Two stories, the leading role of the first story is one has chaired about a hundred memorial meeting to send Ms. Yuan of the meeting off, the leading role of the 2nd story is Li Kaifu.
Do not know dead, yan Zhisheng? Our China culture lacked the education to death. Suggest each reader also looks strongly.
The first story, the story of Ms. Yuan:
01
If you know the greeting of cause of death to a person
Yuan Jun's life, was broken off by the funeral of an arise suddenly two disparate worlds.
Before that funeral, yuan Jun is Dalian a TV station reporter, live have selection of subject busy dead, dead without selection of subject busy high-pressured boiler lives. The 70 people after live so that cultivate like mostly, yuan Jun is busying mechanically, ground of go round and round is troubled for future and Qian Tu.
2004, a comrade-in-arms of special report group because overfatigue sudden death, yuan Jun is entrusted to make a movie that grieve over for its in the stage. Yuan Jun cherished tremendous sadness to arrange all press in colleague profession career, make very attentively, the life that wants to be a colleague to add brother through this kind of means is ideal receive an official.
The family that the explanation demit of the film is worked in the same place later sees, they hope to be able to regard colleague funeral as the memorial speech that attend. And the compere that Yuan Jun became the not decline to shoulder a responsibility on funeral.
Funerary and austere massiness, in dirge sound Yuan Jun is reading the grieve take leave that writes to work in the same place: "He always is after each news broadcasts ground of exert to one's utmost is recalled, see whole episode whether still have continue the likelihood of follow-up, see oneself whether there still is drawback on the processing of each detail. He says, this since requirement of a kind of profession, also be manner of a kind of life -- the success is sometimes one kind embarrasses. Also be manner of a kind of life -- the success is sometimes one kind embarrasses..
"Probably, until leave abruptly, he still did not achieve the success that he means. But, a person, surmount oneself hard in his living each days, this kind holds to itself already was extraordinary success. Although he does not have there's still time to ask whether he makes oneself satisfactory, but, we can reply for him, he has come, very outstanding... "
As if the voice that heard him heart. In the lifetime that dies from another individual swiftly, yuan Jun saw him.
When funerary end, the work in the same placing's father handholds closely Yuan Jun's hand says: "Thank you, you compare us more know him. " returned the home that day in, yuan Jun did not resemble getting online euqally usually see a movie, look for selection of subject, however underground of occur for the first time kitchen, after doing a meal, in the building coarse husband and daughter come home.
Yuan Jun did not allude with them the work in the same placing's funeral, it is this funeral only in hold a memorial ceremony for while a life is parting, also let Yuan Jun gain new knowledge to his life. Not bad, she still has time, she still has health, she still can be kind to each serious person well.
Yuan Jun says he understood like incorporeal have one's ideas straightened out, do not have all one's life how long, next all one's life can be not met certainly, the days that we can be together is so brief before, take the advantage of return there's still time, certain otherwise takes regretful love.
Later, yuan Jun is very fast because of the friend hold in the palm chaired the 2nd funeral.
The person that die is a celebrity of bound of painting and calligraphy, yuan Jun sees the figure of this old gentleman on TV constantly. However, the body funeral affairs of old gentleman is not agile, small 3 if be risked like emerge,come out after he dies, old gentleman skeleton is not cold, belongings dispute makes this once the domestic chaos of scene became a pot of porridge-a complete mess.
Yuan Jun considers pair of old gentlemen kiss friend to undertake one time interviewing before one's death, very few somebody cooperates. Everybody cares, it is how belongings of those a huge sum allocate and oneself can be divided to how many.
Nevertheless, yuan Jun still gave old gentleman to write a memorial speech through a few data. Yuan Jun is cared about what to say without the person on funeral, when remains leaves, small 3 people hit posse with the family of first wife.
From angle backdate life of death, everything past place is clinging, should have how absurd with absurdity.
The fame that Yuan Jun chairs funeral is in gradually Dalian get about. By 2010, a wife of millions upon millions plute finds her, hope she can give her Laogong to chair funeral. With before one's death scene photograph is compared, of that millions upon millions plute dead very brash, depressed disease divested when he is 45 years old his life.
The person that the wife of plute looked a large number of dying to Yuan Jun before one's death diary, shook deeply Yuan Jun. Fortune became a figure already to this person that die, his mission is to manage this to pile the number with huge amount to still have the destiny of hundreds employee. A lot of general affairs had done not have how many relation with individual be fond of and interest. He can choose completely to stop, change an occupation.
