With welcoming a person compatibly, good destroys;
Receive thing with healthy atmosphere, criterion bewitching enrages disappear;
Face an issue with noble spirit, criterion doubt Wei commentate;
Raise a body with quiet energy of life, criterion dream quiets.
With welcoming a person compatibly
The manner when interacting with the person is gentle and complaisant, a mercy, show loving care for sincerely, the disaccord that can dissolve everything, misunderstanding, conflict, contradictory.
" add An Xianwen " in have " father and son is mixed and the home is indefectible, brother is mixed and the home is not divided, country party is mixed and argue interest of bring a case to court, the couple is mixed and family financial situation is promoted " view, it is in order to mix it is thus clear that expensive, criterion all things all is promoted. Can unhurried ground the ways one gets along with others, ability of important matter bagatelle is done correctitude, do a job with skill and ease, impartial.
Because can maintain gentle mood and solemn and quiet state of mind, so we just can show consideration for everythings on earth with the heart of just equality, and do not hold bias in the arms; Ability retains normal judgement ability, and do not be heart of obstruct of eye of barrier of content desire place. The heart is mixed an energy of life is flat, gas makes the same score a bosom wide, the bosom is wide a self-abasement, be in civilly numerous.
The path of association, be in only " and " on the word. Mix a calm, fang Nengjing in order to save a body, static with examine world, accomplish " follow one's inclinations and do not even more quadrature " .
Receive thing with healthy atmosphere
Face stern of healthy atmosphere of works of God, a bit does not put unhealthy environmental influences that cause disease to think of distracting thoughts, evil wind evil influence also is met keep out of the way. The person is abandoned constant criterion bewitching is promoted, the heart that evil influence is ourselves reads aloud behavior induction to come, harbor evil intentions, abandoning ethics morality, lost those who be an upright person is essential, as a result appears all sorts of unusual appearances, because our heart is abnormal,be actually. So, it is difficult to want disappear calamity to avoid, the heart that wants decorous ourselves above all goes.
Face an issue with noble spirit
The Mencius says " my be apt to raise my grand like that gas " . Alleged grand like that gas, it is the gas of upright. A person had the mental power that noble spirit lives forever, face the environment all tremendous alluring it may not be a bad idea, minatory it may not be a bad idea, can be in change not Jing, keep one's countenance, achieve " do not his mind disturbed " state.
When handling an issue, grand of breadth of mind is widened like that, big upright and outspoken, unprejudiced, did not part, justice is equal, not by temptation of selfish desire becloud, all misgive, jealousy, awe-stricken nature can be eliminated. Because be put in confict of interest, each are factitious the interest that protects oneself, processing business scruples somewhat, suspicious each other. Or because of opinion difference, meet the person that repels with oneself the view differs, cause mutual jealousy then. Want to change this kind of appearance, be about to all people all thing openness are made public.
Raise a body with quiet energy of life
Day is thought of somewhat, night somewhat dream, modern because actuating pressure is heavy, the each side issue such as family, feeling is irritated miscellaneous, majority has insomnious experience, actually these problem no more than are a desire too much those who cause.
Study is put down, reduce the pursuit cling to to the desire, prostrate improper thought, maintain a person's mind kosher and quiet, not only raise a heart, also be to maintain the body, best method that reduces a disease. Mood is smooth and steady, did not care, without worry, everywhere can fall asleep peacefully. Face before sleeping or sit quietly, perhaps hear a few classical music, can help us release pressure, put down distracting thoughts, enter Mian easily.
