Because I and husband work busy, the child leaves a mother-in-law to take after year old, I working can come home see the child, but because come home time is too short, the child does not sleep with me, calculate me to want to sleep with him, he also is not willing likely, just began me to was not cared about, but time is long, I feel to resemble between oneself and child is to lying between a wall, the child has what thing also is look for a grandma for a short while, as mom, flavor is not very in my heart. And I still discover the child besides disaccord I kiss, disposition still becomes some depend on are bestowed favor on and arrogant, look the mother-in-law bestows favor on be addicted to too too to him.
It is not easy also to but the mother-in-law helps me,look after children, I always cannot get angry before the face of mother-in-law and child, so I go to I and the place that the husband works to look after children with respect to proposal mother-in-law, I for company child sleeps in the evening, the course tries hard, I was redeemed eventually with the relation between the child, and the child's disposition also ameliorated every day.
This shows, the child sleeps with who as a child, the disposition impact that did not come to him is very big, treasure Mom is fastened foolish foolish negligence.
Here I suggest with the identity of an a n experienced person everybody, had better not make the child long sleep with grandfather grandma. Actually now and then let the child and grandfather grandma sleep, contact contact feeling is good, but if if often let the child and them,sleeping, the child will have below these change:
The emotion of the child and parents can become weak
The child was used to sleep together with grandfather grandma, he can think grandfather grandma is the closest person, with parents the emotion between can become weak slowly. Intellectual face of the child may narrow, the intellectual face of grandfather grandma is finite after all, of course if your parent generation is one's previous experience of tall record of formal schooling, make child of their for company sleeps OK also. When my mother-in-law helps me look after children before, I bought a lot of little books to the child, before letting a mother-in-law sleep, look after children look, but the mother-in-law did not look after children,look, likelihood she also is intentional and faint. Teach children so, we become true there is no shirking the responsibility of parents, think him method accompanies the child to sleep as far as possible, resemble me same, otherwise intellectual face of the child can become narrower more.
The child's disposition may become aggressive is in charge of hard
Grandfather grandma bestows favor on child of be addicted to quite mostly, the child may become accordingly depend on is bestowed favor on and arrogant, and the certain thought of grandfather grandma may compare past the appointed time, if if often let grandfather grandma and child one case,sleeping so, the child may become aggressive is in charge of hard, it is disagreement even group.
After actually I accompany the child to sleep later, although the child just began some to defy, but as time passes, the change that produces on child body sees so that see.
I slowly he respects church elder, accompany everyday the story before sleeping is told to him when sleeping, teach his courtesy to need a person, and say a lot of close words with him in the late evening, he becomes more and more sensible, mouth also can say more and more, get along weller and weller also with the child. So, I suggest the child sleeps with parents as a child, such disposition to the child can have the effect of positive obverse side.