Yuan Jun feels, if he was done so really, regular meeting becomes very outstanding writer. But he is done not have. He still sleeps only everyday 34 hours, handle the combat of group interior at the same time, handle the pressure that comes from the market at the same time.
Yuan Jun is reading the unripe eve of this millions upon millions plute to write down, thinking as passerby is being driven hurriedly like this plute, devoir has, sigh sigh has, bei cool Yi Youzhi...
The person that die already, dan Yuanjun decides what to do to change living still person.
On the funeral of this plute, yuan Jun announced his expense of a day, this number is returned even not as good as one therein yield domestic children expenditure of a day. Because do not have time, he makes money desperately, however what a bit does not enjoy money to bring is cheerful.
In the diary this plute is written, his joy comes from actually anchor on the road at car, he lets the trailer such as the driver come, oneself criterion a person goes a company on foot. He discovers amazedly, roadside has so much interesting storefront, he saw winter jasmine is spent even.
He says: "If was not misremembered, I see it should be to be in an university to graduate one year that for the last time, classmates see winter jasmine is spent, go together go for a walk in the country in spring. Go together go for a walk in the country in spring..
This was astonished in spatial some person.
Yuan Jun writes in grieve demit: "He is not on board, it is aboard, also be to be in assembly room likely. His life since after assuming the company that has 100 people, also did not have the four seasons again. His most beautiful memory is not earn of the first pail of gold excited, also not be the high friend capacity audience on 10 years of celebration of company, however that walk afternoon, that discovers amazedly all the way.
I think, in last time, he is him laid certainly an aromatic alley, fragrant grass is delicious, fall Ying Bin confused. He should be the alley that laughing to had walked along that to lead to heaven, return even hum had children's song. So, here, let us greet to one the individual's cause of death together. Let us greet to one the individual's cause of death together..
That is Yuan Jun hear applause on funeral for the first time the disrespectful that she knows to that is not pair of person that die, however everybody expresses the respect with the truest heart with this kind of means uncontrollably.
Later, of Yuan Jun and plute child become very good friend. This rich 2 generation are done not have child bear father line of business, gave the company however handler, he himself goes to work in a small company, off hours opened not gain also not the book of be out of pocket. The time passes very calmly, very happy also. Yuan Jun goes constantly his book, make on one cup of coffee, hold a light reading in both hands, beguiling a paragraph of quiet time.
Yuan Jun still can remember that rich and powerful person from time to time, when be kept constantly on the run, busy until be about to lose consciousness, yuan Jun always can tell him, a bit slower, again a bit slower, time need not take lash to chase also can have gone, wait oneself soul, when returning there's still time.
02
A kind of vivid law cries to dead and unripe
Funeral is one kind not, and path do not mean despair.
Yuan Jun impression is the deepest not, it is to be a high school president of sainted to do funeral to chair. Old president last name is like, die at the age of is 85 years old, this old man is humor and humorous, love most before one's death lively, their home is greeted send toward, have the guest of in an endless stream forever, everybody feels this is an old person that likes to be disturbed.
When the president's old partner is discussing funerary ceremony, put forward without Xiang Yuanjun any requirement, just very the dribs and drabs before detail ground told old president to be born, include every time at night when sending last guest at 11 o'clock, a word that old president often says: "Do not know really, this garden is returned can lively how long! This garden is returned can lively how long!!
In the narrate with finely a respectful form of address for an old person, yuan Jun knew old president has contracted 4 kinds of cancer personally actually, life has been heavy burden to him. But every time is close to dying, he still is can tenacious make a stand against, he hopes this garden returns can lively period of time. He always is smiling, humorous, come gladly also at looking the person smile of this garden is move, humorous leave with him.
Yuan Jun is done not have the old person leave ceremonial choosing is in funeral parlour, she thinks this is not a so special old person wants leave. He likes lively, like to divide some of life wisdom to give those returning the person that is hurrying on with his journey, leave finally he also hopes certainly with a kind of lively and special kind.
After think hard passes, yuan Jun decides a PARTY, it is in the home of old president, let each coming that what the person of see sb off tells to be concerned with old president, the most interesting thing -- let everybody smiling to give old president give a send-off party, also let this old gentleman taking riant set out on a journey.
This idea makes the madam of old president weep, she says to Yuan Jun: "You should calculate the last bosom friend that old Xiao Jiao reachs, thank you. Thank you..
Yuan Jun thinks of that funerary meeting is very successful, but did not think of can such success. Altogether 170 guest, everybody should ask to wearing his most beautiful ceremonial robe or dress, look asing if is a royal prize-giving celebration. Did not cry, without dirge, every guest told about a paragraph they and resemble old past event.
