Before dawn at 4 o'clock, the maternal Zhu Xiangling of actor Zhu Yuchen already busied in the kitchen. She puts 4 pear and the horse's hoof that had cut a skin in soup Bao, small fire is boiled, join again later hold the seed of Job's tears in both hands. A half hour hind, juice of pear of preserve one's health is finished. Zhu Xiangling does not have idle to come down, face about makes fruit juice. These two jobs want to be finished before 8 o'clock, take a son to drink. This is used to Zhu Xiangling to hold to 10 years.
Zhu Xiangling of 70 years old is in TV put together art " I that boy " in when speaking of this paragraph, compere Wei Jia, big Zhang Wei and affection observer are halcyon astonied. Other the mother of a few star or maternal aunt nod again and again, stop not the dwelling place gasps in admiration.
"I treat him son with whole life. " Zhu Xiangling is summed up. Before transcribe, zhu Yuchen says to her: "Do not say me into the appearance of treasure of a mom. " she answers: "Is the appearance of mom treasure loveless? "Is the appearance of mom treasure loveless??
Zhu Yuchen and mom Zhu Xiangling
This is defend by Hunan inspect made TV put together art " I that boy " medium extract. After the program broadcasted on July 14, mother of day of bright red rain ascended small gain to heat up search a list of names posted up, let viewing rate wandered in the program of 0.7 to turn a topic into the center. Zhu Xiangling publishs in the program " female should do virtuous wife fine mother " " my son every paragraphs of amour, I am interfered " wait for opinion on public affairs to cause controversy on the network. Somebody is oppugned " had loved unbalancedly " , somebody spits groove " do not go why baby-sitter market seeks son's wife " , returning somebody to put forward this is " the Chinese type parent of most person " .
In the program, 4 mothers of male star or maternal aunt sit inside studio, watch the child to reside the video record of the life alone. Before this, program series according to 24 hours of uninterrupted means, the life state that recorded 4 male bits 5 days.
Of the report in the program live the life alone, urge marriage, acting border to communicate wait for a topic, mount hot search ceaselessly, caused a large number of discussion, also be immersed in doubt to be like the eddy that borrowed at the same time.
Alone is house happy?
Laugh of 26 years old laughs is " me that boy " faithful audience. With program honored guest, she also is to be in Beijing to live alone, work in Internet company, stay up late constantly work overtime. At that time of college firm graduate she did not feel what the body has unwell, "Illness is all over after working one year " . Laugh laugh at ordinary times very curtilage, when resting, can not go out, a day of 3 meat lean outside sell. Contact parents 3 times two every week, but parents often 3 words cannot leave " have a boy or girl friend " " make the best of time to talk about love " etc. " I that boy " in the scenario that involves, make her have resonance quite.
Somebody is used " empty nest youth " describe this crowd. The article of insurgent news ever summed up " empty nest youth " life prospect is: Dress warmly and ear one's fill is touched first, socialization is insufficient, reside alone live, changes in temperature knows oneself. Xinhua net ever reported, china exceeds 58 million person to be resided alone at present, among them 20 years old arrive 39 years old reside youth amount to be close to 20 million person alone.
" I that boy " old Xin Yu Jin is 39 year total director years old, be one of this group. The from morning till night in the home is being urged marry, but talk about love without time again. "Go not to go out in oneself circle, it is now the youth's common phenomenon. " by last year, old Xin eaves and group are made " dear hotel " , japanese travel goes together after. In road, everybody youth of the instantly since prattle's general life position, old Xin eaves decides with camera the record comes down.
Program series invited Zhu Yuchen (already exited) , Chen Xuedong, Qian Feng, skill in wushu, Xu Haiqiao a few lone occupy male star alone. Every star matchs team of a produce a film, a group 339 people. Center transcribe 5 days every time, 24 hours continual. Before transcribe, star people should fill in a piece of schedule, it is an unit with the hour, arrange this 5 days what to do.
In the program, qian Feng of 35 years old and friend meet, the topic always can be circled " brother has the child a few times, you are only lone still " go up. Skill in wushu of 28 years old won't cook, sit outside eating with teapoy on the bed to sell, his work and rest not the rule, the body also is in inferior health. Chen Xuedong of 28 years old is ferial in raise dog, party, be content with live the life alone, because feel " quiet " , because " also take care of even oneself bad, I do not think others is picky " , establish domestic thought without generation.
