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Last weekend, of CCTV " term begins the first class " cause numerous anger, did not think of besides watch compulsively, be late and insert sow advertisement of 15 minutes of trade besides dot of these a few chamfer, return new problems crop up unexpectedly.
Because program series invited a few to help strength when red God star, many parents and spectator feel malcontent.
They are abuse these star " not male not female " , censuring the program of CCTV to be done so is the aesthetic view with incorrect transmission, bring bad influence to the child, can let leave generation " more and more woman " .
In the friend group that the net conducts CCTV producer, be aimed at these censuring is such replies: We also feel disgusted these little fresh pork, still can want toughen one's scalp-brace oneself to request with the leader, who lets your home child like to look such.
Existence also is actually in utterance wear what star to this kind to distain, and the neglect one's duty that criticises present child likes them is parent education.
As a result this whole country grows and the disturbance between CCTV, ineffable around " the woman prepares Chinese medicine by roasting it in a pan " male open up a new ground.
Our society, especially young woman, be affected by day Han popular culture, be opposite nearly 10 years fine and comely model the aesthetic preference of male star, it is the fact that does not dispute.
Right consciousness arousal of the female, companion mastered more active advantageous position on aesthetic consumption as them. In this tide, these young boys lie an awkward condition.
On one hand, they are OK in vermicelli made from bean starch control the forces of nature, the place when with respect to image height Xiao Song talks about Asian God culture says,
On one hand, they should bear to grasp again the satirize with the person impolite a unit of weight that supports traditional idea, speak, even fling abuses and affront.
Became the Zhu Zhengting of target like this, actually he is this tide only in very common individual, just caught up with collective to abreact, bore a lot of ill will that come from a netizen.
This kind is opposite " the woman prepares Chinese medicine by roasting it in a pan " reprimand, do not stop to star at little fresh pork.
It often is expanded in the life. Those bodily form the male with delicate, delicate, more coxcombry than average man student appearance, unified also be by denounce " the woman prepares Chinese medicine by roasting it in a pan " , " sissy " . It is apparent and more than it is the complaint that people encircles a phenomenon to recreation, however for quite a long time of the idea collide.
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Yin Rou appears aestheticly, ought to make a kind of turning point originally, drive sociological meeting to respect multivariate choice, multivariate ego. Without giving thought to man, woman, want to dress up what appearance, want to reveal oneself glamour with what means, everybody should have the right of comply with heart, do not suffer others to gesticulate.
Even if keeps vigilant to it, also should be to be based on such reason: The recreational group that pursues interest is being catered to overly to this kind of tide, be in may not of among them young star personally can from heart institute desire. This kind aesthetic ought not to become new the tide that a kind of need is catered to painstakingly, what manacled truly multivariate, freedom conversely is aesthetic.
The businessman is fond of nowadays allow variety of acting character of little fresh pork makeup, like a swarm of bees lets them go thick makeup, Yin Rou course
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Nevertheless, everybody has do not like choose of a certain male or some kind of person selected to make up, dress up oneself right, very difficult somebody accomplishs fully control to make this kind of individual taste, do not produce any bias completely.
Be opposite in our public opinion field however " the woman prepares Chinese medicine by roasting it in a pan " reprimand, rose by individual likes and dislikes already not by the valuation of defend oneself.
Sneer at when a few people, another some more abuse person " woman " , what are they saying?
Somebody cannot bear the sight of " woman " , it is appearance delicate, mix in makeup look clad dress up go up to cost more idea than common man, integral temperament slants " Nancy " .
Somebody cannot bear the sight of " woman " , be behave however as the male insufficient bold and unconstrained, for instance behavioral be affectedly bashful, talking dialect slants soft, the mood is sensitive and rich, etc.
The male of praise highly of place of this kind of idea this some is temperamental, with above characteristic polarity:
Appearance hale and hearty is coarse even, send out through explicit figure hormonal, disposition firm intense is bold and generous, etc.
Be favored somewhat to the appearance of which kinds of type and orientaton this give no cause for more criticism, but public opinion often manages be answered place becomes such saying or state with certainty: "Because he is explicit,look such, so he is certainly not courage, extremely delicate, carry the soft egg that does not have a thing. So he is certainly not courage, extremely delicate, carry the soft egg that does not have a thing..
The problem is, from a person or delicate or coarse appearance, whether can you see one the individual's experience, accomplishment, disposition, morality waits the character of many sided a moment? If can, is that worldly why to still exist " be sanctimonious " , " a beast in human face " the term that be accumulated from experience of life so and comes?
From appearance Nancy conclude such schoolboy is put in flaw of some kind of character certainly, that also too those who underestimate a person is complex. Such saying or state with certainty and fling abuses, besides self-righteous inflexible impression, without any basises but character.
Corresponding, the female also is planted by this " appearance decides a person " harm -- for instance Li Yu spring, Ceng Yi but, because appearance is mixed,dress up " man " , was mocked with respect to for no reason a lot of year. Call them when people flightily spring elder brother, Ceng Ge and inflict all sorts of ill will, approach the good point on the career their for support of the people, because suffer so,be disregarded only and deny.
Successors want time to prove to just know, no matter be the Zhang Guorong that grows soft beauty in those days, still be later appearance man Li Yu spring, they should get a society what kind of evaluation, do not have any relations with appearance.
People begins to understand, behavior standard of sexual distinction is come out by compasses example. The man in wanting not to accord with traditional impression only and woman this some appearance, even if you do not have err anything, cannot get due esteem.
Can be the humanness that decides a person truly and value, it is a man merely powdery bottom and look line are had on the face, does a wife stay not to wear long hair, wear do not wear skirt?
