Jiang Ying
It is male no matter play the part of female, pretend to be Gao Fushuai, still be woman net hands in friendly bunco, in recent years, as the development of mobile Internet, this kind of fraud already common occurance, total however somebody is gone to in auger. Can't help letting person ask a question, the youth knows perfectly well a network to join friendly venture big, why be always still so zealous?
Incident: Groups of small net loves cummer is the man talks about disgusting lovers' prattle to be divided unexpectedly twenty thousand and six
Xiaochen comes from Shandong Chongqing works 3 years, he says he is introvert, had not handed in a girlfriend before, but hope Tan Lian loves all the time.
This year in Feburary, xiaochen discovers on the mobile phone the name is " small elegant " the netizen is in request red package, QQ data shows, this is a schoolgirl, the picture is very pretty.
Then, xiaochen and " small elegant " chatted to rise. In the course of contacts, two people are riper, xiaochen puts forward to want to mix " small elegant " talk about love, "Small elegant " did not refuse, continue however and he jokingly, say Feburary 16 is his birthday, if he has sincerity, turn in that day on 1314 yuan of account to her, in order to show " one's whole life " changeless heart.
On Feburary 16, xiaochen hit 1314 yuan to " small elegant " on account. Half month later, "Small elegant " with all sorts of excuse, looked for Xiaochen to want 26 thousand yuan, every time fine long hair of small Chen Dou agrees forthwith. Small Chen Yao " small elegant " meet, but the other side finds out all sorts of excuse to decline however.
Xiaochen's elder brother feels this thing has a problem. On March 7, he is dialed " small elegant " phone, "Small elegant " did not receive, also hit again later was illogical.
On March 24, the elder brother is taking Xiaochen to report a case to the security authorities, he suspects the little brother was cheated. The policeman passes Xiaochen turn Zhang record, examined the information of person extraction a money. The policeman moves the monitoring discovery that takes ATM chance, those who take a money is a young man of 1945 years old.
In April the middle ten days of a month, the policeman is in the male youth Xiaoqin that an Internet bar found dam of sanded level ground 24 years old. Xiaoqin admits very quickly, he is " small elegant " . Xiaoqin is to join plain person, did not secure the job, all the year round outer loaf about. Xiaoqin says, he is sham the female registered QQ, look for a person to chat on the net play. Did not think of Xiaochen was taken seriously, xiaoqin decides to cheat Xiaochen's money.
On QQ and small letter, they two with " husband " , " wife " proportional. Xiaochen follows everyday " small elegant " word of plead for mercy for sb, so disgusting finally that let small Qin Dou be overcome, be aware of somewhat plus Xiaochen's elder brother, xiaoqin decides to sever connection with Xiaochen.
Policeman introduction, xiaoqin does not have guilty criminal record, also not be occupational swindler, he just feels small to Chen Hao is cheated, and cheat come 20 thousand multivariate be spent at random by him.
The network hands in friendly fraud common occurance to exceed citizen of netizen of half the number to had been encountered
" after man network hands in friend dropping to love a river to be cheated 68 thousand yuan one after another, just wake up to reality " , " Nantong girl net hands in friend to be cheated man of case of 20 thousand experience is sentenced arrest battle 4 months " , " groups of small net hands in friend to encounter " goddess " after collecting more than 10000 yuan, similar news already was common occurance.
The reporter interviewed tens of renown netizens, citizen randomly, exceed half the number to had encountered the fraud that make friend on the net, but it is to encounter merely, expressed clearly without the person to be cheated.
Live in river north area " Zjfchina " it is a reporter in interviewing an object, from " be cheated " a closer. What he encounters is wine is held in the palm, "On the net, a female netizen adds me actively to chat, chat a few more soundly later, make an appointment with me to go again avalokitesvara bridge meets. " as a result of at that time " Zjfchina " it is lone, answer to be headed for about. After meeting, female netizen asks to go some coffee hall drinks bit of stuff, "Zjfchina " be aware of somewhat immediately, say oneself do not love to drink coffee, but female netizen insists to want to appoint that coffee hall all the time, "Zjfchina " rejected female netizen then and find an excuse leaves. He enquires on the net whether the other side is held in the palm for wine later, the other side was not denied.
Live in big crossing area, the boy small moustache that is engaged in service industry also encountered a belle on the net last year, head portrait beauty is colourful moving, "Most begin to think oneself encounter a belle really, chat fervently! " after be familiar with a little, this " belle " look for Xiaohu to lend money with all sorts of reason all the time, ask in several not after fruit, "Belle " deleted Xiaohu.
