Just graduated, do not know oneself suit what to do, how should do?

Graduate season, all be confused season.

In the day of graduation, if was not being written on your face " confused " 2 words, feel embarrassed say oneself are graduate. N of fight in some places one by one city, choose Home N company, sent N portion resume, still do not know direction where to be finally.

When strong finish school, I am very confused also, when applying for a job, for many times be rebuffed. When be being written down the most miserably, it is to be in company of sale of an English course, have 5 stuff only, day sky street looks for a client to sell a class, sweep nursery school in turn everyday, come home to call then even, did 3 many months, a course did not sell go out, be overcome really later, give oneself directly " put summer vacation " came home.

The family member persuades me not to want have grandiose aims but puny abilities, from electric business the simplest job customer service is made, the MMP in my heart, does my undergraduate students go making customer service? Be not accepted.

That paragraph of time is me when self-confident heart is the poorest, feel him without a single redeeming feature, what job does not work. In the home pressure is very great, had graduated after all, not be the child any more, however in the society " adult " , do not have income in the home all the day however, face parental hard to avoid to have trifling and ashamed, psychological pressure also is not small...

Be informed classmate B to be mixed well accidentally later, took an examination of officeholder, took national unit, everyday toward 9 evening 5 relaxed and comfortable. The instant very envy, fall in parental support next, I also was taken an examination of 5, 6, interview two, take an examination of eventually went up.

In two years when go to work, have twists and turns insipid, just began to heading strong strong active study, do not understand to ask, later as the job more and more begin, get up to know in the morning today inquire for what person, say what word, know to want to handle what issue next month last month, this kind repeats boring job to be about to make me mad drop simply.

My not reconciled to, what I want is the sort of is knowing him meeting tomorrow today what kind of, I hope to be able to contact new idea, new face everyday, I hope my future has countless to plant likelihood, these sealed things I am to miss clinking excitement solely really, then I decide to turn row.

So the issue came, apply for a job afresh, cross even row, how should I drill find those who suit oneself with respect to piercing eye, the fly that still resembles doing not have a head is same, rush about bump in disorder, do not have professional program apparently, the highroad dare be not entered.

I present adopt ego analysis, practice, found the job that oneself like eventually, every sky class has a challenge, have fun, will to everybody share experience so.

In old domestic education and school education, the school, parent encourages us to improve culture quality all the time, but did not guide us to develop interest well, shape viewpoint of value. Bring about us to know to learn only, know the world outside not quite, do not reach the designated position even what oneself also know, more do not carry professional program.

Since lack acknowledge, be inferior to taking the advantage of this opportunity to know his well. When doing data to analyse the job for instance, him discovery of unresponsive to maths ability is not good at some people with digital contact with, when doing a sale to work, some human case introversion are not willing and stranger conversation just discovers he is not good at at be being communicated with the person.

The lifetime of the person that be the same as manage also is the process of a ceaseless exploration, what is wanting the disposition characteristic that realises oneself adequately, what don't oneself like, oneself have He Tianfu again. Had sufficient acknowledge to ego only, in that way ability is unapt not careful go wrong.

How to find these? In " commercial pattern the Cenozoic Era " the author in one book put forward a such deeply touched to read aloud: Canvas of pattern of trade of custom-built individual edition, in this canvas, can find your core resource, include individual character, advantage, mastery of a skill or technique, and you change showing resource, achieve the goal that meets ego deeply.

When you know yourself deeply, won't choose you naturally to not be willing to do, the job that perhaps is not good at. Before if I can be being done,for instance the 2nd works, know oneself are immanent demand, won't take an examination of officeholder.

Through on one pace, believe you had had deep knowledge to oneself, find your interest to be in namely next. Want to choose good job, want to ask yourself's interest the place above all. What do I like to do? I most what be good at?

A lot of people know interest interest is best teacher, also have a lot of people, what is the interest that does not know oneself. Hand of 5 methods handgrip introduces to teach you to find your interest below

1. statistic analyses a way: You are in statistic in daily life, oneself attention and energy basically are in which centrally, most is your interest interest over there.

2. Eliminate a doctrine: Enumerate a few things that oneself like, one by one eliminates, see which remain finally, cook for instance, listen music and play game in 3 option, you like which most, or you can abandon finally which.

3. Observation law: Him observation reacts in which respect rate is rapidder, it is arithmetical respect, still remember a respect, usually, the person with computational strong capability wants more and digital contact with.

4. Practice law: When not be good at some respect, early days needs to cost time to practice. Draw for instance, learned ability to know he has interest.

5. Consult a law: Consult to the person beside, you can discover the business that you do insensibly at ordinary times, that is your interest. When if be in,applying for a job, you do not have any skill, the interest that finds oneself is crucial one annulus, you want between time-sharing of season greater part and work after all contact with, without interest, fact is hard hold to. After finding interest, deepness education, the made technical ability that makes you have a meal, bad.

A teacher has said so a word, very approve of: Want to know oneself do a thing comfortable do not suit, best method is done namely with all one's strength, go all lengths. Such you can be absolutely inside the shortest time gain real experience, experience. Resemble a road we had not gone, do not understand the view on the road for certain, duty field is same also, much trial and error just can find the job that suits his, thinking one begin not always to be able to be taken the most satisfactory, duty field also needs to adjust ability to understand his development way more.

An old professor when remembering attending a college tells the son that has him to us graduation was changed inside 5 years nearly 5, 6 jobs, just determine professional direction eventually till recently, it is the professor's child, also do not have method to find lifework at a draught, go trying more, also be rich life experience.

So, want to find the job that suits oneself, it is him understanding above all, do not want echo what other says, the; that him escape does not like is the interest that finds his next, then you want deduction the working; that do acts namely finally, every time tries to you it is valuable experience, the footmark of all actions can aid you find good job.