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From of old, cold door Number One Scholar is inscribed by the word of take delight in talking about all the time. Also be the absolutely front teaching material of majority middle class, meet the ceaseless child that tells oneself: Their family condition is difficult, educational natural resources is backward also, but they can be taken an examination of as before go up a school. . . . . .
Remember Ma Yun becoming when Chinese head is rich, say with respect to somebody: He does not have powerful domestic background already, also do not have outstanding record of formal schooling, but he became Chinese head as before rich.
Zhao Liying grinds one sword 10 years, eventually conflagration, but those who say she is most is: Country of Zhao Liying one's previous experience, without any domestic background, in recreation the circle is felt climb boil hit 10 years, eventually conflagration.
Look be like is the effort that saying them, actually is the birth that emphasizing them, and " poor " the birth of relevant. The person is such, a lot of moment see a person succeeds extremely, envy exclaim, can automatic oversight drops his hardships twist, and go get to the bottom of his domestic background, record of formal schooling and all sorts of resource.
Always saying hard to just can succeed on the mouth, when but become,seeing other people is successful truly, the not can self-conscious success others does not ascribe to outside element.
"She is to should thank poverty, take an examination of how possibly otherwise on Beijing University "
"He should be thanked encountered a flock of right people "
"She should be thanked encountered a good Bai Le "
In fact, the intendment of world the real situation of adult is very few, more it is profit impact. Whether is a person willing to help you overshoot difficulty, depend on itself of your this individual has how many value. Namely of oneself contain Troy.
More thankworthy, it is oneself.
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Wang Xinyi of no less than is in " acknowledgment is poor " in write: What corporeal deficient brings is two kinds of results nothing more than, one is spirit exceeding deficient, another is spirit exceeding plentiful.
And often, the room that chooses latter is little. Because be in " poor " below limitation, the foot of confused to what did not come, Wei hand Wei to the opportunity, distrust to oneself, can break up of times in showing the process that grows now. Can become sensitive and flimsy, be absorbed in even at the moment.
Ceng Youyi reports, because an undergraduate is cheated 9900 yuan, do not bear, the means that uses the suicide left this world. A lot of people indissoluble: 9900 yuan, why to let a person desertion life, does a life of difficult a respectful form of address for a Taoist priest still not worth 9900 yuan? More be in what is more,the rather that in the future, she may gain is more 9900.
But lie to " poor " the family under limitation, these money, it is them east borrow collect comes out to go to school to the daughter on the west used only brushstroke fund, after this money disappears, this family perhaps is taking out such brushstroke money again without ability. To this girl, ashamed regret of the heart, self-condemned, compunction will be decuple centuple even wander in brain.
Because of end, when having a meal, dare not remain, even if stomach already very maintain very maintain; Dare not enter decorate very good shop; Even if later oneself made money, enter bazaar to still can feel nervous.
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Poverty is undeserved really by acknowledgment, true should benedictory, it is our oneself.
Be like poverty, him acknowledgment was born a box up, was not oppressed by the affliction place of the life of premature bring into contact with. Him acknowledgment believes " knowledge changes a destiny " , pay Zhu Shi carry out ceaselessly. If be full of, him acknowledgment is done not have by double eye of easy and comfortable loss, although family circumstances liberals to still be willing,thank oneself oneself go hard going all out in work.
Undeniable is, because " money " , can let one part person take a lot of roundabout way, also can let one part person be on shortcut. This world itself is inequitable, mean how old equilibrium rate, need oneself to same balance ability goes propping up.
Each person, or early or late, can walk into a society, live independently, need to belong to him sky, or big or small, but no matter how, want to remember, all these, result from oneself, not was necessary to who thank, if want to thank, that thanks oneself, that did not drop the soul oneself.
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