This example very anxious letting a person, 14 years old play a mobile phone, be dissuaded by parents, scolded a few. Demur does not say, took kitchen knife to chop his 6 knives. The fault of the mobile phone? The child's fault? Parental fault? Look for responsibility to reckon everybody does not run, finding the method that solve just is essential. Parentage, it is a cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine, encourage!
The happening of such things, also be with bitter hatred letting a person, how should teach after all to the child, most parenting needs to learn. Educational child is this criticism still should be praised, when did health of body and mind appear after all problem, the parent should pay close attention to momently. Also someone ever had said, parenting most unsuccessful is: Need not pass an exam to be able to do father and mother!
To this, the netizen expressed his view
The first: This kind of parents is very poisonous tongue, the child cannot find achievement sense in the life, but achievement sense can be found in mobile phone game.
The 2nd: Extreme difference of the power that fight defeat, this results from parents to monopolize in the life everything is brought about.
The 3rd: There are rough stuff or depressed action in former unripe family, child be influenced by what one constantly sees and hears, can solve a problem so with similar action. Summary: The child is parental photocopy, fasten total blame child, examine the father and mother that how oneself do well!
Small to this making up also is to indicate approval, above all I also feel this kind of parents is particularly proud, poisonous tongue, ego achievement feeling of the child can be obtained in game only, next the quality in the child's heart basically is parental information apply colours to a drawing, the manner of the life is faced among parents, and the action that faces life place to adopt can teach the child to learn secondhand, child lifetime comes down not particular moral character is such, it is what brought about generation after all such behavior is worth very much thoughtful.
Parents serves as the child allow teacher, affect be lifetime to the child's education, must not let the child go wrong to!