Tang Taizong asks Xu Jingzong: The civil and military that I view full court in 100 officials, you are a the most sagely, but still be the error that somebody talks about you before me ceaselessly, is this why?
Xu Jingzong replies: Rain during springtime is expensive be like oil, farmer because it is moist crops, and love it, it is difficult that the person of travel road makes road muddy because of rain during springtime however go and detestable it. Autumnal moon resembles all directions of bright mirror reflect one round, talent beautiful woman is admired gladly to the month, recite poems an ode, bandits is fed up with it however, be afraid of according to gave their filthy action.
Omnipotent God and cannot make everybody satisfactory, what is more,the rather that my Everyman, I did not use fat sheep beautiful wine to mediate numerous mouth dispute, besides, the character of dispute this cannot believe what one hears, after hearing, also cannot travel.
Emperor is blind of official in feudal times of believe what one hears, the likelihood should suffer kill. Father is blind of son of believe what one hears, the likelihood should suffer kill to kill. Husband and wife hears slanderous talk, may abandon. Slanderous talk of friend believe what one hears, may break off a friendship. The family member hears slanderous talk, may estrange. Slanderous talk of countryside adjacent believe what one hears, may give birth to cent.
Life has the body with 7 high rule, want to treat heard rumor carefully, there is Long Quanjian on the tongue, kill without spilling blood, where individual had not said others before the person? Where individual backside is commented by others?
Tang Taizong says: "You are told very well, I can remember! I can remember!!
Really, if a person considers suit at everybody it is impossible, but everything depends on correct path and should go only, feel no regret at the heart, others gossips, need not pay attention to.
If the person realizes this, natural with respect to dispense with a lot of trouble.
This is the place of Xu Jingzong wisdom, also should be in actual life we are drawn lessons from for what the person conducts oneself in society and consult.
Want him road to go continuously only, feel no regret at the heart, need not go to those who understand another person completely commenting.
