Author: Clang Tao Ci;
"The country in us is long, most an a person of extraordinary powers of failure is betted, indulge the ground to play a mobile phone to the child namely. Gain odds next to nothing, the consequence that be defeated is extremely bitter. Be defeated because of you will be the child not merely be defeated win, can be the child's life more. Can be the child's life more..
-- the author's word
Recently, the news that makes popular feeling painful first saw on the net.
According to Jiangsu the electrify austral the province inspects a station " urban calendar " program report, on August 30 before dawn, the sea learns new student Xu Tianci 13 years old in Men Dongzhou, from uncle home 4 Lou Zhui buildings die.
The graph is Xu Tianci of 13 years old
The graph is object building site
Classics sea janitor just is investigated, xu Tianci is in on August 30 before dawn 0 when 47 cent dropping buildings, object hit with IPad all the time before the building " eat chicken " game.
After the accident, maternal Yu Lihua of Xu Tianci is heartstricken, she is insisted readily, the son is in game end hind still is enmeshed in game likely, taste trial jump building then, see what say like the place in game, jumping down is " Dajidali " , or " be born becomes a case " .
Accordingly, she insists to think, of the son die and " eat chicken " game has immediate concern.
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He Wei " eat chicken " game?
Eat chicken, also cry " seek to live on absolutely " , it is athletics of a tactics fire kind game.
In game, the player needs to collect all sorts of resource on the map, the antagonism inside the safe area that narrowing ceaselessly is other player, save oneself to destroy the enemy.
There are 100 players to participate in in each bureau game, the player arrives through airdrop parachute each corners of the map, search weapon car and goods and materials barehandedly, launch a fight in varied landform.
After the target that when implementation 100 people parachute, one person survives, game can be played piece " Dajidali, eat chicken in the evening " congratulant language, "Eat chicken " one word from this and come.
▼ 02
Before blame game, meditate first oneself.
Parenting, teaching by one's own example forever overweight explain in words.
Present child is very argute, be good at differentiating in exert a subtle influence on true and false.
Xu Tianci's parents is far in south Africa deal, domestic environment liberals. Before the accident two days, he just crossed summer vacation to return sea door from south Africa.
Xu Tianci and parents are not together for a long time, be in fact children staying behind.
Your month does not see his one side, he is close to with you of course.
You have much alienation to the child, the child has many to expect to game.
They can do the business that they like instinctively, close like oneself, the person that oneself also like.
So, do not blame game, blame you.
▼ 03
You are not to raising the child, raising gigantic baby however
Xu Tianci's mother, keep on saying says because imitate,the son is " eat chicken " game, to save time to jump the window comes in and go out, and such it is OK also in the life to think by accident doing.
As a parents, do not understand the child to arrive such degree, or is in shirk responsibility, or is to be in doting gigantic baby.
Chinese type family, always feel the child is long not quite, all matters ground arranges a plan for him, the hope the family stake is in the child on one person.
Gigantic baby is not inherent, be come out by be used to however.
Whats are the children that Japan sees in light of doing.
The child of ▼ nursery school, carrying the milk of breakfast
▼ pupil is watering fertilization
▼ junior high school is unripe wearing a glove to brush toilet urinal
▼ winter is all bare the upper part of the body bathes the child
Saying is the mobile phone killed the child, be inferior to saying be you is doting.
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Who pushs the child to the mobile phone, who lets the child his or her not to rise
Current, the society became father and mother " copartner " , partnership job, partnership raises the home, partnership to still be borrowed, do not have time partnership to raise child namely.
Good next not easily coming home, "Arrowroot actor paralysis " be done without effort, which have time to be in charge of the child? The child knows to see cartoon only previously, look little channel.
But different now, the child also can see the classmate beside has a mobile phone to play, in vanity, vie of the heart drive under, you are forced a place of strategic importance gives the child a mobile phone.
Shift responsibility to the mobile phone when parents, the mobile phone can give the child harm to load.
Was to damage eyesight. When seeing vicinity, with respect to shape of need eye cilia flesh adjustment ability sees well. Looking like the mobile phone when the electronic product of such the small screen, some children are lying to look, sideways looks, unconscious look in the quilt, how does injury eye come.
As time passes, cause exhaustion of cilia shape flesh, bring about eyesight injury to cannot be gone against thereby.
2 was to poison intelligence. Consider to make clear, 10 years old of the following children, in indulge when the mobile phone, the reaction when the reaction that its cerebra place produces and adult drug taking is similar!
Wait for content like game eating chicken, horrible force, after the cerebra of long-term exciting child, still can cause attention to be not centered, contain power ability of poor, easy impulse, study is low coarse problem.
3 was to create force. Resemble what see in news in that way, the likelihood that kills you is the child!
The monitoring kinescope that transmits in the inn of a chaffy dish of Hefei can see, ursine child takes one canister toothpick, one is inserted happily on sofa another.
Where can he know, oneself mischief, can cause woman hip by the bitter tragedy of puncture.
Still have more terrible.
2014, one sees 10 years old of boys of cartoon with the mobile phone, the electric drill sound because of the construction outside disrelishing a building is too noisy, be versed in construction the safe rope on person cuts off with the penknife.
Anyhow, to abstaining the child of force, especially parents is not beside, mobile phone at hand children staying behind, the mobile phone between heart is met probably finish the future of a child, and even life!
▼ 05
The accident of others cannot be a story only, however your save atone for.
Present education, gift of the teacher " religion " pressure is ambitious at " Yo " . The teacher because hold back from taking action against sb for fear of injuring others, can be to open an eye to close a key point only to the child occasionally.
Not allow doubt, parents just is to save the child, cradle the child's main force.
You give the child's mobile phone, you put recreational time, you have influence and responsibility custody child.
Want to know, bad child did not teach on this world, do not be willing to walk on the parents with responsible duty well only.
The most terrible on this world, not be the mobile phone that has a person, the parents that refuses however.
Save atone for best, either shift responsibility to the mobile phone, throw game, however straight oneself neglect one's duty, make up for in time.
With CCTV the word of famous compere Dong Qing and everybody encourage: "You want the child to become what kind of person, oneself are about to become what kind of person first. Oneself are about to become what kind of person first..
▼ 06
Let the child play a mobile phone to lose a lot with its, be inferior to be a soldier into barback.
Since the child is right " seek to live on absolutely " a kind game is interested, seal with its, be inferior to dredge.
Actually, the warfare capability that this game place needs, what have different in approach but equally satisfactory in result with military battlefield fight the enemy, vanquish the enemy is clever.
One lever gun
Can decide life and death
A life
Can create military successes
√ corresponding skill: Picking up weaponry
Dare to pass through live wire
Ability reachs triumphal peak
Dare to overcome fear
Bright sword of ability come into unavoidable confrontation
√ corresponding skill: Battlefield dare be entered dare rush
Save oneself to just can destroy the enemy
Lower figure ability to go further
The gun is hit odd bird
Labor force stays the course that sending gift is get the upper hand of
√ corresponding skill: Prostrate demon
One fist irresistibility 4 hands
One leg wins hard four-wheel
Armour steel rain
Let the enemy
Crumble
√ corresponding skill: Grab car
Be in this place
Without the soil that the woman prepares Chinese medicine by roasting it in a pan
Have the ocean of right man only
Be in this place
Without the powdery fist of soft continous
Only 100 refine already became the iron fist of steel
Send the child best adult gift
Not be to give him the smartphone
Let him accept barback severe test however
Be a soldier suffering temporarily, abandon destroys lifetime. If more parents see, with respect to tragedy of can less world, many somes wonderful continue.
