Bear hardships not terrible, labor lets a person have honor.
Be in aged when, all honor and money are as transient as a fleeting cloud, and not the child of become a useful person, enough makes your evening scene gloomy.
Absolutely cannot be short of there is a thing in child education.
That bears hardships namely education.
Especially the home has the boy, this more cannot little.
Because one is afraid that bitter man is destined,did not take on, you do not blame him to do not have responsibility heart, it is he does not have iron shoulder really, with what to go carrying?
Cannot bear hardships, it is to be able to let after all beside the person bears hardships, oneself are bitter also. And such influence is lifetime.
See two old men of our village, can have such feeling.
Look at them when you from had gone before you, can feel years is hasty, life does not cross a few 10 years!
Our village these two old men, one is young when cannot bear hardships, everything relies on a wife to get together.
We feel she is sufferred from, but she seems to do not have a feeling, she perhaps feels she is this life.
Still have a family otherwise, the old man is to work every day, work outside the home in the home, the family passes moistly comfortable, taking outer side also is back forceful, get person respect.
Bear hardships not terrible, labor lets a person have honor.
A lot of people are grown epigenesis a pair of look that oneself do not like, it is when growing, be in from the root broken.
And domestic education, especially parental idea is crucial.
We can discover a very strange phenomenon.
If a family has several sibling sister, face of false as above has an elder sister, the last the word that is a little brother.
This little brother is to eat not to get suffering for the most part, suffer unwearied.
Because as a child dad Mom is aching, when anything crops up the elder sister is being overspread.
A lot of parents are middleaged child, send more cherish, regard a beloved daughter as.
A bit not careful, the day Ping of father mother love forward small tilted that.
Very much parents does not want to let the child take a bit pain.
Be used to of him live frugaly is worn the child, as a result the life oneself lets the child give entirely be bound.
Ceng Liuyan of a mom says, there is a little brother in husband home is by doting, now 26 years old, do not be others consider, the condition in the home is bad, grandpa mother-in-law is rural cultivate land, spend the New Year to be hated to part with buy a place delicious, but he himself, malic mobile phone follows suit buy, still go abroad go playing, still look for us to borrow 20 thousand money to rectify nose, such a lot of thing, feeling before is him not sensible, just discover be be used to of his pa Mom later. And my mother-in-law still says him as a child such, wanted thing did not get is no good.
So myself looks after children, do not need her help, the child that I do not miss myself also becomes in that way.
See such parents every time, I feel feel distressed.
It is what makes them willing become to send form, raise a helminth?
Can kill the child only fondly.
Mom can say with the child, you should read good book to go only, you do not manage other issue.
So housework does not want the child to work alive, the big petty thing in the home also does not want child bother about.
A lot of children are long very big do not know a packet to salt is how many money, oil is how many money a pail.
Tell the child, the life has sweet, but also have pain, can succeed anyhow without who.
Must have a consciousness that lets the child bear hardships, can not help, the child sheds bit of sweat, taking a place is good fortunately.
Make the child much do household work at ordinary times, enter activity of part-work and part-study system actively, a bit bigger child still can enter volunteer activity together, go doing the thing of a few in one's power, exercise oneself hands or feet.
Parenting is about to let the child one kind is not afraid of the spirit that bear hardships, let the child know labor is glorious as a child, can win dignity for a person, through making arduous efforts, ability realizes one the individual's value.
These words say to resemble catchword, but old hind, one fast the children of 30 still asks for help with you when wanting money to have a meal, can understand those who take bitter education is important.
So, bear hardships education, want to had been jumped over earlier.
Also can let the child feel the power of affliction from inside story and book, let inner world get plentiful, when encountering a setback, the child won't choose to abandon immediately, also can bear to hit.
The story that tells this side is told when the child is small, wait for the child a few bigger, can read a book, for instance of Lu Yao " ordinary world " , " Niu Meng " , " iron and steel is how refine becomes " , some it is very good book. Fell in love with when a child read, a lot of more very much teacher. Also meet bring into contact with more thoughts.
Parenting, let the child experience your support and termless love not just, should have more for it plan far-reaching wisdom.
Want to know to love to need free air, need the courage that let go.
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