" I that boy " the friend that there is type of a lot of Qian Feng, skill in wushus beside Xia Qing of supervise the manufacture of: Lone, reside alone, work and rest not the rule, actuating pressure is great. The friend's parents complains to Xia Qing constantly, why doesn't my child marry? They cannot understand children why to be content with solitary condition, care more live the life alone happy really?
What understand parents as the Xia Qing of person parent is anxious, understand the friend's distress again. Some people enjoy single life, oneself can arrange is good everything; Some people are fear of marriage, the habit occupies position alone; Some people yearn for marriage, do not have time and opportunity however. "I am interested in this group particularly, also have the impulse that wants to understand them. " Xia Qing says to this print journalist, "How to go mediating the contradiction of parents and child, now is problem of a society. Now is problem of a society..
Mother child estrangement is abysmal
If why handle the relation with parents, be " empty nest youth " people one of difficult problem that face. Then, program series magnified this one problem, the mother that lets them directly sits in studio to watch the child's life. The program still arranged the part of compere and affection observer, with the mother people the collision that produces a point of view. "Appear come out the condition of diversity, ability two acting people communicate (problem) solved. " old Xin eaves introduces.
First time of old Xin space and mother of skill in wushu child meeting was March bottom, in the coffee hall near home of skill in wushu. Skill in wushu enjoins Yang Xiufang to want all the time true, do not have psychological package. After meeting, yang Xiufang sees found a place for camera, some are nervous, ask: "Won't be sowed? " Chen Xin eaves answers: "Be at ease, won't. Won't..
Chatting content ten cent the daily life of a family, old Xin eaves asked a few questions, ask when him: "Are you virtuous wife fine mother? " Yang Xiufang is laughing at an answer: "I am such. " skill in wushu places a hand to deny immediately: "My Mom loves to went out to play most. " Yang Xiufang mentions him to had not done face-lifting, skill in wushu does not support again: "Still had hit dot needle. "Still had hit dot needle..
"Skill in wushu the word is not much at that time, but his thing to mom, whats dare spit groove. " eaves recollects Chen Xin. Be over with a few pairs of Mu Ziliao, form of prescription of their disposition, photograph, habits and customs was clear about basically. Old Xin eaves feels interesting place is: "Whats dare say mother, the child is relatively a few more cabined. The feeling is together with family, have the feeling of parent informal discussion. Although the child is already fast 30 years old, 40 years old, but this kind of condition is when be together with parents. But this kind of condition is when be together with parents..
Skill in wushu discloses him to be on bad terms and be perplexed because of parental feeling in the program, left it is Yang Xiufang of mom of skill in wushu
"Lack is communicated " it is a few pairs of mothers in the program child common characteristic. Be in the 4th period in the program, skill in wushu poured out the worry that brings because of parental feeling disagreement to the friend. when parental brawl, the father that leave home takes away a little brother, before going, say to skill in wushu: "Had taken care of oneself. " in the memory that this picture keeps in skill in wushu all the time. After going out, skill in wushu ever attended first gear to be called " taking pa Mom to travel " program, already apart parents agrees with transcribe one case. The parents that skill in wushu thinks to tacit understanding cooperates in the program for a time " organic still meeting " . Result transcribe the last day, parents quarrels, happen to coincide the ground says: "Cooperate old son (son) record this program, we two still cross each each. " skill in wushu just understands them is nevertheless " two actors " .
The Yang Xiufang of mother of skill in wushu that sees these part in studio was cheated. She did not think of the son is such in the program frank and sincere, cannot think of marital problem brings his negative effect more. In her eye, skill in wushu is innocent, obedient, mother child the relationship is very harmonious, the son never has expressed the anguish that produces apart because of parents. Skill in wushu ever had a habit, shop should buy double share, but Yang Xiufang is not clear about all the details. Till this transcribe, she just understands skill in wushu so doing is to hope had thing is geminate and didymous. "I do not know he will be so afflictive, because of the child he is not talktive. " in interviewing, yang Xiufang chokes with sobs a few degrees.
In the program, a few mothers are astonished by the child's expression more or less. Parents is holding teacher edge in the arms to cry from the Chen Xuedong of different the frontier says: "I pass joylessly. " the Chen Zhongmei of mother's eldest sister that brings up Chen Xuedong to be brought up is red on honored guest banquet eye, talk about again and again wears: "From the child of different, he has what thing to be not told with me. I am raise you when the son, why are you communicated with me? " the Li Sumei of Qian Feng mother of consciousness and son keep no secrets from each other, when the love that hears a son is experienced, show open-eyed expression.
