Money, it is the thing with this essential society.
In the times with this consummate now money, money did not have money to become the standard that defines one individual social class, and " lend money " also became examine between family member, friend the touchstone of friendly feelings.
One individual value is undeserved hand in, borrowed money to know.
01
The Valentine's Day that day, with two the colleague has a meal together, among them suddenly the handle machine of bang falls one to go up in the table, of in a huff say: "On this world, meet what somebody wriggles borrow money to give others unexpectedly, and this blockhead is me " .
I was frightened with another colleague jump, ask rapidly what to produce.
Original, her friend a year ago, lent 20 thousand money with her, come to an agreement or understanding borrows half an year only, run get married courtesy, receive member money to be returned, but this marriage writtens guarantee half an year, pregnant also is conceived, the other side still did not promote the thing that returns money.
The fellow says: "I just was carried with her, ask when she returns my money, you guess her what to say, she says unexpectedly, my salary is so high, the ability when she marries includes 1000 red package, too persnickety, these 20 thousand marry when her directly, still have the member money that the child is born. Still have the member money that the child is born..
I listen to be enraged, this is special friend of what strange flower, family salary is high, have to include 20 thousand red package to you? You are weak you are justifiable, you are poor have to the whole world sends money to you!
The fellow says then, "Also do not borrow money to give others again later, no matter what concerns, do not want the moral quality of overmeasure others forever, the magic power that also did not underestimate money " .
It is as expected, lend Qian Jian popular feeling, return money to see character, standing to lend money, on bended knees wants debt, when lending, you are a friend, wait toward when reclaiming, become personal enemy.
02
Person this lifetime, total meeting encounters tickler, when needing urgent need money.
If others agrees to borrow you, cherish this mutual affection certainly please, the deadline of come to an agreement or understanding is returned early as far as possible, good Zhang, do not default, not shuffle, what lend because of others is money not just, still have the accredit to you, blessing and encourage.
Agree to borrow money to give your person, it is the noble in life, disloyal to them, of real finally harm, it is oneself actually.
03
Itself lending money is very the issue that hurts money, if be encountered again,borrow money to be not returned, that also hurt even the heart together.
Occasionally, do not want to borrow very much in the heart obviously, after all even if relationship is again good, true gold silver sends out, still also be understanding empty, but do not borrow be afraid that the other side feels he is not generous again.
So, lending money this issue on, I was decided to oneself " 3 do not borrow " principle.
One, beautiful money does not have measure or do not borrow with the money that consumes at extravagant sex.
If one the individual's consumption, exceed him economy to bear limits, want to rely on to lend Qian Man enough spending desire, that explains this individual presses a root to do not have a program with respect to the life to oneself, this kind of person, beat dead to cannot borrow.
Oneself are tired dead tired work earns the money that come, the money that live frugaly assemble comes down, take out by what make others prodigal.
2, do not work hard, do-nothing person does not borrow.
The life is done not have " easy " 2 words, those had gone all out it is better to do those best to still cannot go up too the person of the life, we are respected, also be willing to extend aid.
But if be oneself do-nothing, careless and casual, not attend to one's proper works or duties, cause the person that life put down pours, do not borrow, let his emerge of itself and perish of itself go.
Adult, want to know the life to oneself to be in charge of.
3, good borrow bad to return, do not know the person that be thankful, do not borrow stoutly.
Kind-hearted person, not be foolish, just choose accredit, but should be harmed only, he can is far from thoroughly.
Like to bilk the person of Zhang, acquaintance again long, relation also cannot borrow nearly again, this explains he does not know to be thankful, the fine that does not make allowances for others is bitter!
Whose money is not fresh gale is blown come, no matter oneself have money to do not have money, these 3 kinds of undeserved people, scarcely can borrow.
Lend money with others, it is friendship of one chanting folk tales to the accompaniment of simple percussion instruments absolutely the problem that reduce cent, had better not start to talk until the last moment, but if honest have no way out, so the most efficient way that does not harm friendly feelings, namely as far as possible a quick buck pay off.
When owing people money, subdue oneself, even if eat a meal less a few times, early pay off a day, use up a minute of friendly feelings less.
Money this thing, put aside whose hand to go up to sink, "Lend money " of test is the other side not merely the friendly feelings depth to oneself, also be oneself sincere letter and bearing.
If think those who make others none can hesitant to borrow money to give you, you get at least to become a person that is worth others to borrow first!
Remember, must not injure the person that you help when you lack cash!
