Jewish people, this has the nation of 13 million population only, picked however nearly 1/3 nobel prize, held the seat of close half the number on global plute a list of names posted up. Huge success results from the Jew values education confirmedly, include outstanding domestic education, school education and ego education, highlight most with domestic education especially among them. What how let the child fall in love with study do you know to Judaic parent is?
Teaching filial study respect, the Jew has a famous advice:
Do not go up to the child forcibly heavy yoke, study dictates the ability when be being communicated relaxed and cheerfully only is businesslike.Parents pullbacks the child from public place of entertainment study orbit, or child of surveillance of leave no stone unturned, let the child very hard enter study state, because both sides has made pair of stand erect state.
The fun that the Jew gives birth to study personify, the parent's concept develops the child hobby to study and interest namely above all, the book aroma breath of if things go on like this is edified, can let the child return desk happily by.
Any parents want to solve the study problem of good child thoroughly, must know oneself child first.
If do not find the reason of problem happening, although used a lot of methods, also have limitation, but the crucial point that if we found child study,the problem is, choose to compare appropriate method to solve the child's problem again next, compare easy to handle.
In Israel, parents pays attention to those who rear the child to read very much interest, habit and desire.
The Jew has a such traditions, when the child just was born, parents can go up in the drop on page honey, let the child lick, such, the child can feel to read good like sweet candy. The worry is encountered in the life when the child when, the knowledge that can acquire in book can help you eliminate it, let you feel the sweetness of the life.
The child is 9 years old when, they can prepare a few colourful drawing books to perhaps contain the book of grotesque symbol for the child, one have leisure, place these books before children, draw the child's attention.
Because built the interest to the book from childhood times, the Jew is lifelong the convention that holds love to read.
In the 5.4 million Jewish population of Israel, have books card have 100 much, the whole nation has nearly 30 the press to be published with 15 kinds of characters respectively, first what the press of Israel and library amount reside the whole world by population scale, have nearly 900 kinds of publications, average every 4000 people have a public library.
The findings of U.N. Educational shows, reading a book every year to rank first is a Jew, one year average it is 64. Shanghai person reads book quantity to be ranked in China the first, but also have 8 only.
Division of famous society psychologist treats Israel the doctor put forward child reading 10 kinds of methods, the study ability that can let the child times add, also can let the volitional character that child nurturance learns. These 10 kinds of methods are:
1. Let the child understand the first to study is.
For instance, jewish child is firm sensible when, can let him kiss a honey on the book; The bookshelf in Jewish home should be put in the head of a bed, show the adult respect to knowledge with this. Jewish marriage, it is flourish with can marrying scholastic daughter.
2. Do not make the child long to book.
Review for some time everyday enough, want him to be able to perserve only, more more effective than sitting for long before desk.
3. The avoid by all means after having a meal lets the child read.
The blood after the meal is flowing to gastric ministry to help aid digestion, at that time, the blood of cerebral ministry can decrease apparently. If parents forces the child to read right now, can let the child feel dazed to the head goes up only, efficiency is low.
4. Search the child " biological clock " .
Everybody has him " biological clock " , in time of this biological clock paragraph inside, learn efficiency get twice the result with half the effort. Parents should notice observation, discuss together with the child piece " biological clock " time paragraph, choose this paragraph of time to clutch study.
5.Advisory child does not want an edge to listen to the study side music, the heart has distracting thoughts study, can feel study is a burden only.
6.Doer front courtyard hits cent to make.
Parents and child undertake reading discussion, fill in next achievement report is only. If the child just uses slack attention to treat,read, so his achievement may be " C " , if the child is straight-out, be full of what joyance and enthusiastic ground speak him to read experience, that parents should give him for certain one expresses outstanding " A " .
7.Encourage the child to learn a palm to accuse to learn time.
Look in Judaic parent, teacher, running time is a main study mastery of a skill or technique, its importance not at all inferior apply at geometrical theorem.
8.Judaic tower of the famousest pedagogic Bach heart has said: "Grade issue of the child, depend on learning a habit, is not endowment.
Study needs self-awareness, need ego control, ego is responsible. So, when the child is little, parents is about to help them build the habit of study as early as possible.
9.Supervise and urge child learning avoid by all means chatters, bagatelle of important matter of avoid by all means wants interference.
The garrulous long-winded be favored with in the parent, in censuring rebuke, the child has happy state of mind absolutely impossibly, undertake active and active reflection very hard also.
10.Avoid by all means " dynamic " , pay attention to successive.
Because express very big hope to the child, the education with easy overmuch work out plans the parent, clutch all opportunities and leisure let the child learn this to learn that, must the circumstance successive according to the child, do according to one's abilities. Yuan Sheng of salutary influence of education has head anourous dynamic too.
Parents' truly successful love, the life that lets the child become independent as as early as possible namely is individual, face the world with independent character. Let go earlier, the child can be on independent district earlier. It is to kill fondly, cruel-hearted it is love, the parent learns to love, the child wins tomorrow!
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