I a Qian Feng of that boy placard's mom
"This explains to look between Mu Zizhi extremely harmonious, but estrangement actually abysmal. " Leng Song is analysed to this print. He thinks, between Chinese parents and child, often be the most familiar stranger. "The child gets along without giving thought to before parents how many hour, also won't reveal this one side. Have this to be able to listen to child bona fide to evaluate his all one's life, this actually very god-given.
Director: Did not achieve anticipate
Xia Qing has friend of a female, 40 years old, lone reside alone, defend in Hunan inspect become a director. Annual the Spring Festival is this friend most when sufferring. Others is being prepared come home spend the New Year, she is getting busy about going out however travel, because come home " can be read aloud dead by father mother " . " I that boy " a short while of careful of first phase, xia Qing calls up her to look together. Careful piece room sat ten people, ferial li of friend that claims lachrymal point is high cried when the part that sees Zhu Yuchen. "Because Zhu Yuchen's condition follows her to resemble a bit,I think she cried is, not be actually, because Zhu Yuchen's mom let her remember his mother,be. " Xia Qing says.
In the program, zhu Yuchen sends a friend to weep secretly, skill in wushu sits on the bed to have a meal, qian Feng is urged dew of the face when marriage is awkward, bright red light of health of Chen Xuedong, Xu Haiqiao. Chen Xin eaves thinks, the scene of unripe activation and the problem that the ordinary person can encounter, let an audience produce resonance. "(program) play star, reductive in the position that fills terrestrial fireworks. " Leng Song is analysed.
Xu Haiqiao
Profess the laugh of empty nest youth, say to as if in the program jokingly saw oneself: "The star below arena and Everyman are about the same, euqally gluttonous and same lazy same curtilage, report only the good news euqally, cannot find other in part euqally. " but, she still produced a kind to experience: "Compare star, everyman still has hire the room, pressure that buy a house, shop to resemble star impossibly also in that way not dispute. " interview finally, laugh laugh from ridicule: "Shut computer, just be the life of my an abyss of suffering. Just be the life of my an abyss of suffering..
2016, " Chinese youth signs up for " ever undertook to 2000 people questionnaire is investigated. Of 64.3% suffer the person that visit to state the empty nest youth beside oneself is very much. Devoid feeling is placed and live conditional difference is the two big dilemma that they face. In addition, they still are facing the life short of money, social circle is narrow, lack take care of and disorder of care, work and rest, recreation lives the problem such as suffocate suffocate of ascendant passageway of field of indigent, duty.
The star photograph that does not have care with the back and belly in the program is compared, average empty nest young people are facing more grim reality it seems that. To this, xia Qing says frankly: "If say to record ordinary common people (the life) , likelihood won't someone goes seeing it, won't someone goes paying close attention to it. We need to let everybody see through the life of star, review oneself life again. Review oneself life again..
Viewing rate respect, " I that boy " CSM52 viewing rate is top amount to 0.82, broadcast under the corresponding period " Chinese nice voice " " king of the song that cross a boundary " " Chinese meal hall 2018 " wait. Broadcasted on July 28 the 4th period program, viewing rate is 0.772, defended that day the 6th is discharged only in looking evening period of time. Although " I that boy " ever lifted to discuss by right of Zhu Yuchen mother, but exit as theirs, the program detonates the discussion topic of entire network without generation again.
Old Xin eaves says frankly: "Viewing rate has not achieved my anticipation completely. " in interviewing, old Xin house shows, empty nest youth is the jumping-off place of the program, because be faced with health problem, close child communicate, marriage love a problem have this group not merely. "The society that Chinese configuration leaves now, everybody's life feels poorer, energy, time attacks morely it is above the job, beautiful on the life time and energy can be compared little. Beautiful on the life time and energy can be compared little..
He also not the dwelling place plaints: "The life is a very big thing really, square field surface. " but such big topical, the TV that is put in first gear more than minutes 100 is shown in put together art, whether can you touch really the core of problem of empty nest youth?
Doubt is like borrowed
Actually such program mode, it is early before a few years on Korea TV station appeared.
