[9 when ego grows are stuck person]
① talks with care and self-condemned snout, duty before the person first duty oneself.
② seeks a means when anything crops up and not be to look for excuse.
③ nurturance records a habit, do not count a head.
Not small talk abandons ④ everything
⑤ reminds him to record inspiration at any time.
⑥ intention listens attentively to the word that does not break others.
⑦ everyday conscious sincerity praises others 3 above.
⑧ everything makes a plan beforehand, change target vision as far as possible.
⑨ hour smile waits for a person to play.
[talk with oneself] when in the still of night, distracting thoughts of slam the door, watch him heart instead, whether to see oneself return him understanding? Have the original intention when abandoning to set out? Whether were a few needless responsibilities held in knapsack? What thing to because go to get haste and fall,leave? Whether is joy still carried? Whether are family and friend still in the heart that conspicuous position? -- often sit to chat alone with oneself, do not let oneself become the most familiar stranger!
[manage psychology: If controller should say least of all]
1, do not involve my issue; 2, why you... ;
3, above how to scold me, I scold you with respect to how; 4, I also do not have method
5, I say to be no good be no good; 6, you say how with respect to how;
7, I at any time can how; 8, you are very stupid really;
9, be no good, my ability is limited, who goes who will do; 10, very good " , " pretty is pretty good " .
[amative psychology: What person has suited all one's life] 1. Termless like to be together with the other side; 2. Each other are communicated easily; 3. Two people have joint concept and viewpoint of value on the heart; 4. Be willing to be each other and appoint it is personally in long-term marriage; 5. Conflict or wish to be faced jointly when conflict and solve; 6. Each other are droll, often have mirth; 7. Understand each other, admit weakness of the other side; 8. But from get trusting supportive affirmation over there the other side; 9. Your get along very comfortable.
[the 6 psychology scotoma that makes you tired] 1, do not be good at discovering sunshine extent -- magnified the happiness of others, narrowed oneself joy; 2, devoid belief -- do not know oneself want; 3, old love is compared -- the desire is remained only in the heart, did not have happiness; 4, do not know dedication -- everything haggles over every ounce; 5, insatiable -- unending desire; 6, mutual distrust -- person and popular feeling spirit are gradually aloof.
[interior health is held] 1, write be thankful diary. 2, the mood takes notes. 3, ego is complimentary note. 4, hear music 10 minutes everyday. 5, the book that every month reads to let him heart grow instinctively. 6, every month does to want to do the business that dare not do however.
[9 kinds of friends that are worth to be handed in greatly] 1, you let drive the advantage that you see yourself; 2, the inadequacy that reminds you to let you see your; 3, safeguard you and you can praise before others; 4, with your gout agree with each other; 5, the friend that can introduce you to him; 6, can let heart of your whole body loosen; 7, can make you organic can contact new point of view, new thing; 8, can help you manage clear job and life train of thought; 9, have good news for a short while
[psychological skill: Duty field lives 5 small stick person] 1. Aimless person goes hard to have the person of the target forever; Doing not have the crisis is the biggest crisis, contented current situation is the biggest fall is told. 2. Be opposite below note, win; Follow pair of people, win generation. 3. The boss can give you a seat only, cannot give you a future. 4. Record of formal schooling represents the past, financial capacity acting expression is in, study ability delegate will come. 5. Knowledge changes lifetime, imperceptible meeting forfeits all one's life.
[psychological skill: How to overcome impatient disposition] 1, have a meal time as far as possible not less than 20 minutes, to nibble slow pharynx; 2, talking control language fast, had wanted to say again, do not break people talk at will; 3, see a webpage do not read headline only, intensive reading is careful read union; 4, on foot, drive not to exceed others of purpose; 5, the habit of type of charge forward of the give up in the job, not anxious, of in an orderly way work. 6, look for a familiar person to supervise remind oneself.
[" cultured person " characteristic of had 10 big individual character] 1, time keeping; 2, style of conversation has a red-letter day; 3, amitable; 4, mood cogency avoids loudly roaring; 5, the attention chats skill; 6, not prideful; 7, abide by a promise; 8, show loving care for other; 9, magnanimous; 10, rich sympathize with a heart. -- stroke heart and ask, a few can you accomplish?