Stay in the thinking with the wanton and abusive quality and style that judges a person from appearance, this is reflected among them go out instead wisdom with immature ability it is the problem that is worth to be anxious truly.
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The individual besides outer watch undertakes on the choice critically, our society often still is immersed in right alleged " Yang Gang is temperamental " persistent, acquiesce is certain and idiosyncratic be " normal man " must have, or must cannot some. It has been reflected what teaching to leaving generation is anxious in.
In similar press, little boy's fetching and anxious in people look characteristic often is such:
Love to cry when anything crops up, talking in a soft voice, introvert undemonstrative, do not love to enter an activity...
Anxious parent and teachers think these year only child of 67 years old has confronted greatest crisis, thinking patience guiding however, see the glitter in every child disposition nods: The error that sensitive not likely does not contain introvert, idea to fall namely.
Treat grown man, such measuring the standard is to become aggravated more.
Grown man cannot the mood is rich, cannot idea is exquisite, cannot drop a tear when anything crops up, pressure also cannot be shown greatly very much flimsy, even if be afraid of,bask in cannot wipe prevent bask in frost to cannot open an umbrella... any things related to alleged female temperament cannot relevant, ability did not lose iron and steel straight male good name.
The standard that we evaluate to the person's character and morals, character, whether becoming simplification? Seem to accord with a certain as suitable as sexual distinction standard only, just be the eligible product on automation line. This and include multivariate contemporary viewpoint of value, still have very big difference.
More terrible is, the sort of firm to alleged this world, male is misunderstood temperamentally, letting a few people jauntily.
Once had last year such a social news cause controversy: On the annual meeting that is in Shandong some enterprise, tall canal of a male is held in the arms in public case male the ill will after the member turn over play the role of that plays the part of female outfit lets go, bring about the other side to fall to go up heavily, draw universal applause however.
Probably he is in expression he is opposite " the woman prepares Chinese medicine by roasting it in a pan " turn over those who string together an actor to distain, reveal oneself more advantageous firm fierce with force. But be in,any Christian looks in the eye, what he reveals obviously is humble only just.
This throws perfect man to return very proud male tall canal, with respect to temperamental like the Yang Gang that is misunderstood nowadays epitome, the existence that is like a man is to reveal the hegemony that force and force bring.
The pure man in people look, more and more be to eat and drink by understanding go whoring is betted, gather a crowd quarrel, smoking drinks, hit wife is darling and obediently even... the thing of these special surface layer, in forming a certain crowd, mix to Yang Gang man understanding.
This by ill-natured Yang Gang, the sexual standard strict requirement to the male comes from on certain level: Man must always with energized show a person with authoritative figure. As time passes, such sexual standard was become by misrepresentation the dignity that disregards others on everything, what through bringing to bear on on other body authority reveals him is powerful, what little imagine exposes is to use only what conceal scurvily is frail.
But become " traditional " the group that man place belongs to holds such viewpoint of value namely, he also can keep earning congener self-identity with this kind of means only, with the attributive feeling in the crowd.
Think carefully, in such male right idea, does the man's ego get was respectinged really again?
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The parent is right " the woman prepares Chinese medicine by roasting it in a pan " of wind anxious, it is to fear of own child grow get " evil wind " influence. But, ask our society need to education gives what kind of man with its, be inferior to asking need education gives what kind of person directly.
Can see in news of these a few years, a lot of places begin to pursue the sexual education that has specific aim. For instance 2016, shanghai ever rolled out teaching material of sexual distinction of schoolboy of first elementary school of domestic, hope " the man man that allows the future of the motherland to have more sunshine, Yang Gang " .
Think education goes active up, the child with brave sunshine, do not have what problem. After people digs this teaching material greatly, discover however however, some want the professor's thing inside it, not was necessary to take sexual distinction to distinguish.
How to turn study into a kind of interesting activity?
How does man express love?
Should the otherwise in the life stress brother personal loyalty?
Why should have the consciousness of investment and conduct financial transactions?
Is the person nature in a common? How to get along with the companions of nature?
Accurate study method, outstanding moral character, the common sense of the life, the sweetheart loves oneself, this is the appearance that every child in social expectation should blossom.
In fact, nowadays with " inflexible Yang Gang " more and more the viewpoint of value that run in the opposite direction, be in those who judge oneself and another person so just about.
The character that is being abandoned, it is quality low, it is not to respect another person, it is affectation, flirtatious, irresponsible, be any what can reveal one individual drive is empty with dirty stuff, who are they it is a man who is a woman, change do not make up, become warped do not become warped orchid points to can define.
And to it contrary, no matter man woman, gesticulate to the life of others with its, ill will is full, be inferior to oneself of with a view to, overcome human weakness hard, poke social bias, it is better to do oneself.
Take a few little fresh pork to go critically " boy mother criterion Chinese woman " , just change a concept secretly -- what get on phenomenon of surface layer of culture of popularity of gunfire alignment society is individual, the force that is drain populism and extremely patriotic mood only nevertheless stopped.
Care the youth's future so really, be inferior to ask education the system, ask the construction of public facilities, does the viewpoint of value that asks a society hope into what kind of person another acting adolescent develops a generation?
It is the thing that needs social joint efforts, be by no means painful batch a few young star, sneer at the eye of the girl can solve now.
Look right now, " sea thief king " although the part Feng Ke Lei in holds hobby person evil spirit as different, those who say is very powerful in reality plain truth however: "Be on path it may not be a bad idea of the man, be on path it may not be a bad idea of the woman, anything but can the path of deviate person " .
Man it may not be a bad idea, feminine it may not be a bad idea, after flouncing off the needless chains that sexual distinction brings, what place should do is to do nevertheless true " person " .
