Want you not to rely on other only, do not have a person to be able to make you disappointed. The largest stumbling block on independent district, it is we think other people is cleverer than us wrongly abler. We should establish self-confidence, must master independence first. A lot of people think, what mean pair of another person independently is scanty from, cool or chilly. This is very wrong idea. Independent person can consider an issue from the angle of other, can get along well with other, also maintaining at the same time self-confidence and ad cool-headed. He is OK self-made, not was necessary to rely on other.
The largest stumbling block on independent district, it is we think other people is brighter than us wrongly. This makes we often place ourselves happily go up in others body. We always think the outside reachs the hand that recourse, hope others or environment, sacred even all, this business that we do finishs entirely. Our dependence from this steep add, always want to operate others, become compliant, love and person vie and compete
These defect will be right of self-confident heart establish the influence with vital generation. But above all we should be told simply, independent meaning. Independent, follow when oneself intuition, we can believe ourselves, drift with the tide no longer. It is the processing business that can become independent and succeeds not just independently. Actually independent meaning also is not restricted hereat, it is to be brave in to face a heart to be opposite independently successful longing. It is the heart that pays close attention to oneself, is not from obtain over there someone else with should how, what should do, with the enlightenment that what should have.
Learn to understand our heart correctly to give out when us " signal ' . Follow when oneself intuition, we can believe ourselves, drift with the tide no longer. Should discover so and change dependent bad habit, admire chronically when you when inspecting others. The dependence that shows you had arisen. Depending on is relier and the bagnio that are made jointly by relier, harmful to both sides profitless. When thing both sides same lack becomes independent, a kind of such relations that depend on and are depended on, below the case that defends jointly in both sides only, ability can grow in intensity.
Count the worst one side, it is to become when you think you rely on others again, it can become a fact! You ignored the necessity that fosters independent ability to solve him problem. It begins at you oneself and you from mentally, obedient a certain person makes relative hour. The dependence of certain person is such confirmed, so that they are willing to abandon, the individual's right goes catering to other and individual, value system or the need with devotional religion, the individual that they feel to be able to find to be able to depend on blindly, organization and religion, can bring safe sense to oneself. They deliver to their happiness this individual, organization and religion. Of course, when lot fails. It is OK that they also have the object of shirk responsibility.
The person that relies on others gets others to control. They think other people is cleverer than oneself, when encountering a problem, always appeal to other for a short while. They are subject to be being relied on, latter proposal, looking in them is divine and cannot the command of defy. They always feel exhausted, because more than have " memorialist " , and they should decide after all to who should listen to.
Suggest to be able to be found everywhere, and it is free for the most part, need not pay any reward. Your all round total meeting has a dozen even more " compulsory and advisory ' . They tell you joyfullyingly, the viewpoint of themselves. But they normally dedicated the problem at oneself, be clear that you are true far from " should " and " must " how, so you always cannot get proper proposal. In fact, accept to disqualify the opinion of the person that offers a proposal, repair your tooth as looking for plumber. They are most the problem that the person links him is inextricability, can you teach you to solve the problem that themselves still fails to solve how again?
Want the habit that nurturance ponders over independently so, handle the ability of the problem independently, know what oneself should do, what ought not to do, how to go doing, him education does his host.
