Say wide look does not leave fleshy body on north, 34 lines put no less than souls, but fleshy body after all soul of be not a patch on, have one everyday so large quantities of people advance wave upon wave, leave 34 lines to head for big city. But these a few years, many people plaint, in great city life more and more difficult.
It is difficult to want to know to have many, see recent hot search know, it is at the same time 90 hind the job buys a house 3.43 years, it is 6 manhood light person puts no less than money at the same time. Actually collect of these two topics is together, knowing house backside is who is after all exerted oneself.
First for say, is buying a house after all to just needed?
The answer is affirmative. Toward close say, settle, marry, toward far say, the child is born, go to school, how seeing a room is to just needed.
Small king of the closest colleague is depressed very. He of original live frugaly falls in the case that wins parental part subsidy, can follow what main rooms hires to go up constrainedly, had prepared wait for collect a few years enough head Fu Zai buys a house. Never miss rent one round this soared to throw into confusion thoroughly his plan, because of income go up cannot have caught up with far do not go up the pace of hire. Soon head pay not only did not continue grow in quantity, less and less instead, those who add a girlfriend is ceaseless and urgent, xiaowang can reach projecting hand to parents again only. After drawing out empty parents half a lifetime to accumulate almost, eventually round house dream.
These a few years, there are many youths beside, want to marry however by house box up hands or feet. 90 hind the fellow says with me, calculate mother-in-law to be not begged, oneself do not have a room, feel embarrassed to marry the girlfriend come home.
Even if is short-term inside did not marry plan, many people also buy a room to carry the order of the day, the malpractice that rents a house after all is too much, chummage rises, live randomly, with the dispute of landlord, encounter strange flower roommate, stake stake be in recount a word: Buy a house rapidly.
Say the chummage that rises ceaselessly recently, had remembered canorous a slap on the face to the youth that does not buy a house at the outset. Feel always in the past to wait earned big money to buy a bit finer house again, just discover later, buy Fang Yue to jump over Yao to cannot be reached. Many people plaint, chummage is in nibble head pays.
Then, buy Fang Yue to jump over extremely urgent.
Although be to just needed,can buy a house, but the 90 income after and deposit however with the room valence pole does not become direct ratio. Then, pa Mom must come out in station of the moment of truth, lose a family fortune, buy a house to the child.
Someone says, it is the youth does not try hard. But tell the truth, it is assiduous youth to still can not afford a room.
I have a hair small, after the university graduates, stay in Shanghai, the job bought a house 4 years. We envy him to be able to earn inside so short time at that time enough head pay, in succession to his ask for advice. Just know later, it is parents took out their old saving so Qi Shoufu of ability reluctance collect.
Actually, hair is small very hard, very economical also, but eliminate is necessary expenditure, even if put completely rise, also collect is insufficient head pay. But face involve the rent that raise ceaselessly, still cannot leave parental assistance.
CCTV once reported, 90 hind a person of extraordinary powers casts a 17 million house that entire section buys next Shenzhen Shekou to enrol Shang Shuangxi. In the dialog of its and reporter, can discover, this 90 hind did not work, do not have deposit more, the money all that buys house place comes from parents.
Can live in, can one-time the parents that takes out ten million RMB is minority after all, a lot of youths buy room backside, often be a family of another sky that be drawn out.
Parents, even grandparent, spend smooth total saving, outer leaf daughter bought a house, reduced their burden, oneself bear enormous pressure, live frugaly, dare not spend, not dare ill, which unexpected expenses becomes for fear that last straw that collapses whole family.
Then, these year, increasing person talks: Should the youth draw out empty parents to buy a house after all?
Look in me, assisting is to assist, if want to draw out empty, parents should be weighed in the hand weigh in the hand.
Be in China, a lot of parents are met unconditional support children, buying a room to go up is bend more its are all, think such they can spend superior time, actually otherwise. A lot of youths need not give the room that can have his, they often can produce a kind of illusion, seem to need not pay what can get oneself want. This kind is very fond of, it is harm actually.
My neighbour is a such people, in one's childhood the clothes stretchs his hand the meal comes dehisce, the parents after be brought up is being helped buy a room to buy a car, what need not he worries about. So old, taking dead salary, learn actively rarely, the thing of the meeting is very few also, however a bit feels without the crisis. In the final analysis, still have money support rear.
A lot of youths think, house price in successive years rises now, oneself just worked before long, can not afford a room at all. Really, parents can need to help children appropriately, reduce their burden, but this does not express so that buy a house for the child, it is of course.
Resemble above mention that 90, in the dialog with the reporter, he appears very relaxed, a bit does not feel 17 million it is how large number, also do not feel oneself still do not have the job to take parental so much money has what problem. A lot of parents plaint, the child more and more do not understand be thankful, more and more resemble supercilious look wolf, the reason is very actually simple: Of parental be used to.
These year such story often sees in news, the son lives in capacious and bright building, parents lives in old old dangerous house however.
Not long ago has see such a news, an old person of 91 years old stays in Anhui in the 8 activities of smooth rice board room, below many degrees 40 high temperature environment hardship lives, 3 sons that live around however turn a blind eye to.
Parents if bend is used up all, the child is met instead more and more insatiable.
Shanghai Pudong airport once had produced one act tragic, 25 years old of youths that go to day to study abroad receive the mother of machine to prick 9 knives repeatedly to coming round, send its on the spot insensible. The reason is the requirement of consumption of high specified number that the mother cannot satisfy him actually, but the mother had sold off exclusive house property and still raise debt everywhere.
These story backside that make a person distressed, the disobedient that is children admittedly is gone against and rebel, but this why is not their parents is indulgent and doting. Answered just about that word: Your stump the child's wing, blame him to won't fly however. Of parents do too much, letting a youth lose free-standing ability.
But some parents are fortunately soberer.
Before paragraph time, a son hope parents goes Hangzhou money him side buys a house, mom wrote to refuse a letter to the son:
"Look in me, your need of 26 years old assumes a few things alone, is not to resemble in one's childhood you are same, want to cry only, say, can get oneself want. Can get oneself want..
"Mom just hopes you can be clear, your eventually wants him to fly, and I and your father are your strong supporter only, is not carry advanced face on the head forever that.
"Mom hope, you can get through your effort you want, no matter be a house, still be a dream. You are to want a person to move toward sealed future after all.
Cannot help nodding assist.
Tell the truth, look at 90 hind the news that works 3.43 years to buy a house, having one's heart filled with is the compassion to parents. Not be to say parents should not help the child overshoot difficulty, lose a family fortune however the supportive may not of type is a favour.
Look in me, parents gives head paying is a bottom line. If the child presses a root to return ability without countervail, buy a room to also can procrastinate break down a family. Him youth should understand this reason more, be being paid to yours without who on this world is perfectly justified. Ability matchs not the boiler of funeral desire, also can oneself are fought.
