54.6% (normal family 12.4% ) , especially single close mother child family, the mother is economic pressure place tired, work for long, recreational time is few, it is to consider more be taken care of not as good as and teach the child, produced problem of a lot of society. The child of nursery school can stay in temporarily only after school a few in offerring the orgnaization that sees child service, await mom to come off work hard; A lot of children lack maternal care and nurse as a child, study grade is poor, acquire a lot of abuse. According to the report, the rate of college enter a school of child of front courtyard of odd relatives by marriage has 23.9% only (and social whole is achieved 53.7% ) . The child does not get good education, can pursue the job of low end only, form " impoverished heredity " , create vicious circle.
Show according to the investigation of national life foundation 2013, single close mother child the mother that there is 49.5% in the family expresses " い of big bitter し " (the life is very hard)
A lot of sheet kiss maternal a surname to be moved with one's shoulder to collar, still bearing however enormous economic pressure. Rest without time, meet with the friend without time, have a meal; Accompany the child without time, educational child; Should not carry what travel to go vacationing more. All the year round the distress that pressure is accumulated and nowhere abreacts is extremely easy break breaks down one the individual's volition, suffer from on mental disease, walk up not to put in a road 's charge even. Most year come, a lot of concerns with this tragic event that Japan produces continuously ring alarm bell noisy to whole society again.
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September 2014, the single close mother of some city will is in 1000 leaves county 13 years old on the daughter of 2 is killed first, prepare to commit suicide next. Live in cheap to hire the 2 people of mother and daughter of the room at that time, the chummage that has defaulted a government 2 years, go the government applies for extra allowance for living expanses, refuse bloodily however by. The mother of have no way out, moving family belongs day compulsively, kill the daughter first, prepare to commit suicide next. The staff member that moves compulsively is entered indoor when, this single close mother is watching the VIDEO of daughter games at the same time, touching at the same time already angry absolutely the daughter's head.
In May 2013, when 28 years old of single close mothers that live in area of Osaka city north and son of 3 years old are discovered, already by starved to death. At that time, there had been any foods in the room, remain edible salt only, there are ten yens only in bankbook. The doubt that discovers in the spot is like the posthumous papers that writes down for single close mother in, such writing: " most い of ぱ of っ of い of か of な of after に お feeds ね of ん of め of て of く of な of れ of ら of べ さ せ , ご " (also fail to make you satiate finally, mom Is am sorry you)
Very much single close mother by force of bread, doleful loneliness is helpless, begin to be engaged in walking the street activity. The Osaka baby that astonished the throughout the country in June 2010 is starved to death in incident, the single close mother that works in custom inn (23 years old) 2 cheeper (mix 1 year old 3 years old) lose 50 days are as long as in apartment, bring about a baby starved to death. Be opposite of the police offer in narrating, this sheet kisses maternal say: I know not to give them water and food they are met by starved to death, I had abandoned bringing up them, it is I killed 2 children.
Below piece, tell about Japanese sheet to kiss maternal monologize for everybody, pay close attention to please.
