How to avoid an agreement to encounter dispute

Both sides of male and female talks about marriage talking to marry buy a house, the money of the female deposit that uses oneself and the parents that borrow paid complete radicals by which characters are arranged in traditional Chinese dictionaries, because the woman is 2 flatlet,so for little pay taxes bridal chamber was written only the man's name. Feeling appears at the back of the result problem, male want to part company stoutly, saying a room is his money that pays to just rent the woman. So, how to put an end to relevant controversy, perhaps prevent relevant contradiction, here, introduce simply, a few kinds of the most commonly used method, stamp graph understands