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Before two days chat with the friend, she asks I say suddenly, how to write write " how should be the university spent 4 years " such topic. Do goods diarial actually the first article is about " the undergraduate that how has crossed us is vivid " , searched in those days a lot of learn to grow learn elder sister, the dried food that asks them to share them severally sends word. This kind of topic had not been written again later, because I always feel the height that I stand now may be insufficient still, this topic should wait for my college graduate to step a school gate that is shared momently again.

Do not cross me two days this to think carefully again, about this topic I am the small idea that having my, small importunate actually, share with everybody not affect the whole also, feel incorrect to all of us also can communicate together discuss.

The meaning of the university wheres

Big one confused one year, searching all the time, does the meaning of the university where? How to go spending this university 4 years? What is the target...

If I remember inerrable word, begin to at least 4 teachers had asked us a same question from the university -- why should you read an university? But neither one classmate can give out a more satisfactory result.

This is the problem of a very difficult answer, because of it too too baronial, is what resemble our life culminating 3 like asking -- who are you? From which to come? Where will go? Who wants truly to pass again.

But we but in order to change a point of view, not ask why we want to read an university first, do after thinking to read an university first, we want to work? Does this problem answer rise should relatively a lot of more relaxed?

From the point of big field, should with respect to 3 things: The first job, the 2nd life, the 3rd family (marriage) .

Next we are pushed again, the meaning of the university lays good groundwork for these 3 things after 4 years namely.

From " the job " push

One, be in an university 4 years in, want to learn professional knowledge.

That is you what future settles down and get on with that pursuit is essential, white cliff pine says " the which phase at life, do the thing that which phase should do. " the university is our complement a few all sorts of academic knowledge are best years originally, should knowing to teacher teaching and we teach oneself is completely different results, since we had sat in the classroom, should not waste that paragraph of time.

Should learn English particularly additionally, coming to China a few years will be the hub of the whole world, it is the bridge of join developed country and backward country, the China that did not come so will opportunity everywhere, the student of perfectness English will go further.

2, be in an university 4 years in, want to extend arteries and veins of a bit person more.

This society is the society of a numerous and jumbled, neither one person can break away from other and self-existent. So you should attend activity, much associate with more friend, much work together with the colleague of branch and mass organizations, many dozens hit the match to wait a moment, go managing your prospective person arteries and veins to encircle in the process. In us in the job henceforth, these person arteries and veins will be the fortune with precious brushstroke.

3, be in an university 4 years in, want to develop basic job ability.

So we should add mass organizations, add a section, in at ordinary times continuous study goes in all sorts of department jobs and activity, have the working accomplishment of little before the job. But we a lot of people do not know why to his want to add a section, think the branch is to take credit other perhaps, it is all the time so inside water, not true acquire what thing.

From " the life " push

One, be in an university 4 years in, the heart that should let oneself rises formidably.

Lie in this times that progresses with acceleration, all sorts of content desire crosscurrent is full of in us all round, all sorts of not certain factors can arrive at any time on our body, became the pronoun of this times flightily.

Our need is ceaseless and powerful oneself heart, ability base oneself upon at this society, be not controlled by the thing all round and content place. It is not easy to want to accomplish this a little bit, it needs us to be experienced ceaselessly, go gaining rich experience.

Do not want so all the time the nest plays game in the dormitory, brush drama, the experience that won't bring bit of one man to nod to you then grows. Be free to go out more, go eating the cate all round, go to interesting place travelling; Go to the library reading a few good books; Play a few games, see the world outlook of old man, widen oneself horizon; Add bit of mass organizations and section, run a few activities together with everybody, attend more a few dine together, communicate with colleague and minister, president more; Contact with the classmate more, absent does not want when dining together; Talk about a love. . . . . .

Anyhow knows a few people more namely, experience a few things more, the heart that lets oneself is a bit more powerful, a bit firmer, a bit richer, a bit more mature.

2, be in an university 4 years in, want to develop interest of a bit interest.

This moment still does not have the pressure of the life, time and energy are enough also, be when suiting us to develop him interest most.

Interest is one of element of happiness of our future life, still can add cent to our duty field probably oh. Resembling is journey, writing, basketball, see book, guitar, dancing, music, photography wait a moment, master, you meet tomorrow certainly a hour appreciates you present it is do-nothingly.

3, be in an university 4 years in, want associate with good friend of a few intimate.

The friendship inside the university most Gan Chun, we are complete because " stink " agree with each other goes, having same dream, same interest, same 3 view, same goodness and sunshine.

After waiting for us to graduate, the thing that can take away besides full memory, still have the deep friendship with that ceaseless give up. Later no matter the remotest corners of the earth, no matter how is time on the move, each other are cared, a cup of wine, lifetime is sufficient.

4, be in an university 4 years in, want to learn how to play and conduct oneself in society.

We have a lot of classmates to compare curtilage, or is waited for game is played in the dormitory, or is done quiet bookish, also do not attend any class dines together, the branch dines together, halfhearted also any social activity.

Needing those who know to need to foster in the university is us the ability of whole side, it is working ability not merely, still have the ability that interacts with the person, capacity of the life.

Want inside the university so as far as possible patulous oneself circle, go becoming one with with the classmate on the class; Do well with the colleague of branch, mass organizations relation; Attend all sorts of activities and match to wait a moment.

Can see the life of all sorts of classmates on one hand, do the person with a rich heart; Can learn to them on the other hand, study on their body a lot of flashy aspects, learn how the ways one gets along with others, make a the ways of the world and the person that out of round slips.

From " family (marriage) " push

One, be in an university 4 years in, should foster very 3 view.

Although will talk about a family now this topic is a bit early, but we are the families that should establish our after all, want the education, child that rears oneself.

This moment, must ask the 3 view of ourselves are very, this involves us at ordinary times humanness plays on, for instance sense of responsibility, the desire to do better, sunshine, sincere letter, hold to, humorous, kind-hearted, genuine, sedate etc, these want from at ordinary times bagatelle is made, develop a kind of small habit, form a kind next very 3 view.

2, be in an university 4 years in, should as far as possible talk about a love.

I know a lot of people are compared as me undemonstrative, perhaps believe lot, perhaps ask to compare tall, perhaps be afraid of those who affect oneself to grow, because once had sufferred,perhaps harm.

But I want to say, those should not become obstacle the excuse that you go to pursueing happiness. No matter how we escape it, we can enter marital hall one day after all. If there is a paragraph of good experience in the university, not only life will be more satisfactory, to marriage also be wonderful.

Because if you have,pass the experience of a paragraph of love, you are met more know the opposite sex, can grow a lot of, can cherish each other more, meeting can have handled each other more the small contradiction between. Although failed, but your grow to also can make you are when the person with be encountered nicer the next time, more capable to hold opposite party.

The love in the university is very good really really, we do not see gold, do not read social class, seeing you even is an opposite sex, want each other to have the palpitant reputation of phut phut together only, enough.

Yesterday, I and smile still have this topic a little, feel the love in the university should be marital obligatory course.

Wish you can seek the person that builds obligatory course together with you, cross the university into a wonderful poem, the vintage wine that becomes a bottle of intoxicate too...