A neighbour says: "I am in be like old upstairs, there is a child that does not make not experienced musical instrument in the home. Everyday, let him drill be beaten and scold one time first before musical instrument. Later one day, be like often go upstairs will knock, brought a lot of gifts to my son, the book has a toy. Be like often say to my son: I am in everyday you are downstair, listen to you freely to play musical instrument, this bit of gift counts is acknowledgment, thank you to let me can hear so beautiful tweedle everyday. From now on, I was not Lian Qin's thing to had called a son again, because he is downstair those who Shuang Xin enjoys his music is auditive and become very hard, this is my son just passes piano the certificate of 10 class... "
Be like old old lad pays a visit suddenly one day, apropos Xiao Laogang takes bath, then, that puts cure because of changing on the hair that lad saw Xiao Laoxi is scanty, arm and thick black blood-vessel, immediately the tear is like lad below rain. Be like often laughing to say to him however: "The glamour that lets your experience make up a little while. " full a hour, reappear before lad be like old, as usual agile and cheesy.
Be like often say to lad: "I am doing this kind to change every day decayed for magical thing, I feel to hold out joy. Body scum, but the soul is creditable. Keep secret for me. Keep secret for me..
170 people, 170 stories. Whole PARTY, everybody is smiling all the time recall, in the atmosphere that feel in a kind and does not hurt, sharing in that way what the old person of a wisdom brings to the life of everybody is boundless benefit gained from sb's wisdom.
Yuan Jun says: "Thank everybody's story, believe please, the old person that there is wisdom in silk of such a hair can let heaven have countless laugh from now on. Let us make an appointment, be like old sky to see with dear. Be like old sky to see with dear..
Very few somebody can funerary compere a such professions regard as hobby, most when beginning somebody to look for Yuan Jun, she is met always also try every means refuses, and Yuan Jun grants whatever is requested however nowadays.
Two years, she makes a round trip between funeral and funeral, chaired near 100 funeral, as moving back and forth in the life of nearly 100 people. She says, she resembled living 100 all one's life, experienced 100 flavour life. She present thanks this job to give everything her very much, a funeral condensed a life from what be born to death all, each paragraphs of story to Yuan Jun it is nutrient.
Look from dead angle to life, can know how to live in instantly better.
The 2nd story:
03
Li Kaifu: I built 7 credit to die
Li Kaifu besides innovation workshop author, " dreamy adviser " the identity, also be Ceng Ren duty apple, Microsoft, Gu Ge appears on the market 3 times the president level figure of the company. Now, he much an identity: Cancer patient.
Drop into the torment of ailment from the summit summit of life, from blatant arrive at become silent, this is 17 when belong to Li Kaifu, also be included 17 months examine minutely with confess.
"Eliminate undeserved reputation and achievement, what does your life still remain? What does your life still remain??
Li Kaifu is in newsreel " the Li Kaifu of the person that build a dream to dead and unripe " in, an account in one's own words the experience that all previous turns month of cure, nine to recuperate via 6 two months diagnose, months, say frankly " think oneself had not lived 100 days for a time " acedia. Li Kaifu was to show a letter from home that leaves class hour period more, choke with sobs for the first time speak an apology that owes late father, first time weeps refer mother child deep feeling, first time tenderness is fine those who narrate pair of wives and daughter is owing.
Li Kaifu thinks over: "Healthy, close affection, love, just be lasting. Sacrificial health goes exchanging so called success and dream, this is extremely big jest simply! This is extremely big jest simply!!
He still says, encourage a youth always before to want what to go after, different now, he thinks " the youth needs to put down angle undeserved reputation, attention health, close affection and it is more important to love ability. Attention health, close affection and it is more important to love ability..
Li Kaifu still gave this book " to dead and unripe -- the dead credit of my repairing " .
Li Kaifu says, to the meaning of dead and unripe itself, it is a person inside alive common be immersed in today's real world very easily inside. And face death, we get satori easily instead, understand the significance of life, let death make life itinerary in aeriform good friend, remind us blandly, live well our life, not be to overshoot only day of each days, also not be the objective of fame and gain that just pursues a reality.
After sufferring ailment to torment, credit of which 7 death did Li Kaifu build?
Li Kaifu's answer is:
1. health does not have valence;
All 2. things have its reason;
3. is cherished lot, society is thankful and love;
4. learns how to live, live in instantly;
5. avoids the temptation of fame and gain;
6. everybody is equal, be kind to each person;
7. is our life after all why?