10 psychology that make a heart powerful are alluded] 1. No matter what do, be being written down is do for oneself 2. Face dilemma not pessimistic and world-weary 3. Any moment are not afraid of come again 4. Make oneself gentle and a bit more open-minded 5. The girl wants first economy talks again independently other 7. Do not forget knowledge of attend in a advanced studies, widen mind 8. A bit cheesier, lost stuff did not belong to him 9. Should maintain the romantic feelings like the girl 10. Him fun of life is searched, nobody obligation pleases him.
[7 habits of low efficiency personage] 1, absent; 2, dilatory; 3, do inessential thing; 4, much Lv; 5, everything is too inactive; 6, bigoted, insular; 7, heavy reply interest is excess. A few do you occupy?
[come home to do 6 things surely] 1, do not get angry before parents, your expression is affecting parents directly. 2, accompany parents to laugh together. Do not feel you see much, bad laugh. 3, company parents goes into the street, promote a thing to parents. 4, parents ought not to say, too " pedantry " , you should listen, can correct, but notice pattern, you are responsible tell the world outside to parents. 6, accompany parents to wait for more be in.
[confused when 8 words that see] ① handles the mood first, reconditioning thing; When ② is the most difficult, when be close to a success most namely; ③ is not anxious for punch-drunk future, try hard now for what be clear about only; ④ good-tempered other people is right your affront; ⑤ does not want without reason or cause envy; ⑥ seeks a means to succeed only, do not look for excuse to fail; ⑦ does not see me what lose, see me what still have only; ⑧ is used most relaxation state of mind treats all hardship.
[the 10 great performance of psychological consenescence] one, competitive consciousness degrades; 2, self-abased psychology; 3, reaction is unusual; 4, bigoted; 5, disposition is dissocial; 6, thinking is slow; 7, disposition is impatient; 8, the mood is absentminded; 9, gradually lazy; 10, handle affairs loss of efficiency. Hope you are done not have!
[foster from confidence] 1 do not want for no reason at all to say his to get without a single redeeming feature 2 be brave in the 3 hearten of specialty of project oneself spirit dares to face the challenge in the life and failure 5 others follow the 4 central positions that try to sit in the crowd the eye when you speak. Enchanted be inferior to the action, should be done only can become more and more self-confident
[10 action help you win take boss optimal impression] 1. Arrive early;2. Never with " this is not the job inside my portion " for play truant;3. When facing formidable task calm;4. Start work immediately;5. One's intention revealed in saying tightens;6. Comply with of boss temporarily assign;7. Taking a solution to report working;8. Work with unselfish state of mind;9. Be good at making resolute decision;10 in crucial moment. Major and pertinent information are substantial
[13 action from alarm promotion individual ability] 1. Read everyday. 2. Learn new language. 3. Conquer your fear. 4. Upgrade your skill. 5. To what did not come oneself write a letter. 6. Admit oneself weakness. 7. Act instantly. 8. The person that admires to you learns. 9. Reduce the time on QQ. 10. Develop a new habit. 11. Pervious goes. 12. Send person rose, the hand has lingering fragrance. 13. Rest well.
[Google Melissa? Mayer talks about a profession to plan] go in hesitation in those days when Mai Ken stannum or Google, the friend gave her the proposal: "Right choice has a lot of, after was being chosen, be about to be a success hammer and tongs. " she suggests later people: 1. The cleverest person that can find with you cooperates; 2. Do you to did not plan the thing that do; 3. Look for the environment that lets you feel comfortable, so that can find ego; 4. For accredit your person works, they can foster you
[how to make others trustful you] ① installs a lock to his mouth, do not try to say a whole idea; ② makes commitment less, assure their credit; ③ does not miss admiration and the opportunity that encourage others forever; ④ maintains open state of mind, discuss but do not argue, although not approve of, also not anger angry, this is the mark with mature heart; ⑤ treats the affection of others carefully.
[psychology hints -- 14 reasons that the person can feel doleful and empty] ⒈ lack is devotional; ⒉ person compares a person; ⒊ is not touched to good thing; ⒋ does not know almsgiving; ⒌ is insatiable; ⒍ angst; ⒎ pressure is great, the level is high; ⒏ dare not hold to him; Heart of ⒐ gain and loss is strong; ⒑ is drab with the rule; ⒒ lives too idle or too busy; ⒓ goes after profitless joy overly; ⒔ goes after joy overly outwards, heart of and rather than; ⒕ affection suffers tired.
