Honest and kind the undercurrent that is layer of river depth of water, it has power, but the surface does not have wave. Of a person honest and kind already refine becomes a kind of character and morals, it is one kind is mixed loftily more commendable state of mind.
Often hear of be an upright person should honest and kind, how can just you calculate honest and kind?
Honest and kind person, do not take family petty gain
The Bao Shuya of age, he never gains extra advantage unfairly for the person, particularly honest and kind, he has deal with Guan Zhongyi at that time, as a result Guanzhong takes away more money.
The family reminds with him, he does not have dispute not merely, still say to end is compared in Guan Zhongjia, show solicitude for his circumstance.
This lets me remember my father, he records funeral of kin friend marriage technically the ceremony of festival bag, how much does when saying my elder sister gets married for example, the family wrap, he writes down it, waited for someone daughter to get married, again a bit thicker the bag returns a family.
Honest and kind person does not take the family's petty gain, no matter be below what circumstances, live clearly, light, free and easy.
Honest and kind person, for consider of other be considerate
Confucius attends the family's funeral, beside the person that has funeral arrangement, he can feel with experience, oneself replace their sadness, have a meal repeatedly the metropolis is uncomfortable, the sort of constantly can the mood of others of show solicitude for also is a kind honest and kind.
" Fan Sixun " the example of the do good works that raise, make my impression very deep.
Flourish of Ming Dynasty poplar, his grandfather follows great-grandfather is make a living in order to ferry, row.
Just local flood, his grandfather follows great-grandfather " alone helps a person " , all goods were not taken, local still laughs at them addlehead, the opportunity of ill-gotten wealth of brushstroke of so good hair does not want.
This is a kind honest and kind, show solicitude for has the risk of life to the family, spelled life ground to save. Help perfect man even, gone person still scoops up them rapidly, because can be replaced,die domestic consider of the person. Want to if cadaver head searchs,know to be less than, the ancients can hold regret all one's life in the arms.
Honest and kind person knows personal office ground to be others consider, can do, use up oneself hard to do. So, with honest and kind person intersect, need not fortify, he can think you, help you.
Honest and kind person, can know favour pay a debt of gratitude
"Careful chase after eventually far, civilian De Guihou. Civilian De Guihou..
Those who raise oneself is honest and kind, do not forget who has grace to us among this lifetime constantly, want often can recall with deep emotion, often sign up for the favour of the teacher that once had taught us, elder that once took care of us then.
They are visited in order to go in the Spring Festival, important Jieqingdouke, thank them.
Read aloud favour, for old time's sake, do not forget old friend, be worth affirmation. Love the new and loathe the old, appear not honest and kind, acerbity.
Thick oneself person, surely poor other people, look up at oneself person only, wait for warmth of a heart hard naturally you. So, truly honest and kind person, also know necessarily know favour pay a debt of gratitude, need a person with deep feeling.
Honest and kind person, include more, condonable others
A person is among an organization the position is very high, cannot include, listen to others criticism to oppose with the family, make one group even, that is very big to the negative effect of the group.
So, person position heals tall, should have a kind of attitude more, every word and deed, every act should make the ethos of this organization better and better.
"Fair door good cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine " , those who become an officer, good in exalted person cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine, the area that affects because of him is large.
Same, look from another angle, fair door is good make trade, the manner is incorrect, be an upright person not honest and kind, take the person next bad, head bad common practice, this negative effect and place bear the blame big.
Oneself are honest and kind be an upright person, little to others accusing, much portion is good-tempered, just be to be far from the method with negative best result.
Honest and kind person, do not censure, do not give a person embarrassed
The thing had happened, tongue-lash him again there, hurt oneself honest and kind, also make the other side more afflictive at the same time.
Han Qi of Northen Song Dynasty is generation name official, he reads a book in the evening once, he is helped on the side hold lamp taxi arms has a place not dedicated, divided a god, burned his hair on the temples a little.
His head also does not have instantly turn, conveniently gives this ammunition destroy. Passed a little while, his disclosure has bit of case, turn the head looks, that soldier had been changed.
He says just that hold the person of the lamp, the person next says, he burns the general's hair on the temples, changed him. As a result Han Qi says, you look for him, he has known how to to burn a person.
Everybody thinks, if this soldier was walked along by tone really, fixed punish first, he is very difficult after the likelihood developed.
So Han Qi he cannot bear heart, small error, do not be willing punish other people, want to call him. I consider this soldier, meet all one's life be dead set follows Han Qi.
Not merely this soldier, the challenge that hears oneself when other soldier includes so the person next, the magnanimity of general of admire of feeling of certain all without exception and the care to the soldier, is that whole and legionary morale soars?
Need a person honest and kind it is classy intelligence, honest and kind person knows others to take some of space more, censure not overly, do not give a person embarrassed.
Honest and kind person, can use up oneself devoir
"Elder brother friendly younger brother respectful " , all family members, we are responsible also; "Father Ci Zixiao " , this " father " again outspread come, uncle, uncle, other elder member of family, we should give presents; Compeer family member should friendly affection.
Zhu Zi treats a maxim to tell, "See poverty-stricken kisses adjacent, must add lukewarm compensate " , honest and kind person sees the family member of poverty-stricken, neighbour, should endeavor to cherish them, help them, show solicitude for their difficulty, this has ties of friendship very much.
Although neighbour does not have kin, but common saying is told, "Distant relatives is inferior to near neighbour, near neighbour is inferior to face each other. Near neighbour is inferior to face each other..
Honest and kind person is having the inherent quality of be apt to, the devoir that can use up oneself naturally has done what should do.
Wish the heart sex that we can defend ourselves, do a honest and kind person.
