Force is behavior of a kind of attack, below what kind of circumstance the mankind can be atttacked? One kind is to feel oneself got browbeat, feel feared, perhaps feel dignity got derogate, what does or else do, seem to be overcome quickly this kind felt. Be just like pretty of the Che Ye before when driving, be being encountered to change or by other vehicle forwardly wanton Gasser, can feel the behavior of the other side browbeat on one hand right now oneself safety, can feel the other side should not answer him on one hand additionally thing, then hard to avoid can have rage. Some department opportunities choose to press anger, some meetings press a horn a few times or be to show the tube a few times, some meetings be foul-mouthed. . . Upgrade gradually so, upgrade to the spot to get off finally dozen, this is one of reasons that generation atttacks behavior.
The 2nd kind of reason is the condition with little baby has similar, everybody often can see little baby is lifting a toy to be bungled toward firm of the firm on the ground, perhaps do a few destroy, every time after little baby did these businesses, can appear very excited very happy, but often the parent saw can go check or be being criticized even scold. Actually the baby of this moment, approbate and satisfy what oneself are trying to gain pair of him strength, experiencing a kind of competency feels, this inside be the composition existence that did not fear, it is infantile behavior only, be being unscrambled to be by many adult is perhaps do in attack destroy. When this is just like us to hit a net to swim, dish bird brushed new equipment, we can make a few kill and charge, this inside it is to do not have fearing composition to be in, more it is to want to experience this kind of feeling after obtaining new equipment. The time course bird in a lot of knight-errant drama, became the gest of some clique when practice, total meeting is excited east breathe out one palm is patted break a stone perhaps kicks one foot to with a bang break a tree on the west, actually this is to experiencing a kind can the;equal;fitter;fittest;qualified;equal to feeling that oneself go to controlling. Say to the mankind word so, attack means is he felt to be browbeaten, or an expression means that is the violent rage that feels to after be being derogated, arise, another is a kind of pattern that shows force and;equal;fitter;fittest;qualified;equal to sense. Among them husband often domestic cruel wife has the following 5 kinds of germ:
One, self-abased psychological;
Do not see a lot of men apparently very strong, actually the heart is however special not self-confident self-abased even person. His name-calling, hit support of the people to punish a person, it is a depression however in fact self-abased, establish self-confident procedure, serve as him especially beside the closest, most hnow through and through, the most effeminate with the person that need not be on guard most, wife be the first to be affected was become suffer its " self-abased psychology " mistreat " the first person " . The woman that this mistreats gets in real life, it is more outstanding likely, disposition is complaisant knowledge is general, and the self-abased psychology that her outstanding just deepened him.
2, ego feels primely reflect;
Of course, besides above says self-abased psychology, superior move of the man also is very terrible occasionally. Always be used to oneself and a wife to undertake comparative when a man, and how much can give a point quite " outstanding " when coming out, he also is very easy in " scold wife " on make paranoiac.
Such man most is ability having a place, nobody start work ability of beat one's brains, still be social class, and economic income, he is shown quite big outstanding. Then, when he confronts the wife in the home, a lot of responsibilities that always feel she is done cannot make him satisfactory, often ask with oneself standard and ability she. And once show,become her a little slow, or he himself gets the is inferior to person meaning stimulation of little outside, he can resemble the lion that is angry directly, mouth of Zhang Qi blood wishs to eat off others. This is his heart ego is reflected one kind of superior move, he needs to be mixed with clapperclaw " penalty " wife comes fill that paragraph of his more advantageous than wife difference.
Meet this kind of man, want to raise oneself ceaselessly, mix in the life, spirit economically accomplish independence as far as possible, strengthen study ceaselessly, through subconscious tell him, actually you also have a lot of more excellent than him places. When encountering brawl, do not have too much stick to one's position with him, want to make a noise to reachcapture, go to him dead in batch, approve so that his superior move alls gone, otherwise is flat the presence that ignores him, let him say to oneself, let him feel disregarding is the backstroke that feels the biggest primely to him.
3, psychological; of retaliation
More terrible than advantageous psychology is revengeful psychology, a lot of men can show obsequious before marriage, docile and obedient to you, but the individual changed completely after marriage, this cannot eliminate to have the possibility that retaliates psychology among them.
The feeling character of some man, does he say: ? She and her home person do not have? of Ao Yi Xie to see me when the person, there is hard work of what dirty work to let my person do; to say with respect to the face before me I am inferior to; of her little brother easily completely in the home if I joke one sentence casually, I often letting first-class when offending her to get angry to fool a week to pay no attention to my; to date is last hours, she such too do not respect a person. Married now, I also need not see her look again, anyway I also spend this time be bored with, she has loved not to pass, my most welcome! My most welcome!!
Of course, this is a kind of man retaliation psychology only, before resuming marriage with the newspaper after marriage namely. But still have a kind of more general retaliation, outside resuming marriage with the newspaper inside marriage namely then, what what the sound that cries just like the sea mentions in the incoming letter is same, she once had had the experience of the affair, even if he is right,she just suspiciouses one kind merely. Divide this, the account that is put likely still in retaliation is, she is bad to his parents, perhaps let him do not have face in certain circumstance. These or all big or small businesses, can pile up because of the stricture of his breadth of mind together, form incessant revengeful psychology finally, the retaliation of current range fails to oversew he " the psychology that get hurt " , so the retaliation from the back he can become more fierce... anyhow, the man least character of this kind of retaliation and the most terrible, besides part company and with cruel make cruel, appear to still be hard to find good the way to deal with a situation really.
4, genetic gene;
Be based on this, sky forever azure do not want to say more, is what want to say only: ? Feng Shengfeng of ? , the son of mice is met burrow! Marry him at the outset, you open an eye, his family at ordinary times disposition disposition how, more or less are you should want a consideration.
5, split personality, abnormal psychology.
Finally this one bell, be above 4 kinds synthesis shows, be above 4 kinds of mentation fail to get effecting a radical cure in time, and derive " cerebral paralysis " phenomenon. Meet this kind of patient's best way besides allow doctor treatment, hold the post of namely by go the illness is exasperate, put crematory cremation finally.
