Give birth to 2 embryoes to want discretion: Without support of these 5 conditions, 2 embryoes still

As 2 embryoes policy open, now 70, 80 hind the beginning of land add add should have 2 embryoes, I had heard the matter most nothing is more... than is to give the child to want a partner, meeting halve waits pressure of child provide for the aged a moment in the future. But the friends that also a lot of give birth to 2 embryoes begin to complain, special really regretted to give birth to 2 embryoes, bring two children true break down. For not kink, sum up today a few, if you do not have these 5 conditions, do not consider to want 2 embryoes temporarily.

1, the old person helps attend

Though the child is his, others helps you look after children without obligation, but if 2 embryoes do not have helper, pregnant Mom is waiting to break down. Give birth to 2 embryoes, a person takes care of two children, energy and physical strength should be paid times doubler, pressure is very great. Hiring nurse is charge tall, 2 it is the child that is not oneself after all, have the baby-sitter like mom impossibly. If have grandpa grandmother right now or father mother can help you, that namely first-rate thing.

2, economic condition allows

A word that I hear to a few old people say via regular meeting is: Be at ease, the child is born won't starved to death. Now is not the society previously, be born to want those who have impediment to go only. From be pregnant produce check to arrive unripe child, what kind of does not need money, expenses of pants of make water of milk powder money of the child, paper, education is not small expenditure, do not have a law to go to work plus treasure Mom, income decreases, big treasure spends money, if economic condition does not allow, must consider well really.

3, husband can help you

Hear a woman now the biggest complain even if: Raising the child on this thing, husband swings palmar ark namely. Return see a meeting lie on sofa to see a mobile phone, if you blame a few, the family can answer you to go to work very tired, let a person break down really. Of course also many husband show consideration for very much really, help you see the child, do chore, basically be understanding, considerate, encounter such husband or can consider so.

4, body condition allows

Now especially 70, 80 hind, arrived to approach the age of 4, even some already passed 40 years old, to catch up with finally " one regular bus " , also be the equipment pregnant that spelled a life 2 embryoes. Must make an inspection first at that time, whether can the body that sees oneself give birth to the child, it is big puerpera after all, still have certain dangerous sex. Not only body condition allows, psychological quality also wants excellent just go, visit present full-time mother you understood the case of postpartum and depressed disease.

5, big treasure supports and accept

This also is a very crucial factor, must seek the opinion of big treasure, see big treasure can be accepted. A lot of children bestow favor on be used to alone now, if come suddenly,the little sister comes to a little brother contend for bestow favor on, be overcome for certain. Start work dozen small, pettish it is small, because this problem runs away from home,often see on news, jump of the building little still? So, must big treasure is accepted in mentally, do not let him think father mother does not love him.

? Want me to say, although give birth to the support that 2 embryoes are plan of homemaking having a state now, but still should join the case of oneself and decide. If these conditions in the home are not contented, still was inferior to not be born, did not give the child best love, harmed two children likely still instead. Of course, if you are adopting the attitude that a kind of again great difficulty also can go, insist to give birth to 2 embryoes, so also congratulation you.