"520 yuan, I love you " , " 1314 yuan, one's whole life " , " 999 yuan, everlasting " ... the sweethearts nowadays likes to use small letter or pay the aglow bag such as treasure, deserve to come in order to have the amount of special meaning again each other expresses love. And once feeling divided a hand no longer, somebody wants to answer give the red package that go out at the outset, because do not hope " compensate the madam is folded again arms " . Just, you walk along even if legal approach, once give out red bag has " show love " " watch intention " wait for a feature, be decided easily to be " given " -- " be most willing to " the money that sends out, can you do not want to be able to want come back!
Recently, female now newspaper / phoenix network reporter arrives one case with respect to understanding between sweethearts " desk of red bag issue " -- 520 with 1314, can not speak a mouth easily, also do not send skill easily!
Civil: Female now newspaper / Zhang Qingqing of phoenix network reporter
On July 8, female now newspaper / phoenix network reporter comes to Hunan 10 thousand with associated attorney office. Not long ago, li Jian of lawyer of this law place received the economic dispute proposal between sweethearts one case.
"The number of this case is very extraordinary, the red bag that party wants 13140.99 yuan to recover 16 to add up to turns Zhang, although the implied meaning is ' one's whole life ' , but young lovers parts company already " . Li Jian introduces, client Liu Li of 24 years old (alias) it is Changsha person, in Feburary 2017, she goes up why to be become with elementary school classmate in classmate party (alias) decided love concerns. The first month that be together, two people feeling warms up quickly, small letter red bag also became expressive conjugal love " daily movement " .
He Cheng family financial situation is general, the Liu Li that has certain stockpile hopes to improve his economic condition. Together when 2 months, liu Li turns to help the He Chengzhou of deal capital, borrowed 100 thousand yuan to give him.
Not only such, came in March 2017 during August, liu Li still turns through small letter the kind of Zhang turned to He Cheng 16 add up to 13140.99 yuan red bag, amount of every red bag differs to 4800 yuan in 18 yuan. There is no lack of among them " 520 yuan " , " 1314 yuan " , " 888 yuan " etc contain number of the colorific that show love, and P.S. " I love you " " love your for a long time " etc.
However, association half an year is controlled, liu Li discovers oneself and difference of male friendly disposition are very big, affray number is increasing also. Final, two people are troubled by because of a bagatelle part company.
"100 thousand yuan loan without doubt, but 13140.89 yuan maintain very hard. " Li Jian tells female now newspaper / phoenix network reporter, in process of front courtyard careful, he Cheng did not disagree 100 thousand yuan to loan, but face 13140.99 yuan " debt " , why to say into argue, red bag of this a bit letter is the economic defray that loves need with Yu Lian, be not loan. During love, oneself ever also had sent a gift to Liu Li, liu Li just can be in a few to celebrate day to give out as redound " 1314 yuan " , " 520 yuan " the red bag that waits for amount.
Expert view >>
Lawyer: Zhang turns between the lover 999 yuan with 1000 yuan, property differs greatly
Li Jian (Hunan 10 thousand with attorney office solicitor)
The male girlfriend in love often has economic contact, perhaps pay to treasure is wrapped aglow or turn through small letter for instance Zhang. But involved red bag is loan after all given still, often maintain very hard in legal level. From the point of judicatory practice, be maintained to be given possibility very big, especially 200 yuan reach the following red bag, if do not have other evidence, be considered as to use expressive love normally.
That is to say, deciding is loan given still, red bag character is very main. For instance, the character that Zhang mixes 1000 yuan 999.99 yuan turns to differ greatly between the lover, because former likelihood has special meaning and do not accord with full specified amount leasehold habit, often can be considered as by the court given, and may larger possibility considers as latter criterion leasehold.
Leave mug-up | Small letter lends money, these measure cannot be saved
When producing leasehold action, the principle is Qian Ke turns with small on the net letter Zhang, receipt for a loan wants to give face to face, and the Id photocopy of best attach borrower. Because bother,do not want, hinder not to write receipt for a loan at the reason such as face. If hinder to establish written evidence at inconvenience of external state of affairs, should leave a heart to collect, fixed electron evidence.
Li Jian's lawyer returns a proposal, if be to pass small letter to turn,the means such as Zhang borrows money to give opposite party, be sure to the property of good in the remarks in P.S. column debt. Additional, return property of the identity information that can define the other side again in communicate, money, reduce the trouble that later period may cause.
The hand trembles | Small letter turns wrong Zhang, how to want money to come back
Besides sweethearts, between the friend because send complex red package,often bring about dispute. How to once doesn't the other side wish to be returned actively,do? Li Jian's lawyer thinks, answer to request help of platform customer service to coordinate instantly, put forward to return to the other side turn by accident the request of money. If refus of the other side is not returned, can with " demand the other side is returned undeserved still benefit " for mention to the court civil suit. Right now, party should notice to save turn the evidence such as detail of card of Zhang record, bank.
And turn about fault of collection the other side the behavior of money, what compasses of according to civil code ought to belong to legal place to set surely is undeserved benefit. The basis concerns legal provision, acquire undeserved interest without legal basis, and cause other losing, ought to return taking undeserved interest return the person that suffer lose.
Affection expert: Spend idea comparing to spend Qian Gengchuan affection
Dan Ni (senior affection expert, changsha autumn fact teachs referral center director)
As the development of the times, a lot of sweethearts, husband and wife is met nowadays in the Valentine's Day other perhaps part celebrates day to deliver love with the form of aglow bag. To husband and wife, this was equal to arrive at Zhang turning in the card from a person in the card of another person, avoided to expend idea to choose a gift, go to the lavatory again when the province. But to a few sweethearts, wrap often aglow, once number is larger, had particular risk -- love sweetness is not bad, once part company, bring about needless monetary issue possibly.
Common saying says, good had gotten together to come loose. Look in me, since small letter red bag is to serve as those who deliver love " emissary " , the action that reachs since should be the front. Once sweethearts parts company, face the precious gift that accepts when love and a good deal of gold, can choose to remand actively below bilateral apiration. After all, want be serious love only, everybody won't be a purpose with cheating belongings of the other side intentionally, did not want to divide a hand to become personal enemy more!
From the point of another level, between sweethearts if want to seek ceremonial sense,get along, besides small letter red bag, still can prepare romantic dinner well, buy a bundle of flower, preparation a surprise. The occurrence of small letter red bag is to go to the lavatory originally, harmonious husband and wife is not wrapped aglow also can happy and pleased with oneself, so, we should treat the manner of small letter red bag rightly.
Finally, I want to express a point of view: Feeling needs money, but do not need to measure emotive depth with money, real feeling is not whether system is willing to spend money for you in the other side now, be willing how to much spend to go up for you, reflect morely however whether be willing to caress you in the other side, cherish you, hope broad youth can cherish feeling, spend money with great quantity with its, be inferior to be the other side floriferous idea!