2013, korea MBC TV station rolled out put together art " I live alone " . The program takes the kind of 24 hours of records likewise, film of star live the life alone. By right of " I am a singer " Huang Zhi lists the Korea singer that is known by Chinese audience, in transcribe " I live alone " current affairs course of study just starts. In the program, he is in a cabinet building that Er leases petty gain, do not open central heating for be economical. Because go out,work, the orange lot that vermicelli made from bean starch sends is in the home until mildewy. The program recorded Huang Zhi row to come to China to attend fitly " I am a singer " , the person enrages the process that rises gradually.
Had entered the 6th year " I live alone " the tall person that still is Korea enrages put together art. In Korea Gallup in the investigation of civilian attune orgnaization, this archives put together art successive 4 months continue to hold a title most the TV program that gets an audience to love. Have netizen comment: "Reside the mankind alone in what all sorts of all sorts of professions, way of life can see in this program, this thinking that one the individual's life will be very alone, but after looking, just discover, a person can pass very wonderfully all the same. A person can pass very wonderfully all the same..
2016, korea SBS TV station also resides a crowd alone since attention. The TV put together that they roll out art " the ursine child of my home " , in the record lone outside the life that lives star alone, added the segment that star mother observes to the child lives daily. Grading of valve of this program beans is 9 minutes, the netizen comments on: "This put together art is poisonous, from time to time I live with respect to what took my, and follow them cry laugh. And follow them cry laugh..
" I that boy " after broadcasting, the somebody on the net points out program doubt is like borrowed " the ursine child of my home " . Sign up for Fun recreation report according to new capital, two file program is decorated in theme, form, studio wait for a respect to have same place. Occupy sina recreation story additionally, korea SBS TV station was responded to on July 13 " I that boy " doubt is like borrowed be related, express to never have sell formally " the ursine child of my home " copyright, will affirm as soon as possible " the ursine child of my home " whether be borroweded really.
To this, xia Qing expresses to this print: "Do not respond to. " Xia Qing says, "Did not see " the response of SBS TV station, the other side also " did not contact " program series. Old Xin house shows: "I saw this program (point to " the ursine child of my home " ) , looked ten minutes. " but be like in the light of doubt borrowed be related, he did not give out more answer.
Becoming empty nest young person is a kind of what kind of experience
● " do not give others incommode " , it is empty nest youths grasp in human association held article of creed or faith, the other one side of this word is " do not give me incommode please " . With empty nest youths contact with, you should be abided by " can small letter fastens a phone, can the phone does not meet " criterion.
● mobile phone is body of empty nest lad is outspread. If you want to let an empty nest youth be immersed in condition of be in a dilemma, need to let him answer a question only: "Doesn't the mobile phone have report " and " without WiFi " anthology which?
Youth of ● empty nest likes a late night to hear Netease cloud music, reading a review secretly divine injury, song silent transmit is encircled to the friend, day break delete again.
● somebody summed up 10 alone grade, eat a chaffy dish, person to go from a person KTV, move to a person, a person becomes an operation. Play card successfully " 10 grade " , it is empty nest youths' alone decoration.
● more and more intelligent mobile phone, more and more convenient cable business serves, richer and richer entertainment program, it is the sunshine of youth of hatch empty nest, air and water.
Youth of ● empty nest won't reject a kind to knock sound, it comes from outside sell little elder brother and express little elder brother.
Who says ● " the 2nd cup of half price " have nothing to do with empty nest youth? They drink below two cups at a heat.
● is literary youth of model sky mew collects Gaomuzhi child " each days when a person lives " , "Funeral is " Feng Taizai of empty nest youth is treated for God, youth of academic clique empty nest must read sociologist of Kelinnabaige " lone society " .
The inner play of youth of ● empty nest is very full, a person was listening to a song to jump in the home, think oneself are " Chongqing forest " the Wang Fei in.
● someone says: "Terrible is not empty nest, however empty. However empty..
Y.m.c.a. of ● empty nest designs perfect on the weekend: Ramble in the morning museum, make calorie of net red snack bar midday, taking book to go afternoon cafes sits, pat bearer of next heavy traffic, person to go to with camera... use finally " Ge You paralysis " spend two days.
● cat and dog are not the requisite of empty nest youth. Occasionally, they are met " the cloud is raised " feline dog, perhaps raise " viatic frog " .
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