Opened term in September, after the child enters garden, the case that the parent considers to know the child is in the school most, what is the mistake that the parent often makes?
1. child, is the child had to bully you in nursery school?
Doesn't the teacher happy event of 2. nursery school like you?
Does 3. nursery school like your little boy?
Does Mr. 4. scold you?
Is 5. done not have in the school today satiate?
Has the school timetable on 6. shown?
Analysis: "What wrong guiding gets is you wanted answer is not your conceivable result however " , the child falls in the parent's guiding, continue to say downward down the parent's meaning, what get actually is not real result, for example, you ask the child somebody bullies you today, perhaps just somebody comes up against him not carefully, he can say that is to hit him, after such meetings cause the child, can feel others lay a finger on arrives she is to bullying him, this meeting affects the child's socialization badly.
Exemple one: With what means do you want to know child teacher attends class teach the child?
After coming home, you say with the child we play a game today, oneself act a child, let the child act pupil teacher, the child attends class to you with respect to the talking way that can imitate a teacher and expression, such not only won't misdirect child, return what can understand a teacher legibly to attend class means. (the proposal is using this method after the child goes to school for some time, you meet those who discover the child imitate force particularly strong, also can understand you to want to know. )
Exemple 2: Is what you want to know the child is in the school gregarious?
Can chat with the child first, and ask her invite the young associate in her school to play together, if the child can invite Lai Xiaopeng friend, and the good friend that can speaking those children is her is represented, be in the school the associate that these a few children are her.
Summary: The parent is not subliminal when ask the child the question guide the child, if the child says not to come out, go playing a part to act with the child, let child show come, the result that such getting is actualer!
The child in nursery school you want to let the child be noticed by the teacher, the most fundamental a bit condition that follows a teacher to communicate the child more certainly namely, but give a teacher pressure, it is to want to help the child grow with the teacher together, only the synchronism of teacher and family cooperates ability won't " 5+2+=0 " , it is true that domestic school is communicated can help the child grow!
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