Without filial piety, the family is met disturbed;
Not diligent, the family can decline;
Without excuse me, the family comes loose with respect to understanding.
The family wants auspicious, was short of this at 3 o'clock one cannot, the movement power good luck of a family hides in this 3 o'clock.
First what filial piety is 10 thousand heart, in the idea of compatriots, any moral blemish are OK heart of restrospect to filial piety.
"Filial piety " resemble a figure " 1 " , if lacked this " 1 " , no matter how many are added at the back 0 no point.
The cultivate one's moral character that Ceng Guofan offers raises a gender " 8 heart " in having one mind is " filial piety " , ceng Guofan sees filial piety very importantly.
He is during capital secure an official position, always write a letter to go back constantly the state that tells him father and mother, content is very detailed, specific even to the party setting with the good friend, what will let home town with this is parental be at ease.
Be in ever below the influence of wind of family name home, ever the family name is filial mostly person, family also because of " filial piety " become auspicious.
Madam Europe in relief family name of Ceng Guofan, old age two eye blindness, daughter-in-law Guo skin of the bamboo waits upon constantly, those who amount to 3 years is long.
Children wants filial should know to be thankful above all.
Parents serves as the main body of a family, they fostered next generation with unselfish love, propping up domestic important task with clement shoulder, the both hands that uses pains is managing trival home.
We are enjoying parental care, think of redound parents rarely however, treat this kind of care of parents as even of course.
Filial should know decent forgive, want to have the hair operation from the heart.
Not use up filial piety to regard as a kind of burden, and the responsibility that should regard a kind as not to need reason it.
Not use up filial piety to should do an empty talk, want to fulfil it in a bit of the life however.
Ferial li of phone of inquire after sb's health, the company of free time is best " filial piety " , doing filial piety is buying happy lot for the family.
Won't have naturally without Ceng Guofan ever family name halo, and the just that accomplishs Ceng Guofan is him is assiduous.
Ceng Guofan's lifetime is " oneself fleshy body regards as the candle, chop opens two, 4 end points, ignite 4 flame combustion, the hair on the narrow narrow flagging that forcing to the ox is enough run quickly madly " all one's life.
The individual's success, domestic happiness should rely on laborious both hands to create.
In the letter that 4 years Ceng Guofan writes Xian Feng to Zhu Di with respect to respecting: "Brother's son of child of the elder brother in the home, total appropriate is a law with respecting 2 words frequently.
One can diligent can respect, although troubled times also has flourishing weather, a suit can be diligent can respect, although fool also has virtuous Zhi Feng,collect. Although fool also has virtuous Zhi Feng,collect..
In the letter that writes son Ceng Jihong in Ceng Guofan, also allude for many times " diligent " word, educational son: The thing of worldly happiness or the thing all without exception that go after hard are him need arduous labor obtains.
Assiduous it is life the first want justice. The person wants to live dependable, smooth and steady, auspicious life, must want laborious.
If a defect with person lazy nurturance, more defect and defect can following sb's heels and come.
A lot of people complain the society is unjust, when him hate is born not to meet, give the volition that oneself look for all sorts of reason him fritter away, do not try hard abandonment, final can accomplish nothing.
Ceng Guofan thinks although weal and woe is decided by the day, dan Qin act vigorously and effort can change oneself and domestic destiny, a bit more assiduous, hard a bit, the much dot of results.
There should be a pair of laborious hands in the family, only laborious ability acquires the meaning of life, ability gets the safeguard of the life, family also ability is flourishing do not decline.
If a family is lazy laches, although sit,embrace golden hill silver one day when hill also can have sit idle and eat.
Child tribute asks Confucius: You tell me a word, learn this word, this all one's life I can be benefited personally eventually.
Confucius says: If have so word, this word is " excuse me " .
Ceng Guofan lifetime is special path of praise highly excuse me, "Chang Yishu word from watchful " .
Need a person with tender, clement heart, let oneself and other feel happy, just be the path of the life.
Ceng Guofan ever said: "Day is rich, day is expensive, day is become, say flourish, day praise, day is suitable, this is counting my place happy event, the person all also is fond of.
Day deficient, day cheap, time be defeated, day disgrace, day is destroyed, eye is gone against, the person that this is counted my place is evil, person also evil. I should stand firmly step by step, notice others also should stand firmly, alleged stand also.
I want everywhere practicable, notice other also wants practicable, alleged amount to also. Alleged amount to also..
Everybody has his individual character, in the process that gets along with the person, want to show sympathy each other, is not to censure.
The family wants auspicious and flourishing also need a world each other show sympathy.
In the life we often will good-tempered left others, instead most oneself left the closest person if injuring a person.
Get along with family conversation does not want too strong, to the bagatelle in the life, what always do not criticize family is incorrect, should treat a dear one with a good-tempered heart pass involuntarily.
The place that discusses academic debate is not in the family, what need here is mutual respect and understanding.
Certain think of a way of parents and behave you to may be paid no attention to solution, deprecatory, but you cannot entirely is negative.
The child has the place with wrong what, good word good sign is communicated, fasten anxious get angry.
Be apt to not is more than excuse me, heart not fierce at be jealous of. Junior is filial elder, elder understands junior, everybody shows sympathy each other, the word says well, such family He Chou cannot flourishing?
Cherish filial piety, the body is diligent, yan Youshu, write down filial piety, diligent, excuse me in the heart, fall on the action, the family that is oneself builds blessing journal, such domestic ability are auspicious and flourishing
