The child is bullied in nursery school, if why are this handled?

Send small dimple to go this morning nursery school when, understanding was in yesterday to him and another child is contended for when grabbing a toy, was bitten. Tell today say a variety of small dimple show in this business from beginning to end.

Mom went yesterday nursery school receives small dimple, discovery is hiding a thing in his cuff, it is the toy like a palm it seems that. But should take when Abby when looking, he does not give anyhow look. Act on the principle that respects the child, we did not force him, but still be very curious in the heart, why should he hide this palm toy in cuff? Then, one we repeated the conversation below a lot of times in the evening:

Mom: Small dimple, what be in your this arm?

Small dimple: Fingers

Mom: Why do you hide Fingers in arm?

Small dimple: Fingers

Mom: Who gives you tell mother?

Small dimple: Miss Kelsey (pout)

Mom: Can then you look to mom?

Small dimple: ? Does haughtying swan of ǜ Hu book stand tall and upright?

Mom: Is mom opened look value?

Small dimple: Hum ～ does not want! (pout)

Mom: ...

such, when sleeping to change clothes to him till in the evening, we just see in his arm is the young toy that when this child grows a tooth, grind one's teeth uses.

I and Abby are exceedingly affirmatory, small dimple does not hide a toy intentionally to come home secretly. The first, it is very clear that he shares his thing with others shares his thing with others, do not take the thing of others in disorder; The 2nd, he present won't like so young toy; The 3rd, he himself should do not have method to fill in so big toy into so small cuff.

Although we believe,not be the toy that he himself takes, but this backside has a story certainly. Although there are 100 unsolved problems in brain, we still can wait to ask Miss Kelsey the following day only (a teacher on his class) .

When early in the morning sends small dimple today, asked Miss Kelsey ability knows, small yesterday before dimple and child are contended for when grabbing a toy, was bitten.

After she sees a case, checked instantly the child that bites a person, notice some are red on small dimple arm, took the toy of a grind one's teeth from freezer rapidly, the place that is put in him to get hurt (in arm) .

Mr. Kelsey still says, after small dimple was hit by the child, did not cry, said sturdily still with English and the other side: "NO! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!!

Just began me still thinking in the heart, "Son, somebody grabs your toy, you still were bitten, how to thank a family even? " think carefully later, feeling small dimple is likely at that time is to want to say with the other side: "You should not bite me, you should say a thank! " .

Without giving thought to how, this is small dimple first time and others generation conflict. He returns the home to be avoided talking to this thing, it is certainly there is some kind of mood in the heart.

Be in this morning be informed the child and child happening conflict this thing when, the thrill through in my heart a few thought.

I want to know above all is who bit small dimple, so I swept the children in the class subliminally, the result discovers them is a pair of fancy-free appearance (it is the child that is less than 3 years old after all) . This is a kind of condition reflex that wants to come forward for the child.

Next I think again, is having a possibility small dimple goes grabbing others to playing toy? The style before him is wait all the time by, when the toy plays without the person when, he just can be taken, the possibility that so he is grabbed actively is not large. But it is clear after still wanting to wait for the child to come home to ask carefully, decide to should tell a truth to him again next, still teach him how to protect him. This is a kind of rational solution.

I think again finally, small dimple is behaved very strongly in whole episode, after was being bitten, did not cry, expressed oneself dissatisfaction bravely. After returning the home, still avoid talking to this thing, expression must not care completely. He wants to tell us through such manner, this thing he himself squared, need not do we worry about? Actually parents does not have a hand in the ability that also can exercise him child to answer conflict.

Pass and communicate of nursery school teacher again, eventually crack a criminal case. Our small dimple classmate, behave first-rately at ordinary times, go up in almost all thing toe the mark.

He is met all the time when the jig is up of other little girl the toy that he wants, ability can be taken. See the child takes the sock that grabs others, he still can stand to say: "No, don ' T Do This! Thinking Time! (do not do so! Introspection time! ) " when the teacher brushs fart fart to him, he can keep saying " Thank You! He can keep saying " Thank You!!

He does not mind share oneself to playing toy, only particular a thing cannot be shared, that is a car. He is bitten before, because he does not let other little girl all the time,enjoy a car namely. Good, small dimple is to have car complex really, as it happens uses this the main chance to teach him, how should be common toy shared.