Common saying says, you may know a person's face but not his mind. Apparently see one individual neatly dressed, actually, he did the person of evildoing to have a lot of privately.
Judge a person to cannot see him what say, and should see him what do. Have some of petty thing especially, can see one bearing height most.
If say, there is an individual beside you, you cannot judge the bearing stand or fall that gives him, so, you might as well try these 3 things.
Is the moral quality that judges a person good be bad? See these 3 things enough, do not let a person give again cheated!
The first, selfishness sees character increase
I have a friend to make a sale.
Because arrived the end of the year, to develop outstanding achievement. Call us a few friends so bought a bit home appliance over him.
Also be the sale champion that helped him take a company. Think originally thing such, but have a friend,tell us however.
He sells our thing, fasten other the value that a few business exceed became expensive 20% much.
This lets us a few people, psychology is not flavor a bit. And, we help him, did not ask even the meal us to eat finally.
Want to know, that his bonus has 50 thousand. He uses us to earn bonus to outstanding achievement to him ceaselessly, and still give thing huff sell us.
We are saw through him, too selfish. The person of one each illicit, do not understand to share an interest with others necessarily.
Everything wants to let his occupy the biggest, want to solely pocket even. Two, probably can. Time grew, know his trick necessarily.
Selfish person, cannot hand in greatly, more cannot word interest. Because face an increase, very possible he can harm you. So, judge a person selfish, see him face the likelihood of the interest.
The 2nd, sincere letter looks lend money
Issue lending money is small, but the around that lends money, can see one the individual's character most.
If a person lends money, one mouth people is willing to borrow him, so explain, this person moral quality is good, others believes him, just be willing to lend him money.
Most of at least, have namely borrow return surely.
If, be willing to lend this the individual without the person. So the bearing of this individual not how appearance, you should take care.
If a person returns money; To time, do not return money actively ahead of schedule to time even.
This person is the person of special Shou Chengxin.
This kind of person, suit the action to the world, the work that promised you does necessarily, be can the person of entrust thing. If say, lent the money of others, others does not carry him to be not returned. Return all sorts of excuse even.
So this kind of person, not only do not have sincere letter, and very blackguardly still.
You contact this kind of person, can let you eat to have a deficit greatly one day sooner or later.
The 3rd, honest and kind look help
My old C, said a thing with me. His friend old A looks for him to help, this thing old him C does not do, but old C understanding can do. Promised this work then, for this thing, old him C spends money give sb a present, give the business of old A eventually did.
Result, after old C tells old A the thing has done.
Old A said a thank, 2 and still say through the phone, did not go to even old Home C, more never mention it the money that old C spends for the thing of old A.
The old C that this does and wife still made a noise a few times for this.
Everybody has the case that helps each other between colleague, friend.
Some people, friend colleague helped him, inevitable meeting acknowledgment pays a debt of gratitude write down in the heart. This kind of person is honest and kind person, know others him side is not easy, want to return individual favour at manage at affection.
Still have a kind of person, friend colleague helped him, say the thank does not have what later development has been continuously, have more very person, helping him absolutely is should.
According to as old A same.
Old C helps him, old A said a thank only, but do not go however,thought old C to spend money to help old him A. This kind of person, we can help him, but later do not think we help him again. So, you want to see a person honest and kind.
When seeing him look for a person to help, those help the person that passes him, whether be willing to give him the side the 2nd times again.
Say so, when getting along with the person, should hear its character, view its go. Should see the detail that he works more. The manner decides everything, detail decides bearing.
The person with you and nice bearing gets along, it is better and better that yourself also is met. You and the person with poor moral quality get along, not only cannot get promotion, even oneself are in an unfavorable situation because of this even.