Miss Zhang that pursues downstage job in an Internet company is to be in marriage love doubt has been encountered to be like cheater on the net, "Through some large marriage loved a net to know a man at that time, each side is quite good. We still met, the sense is quite good also. " later, this male netizen looks for Miss Zhang to had borrowed hundreds yuan, miss Zhang turns through small letter Zhang gave this male netizen, "He also returned me, but passed a few days to look for me to borrow 3000 yuan again, money borrowed to be returned before still saying, ask me to believe him, but I did not manage him. " Miss Zhang says, oneself also do not know he is true seducer.
Why is modern fond of a network to make friend?
The network makes friend fast match, what equality suffers a youth is close look at
Affection expert Liu Wenjing thinks, present youth, most job is busy, the network handed in friend to offer the convenient way that make friend for everybody. You do not need to go out even, can find a Ta that admire in the heart, raised the possibility with successful appointment. Making friend is to communicate with communication, and the network makes friend is free the opportunity that speaks in an equality beyond real life. In reality, people regular meeting feels such or in that way bemused, do not facilitate however pour out to the friend beside. The network hands in friend to be able to break through the confine of time, space, break through the bounds that honour low, density concerns, the identity with complete equality is communicative, obtain delay commentate the intense sentiment, goal that communicates an idea.
The necessary product that mobile Internet high speed develops
The Gan Feng that is engaged in media observation 5 years thinks, the network makes friend fervent, it is the necessary product that mobile Internet develops, the fragment that can use nowadays spends time increasing, handed in friend to become a when dismiss the fragment spends time good option. Small like the juggler in the first case the Qin Dynasty, he does not have guilty criminal record, also not be occupational swindler, he just feels small to Chen Hao is cheated, oneself have time again, became cheater naturally.
It is good that the network hands in friend to must master degree
Psychological expert Li Haibo thinks, the network hands in friend to be able to release the pressure of real life, but must take hold good sense of property. Tell from psychology, indulge for long the network hands in friendly meeting to cause psychological disease, if the network is alone,disease, network becomes addiction disease to wait. Former more shows physiology and the obstacle that meet a side, latter side overweight is human the obstacle of society side. The network accompanies the human relation obstacle that has different rate necessarily into addiction disease, patient of network loneliness disease does not show apparent physiology obstacle certainly. Network loneliness disease happens in more introvert person on the body, its model symptom is: Indulge network, break away from reality, close-lipped little sign, the mood is depressed, gregarious range is narrow, human relation is chill. As a result of individual attention and individual interest dedicated at the network, affect regular study job not only, special the mental health that goes against oneself develops.
The network makes friend fervent already was a fact we should learn to prevent more cheat
Look, the network handed in friend to had become the necessary product that the times develops.
Actually, turn over the QQ that turns over you, small letter, what have associate of the friend of not little alumnus, neighbour, friend, job is companionate, this is belonged to actually " the network makes friend " , since the network is handed in friendly fervent already was a fact, if that wheres between the men and women " the network makes friend " in precaution is deceived, we must Get!
Above all, should rise namely be on guard consciousness. Cheater deceives people no more than uses a person namely gain extra advantage unfairly or other and fluky psychology, because this is common,we should be accomplished not covet petty gain, not seek expedience, raise vigilance at the same time, of not credulous stranger fair-spoken, more do not divulge oneself address, full name to alien casually.
Next, must manage sexual intercourse is friendly, avoid impulse harum-scarum. Make friend, must hold to " one takes on the color of one's company, close Chinese ink person black " principle, always good, absorb; always bad, determined slam the door. Cannot flow simply at fair-weather friend, perhaps do not divide black and white, not differentiate good and evil. A lot of cheater is do-nothing, the generation of low common indelicacy, once discover, must be far from, can cause on a lot of troubles otherwise.
The 3rd, the person's much place chooses as far as possible when the netizen meets: For instance bazaar, busy streets, lively street etc, do not select the site such as guesthouse, bar as far as possible, should not drink more.
The 4th, the link that does not believe the other side fills the reason such as the card that be worth a dot, telephone bill to be sent in the process that make friend, do not open easily, cannot input the information such as oneself bank card more.
The 5th, during this if have,borrow the behavior such as money not to believe more. If be his good friend,wait for network behavior to lend money through QQ at the same time, must call first it is clear to ask, affirm to decide to be like where buy again after information of the other side.
As the ceaseless development of mobile Internet, networks of more and more person selected choose make friend, the network hands in friend to be decieved case of course also subsequently grow in quantity. China has an adage to be put in actually " the network makes friend " on very appropriate also -- the heart that kills a person cannot have, the heart that prevents a person cannot be not had.
