The handkerchief that little girl works hard her cheerly to braid and be become took father before.
Little girl: "Father, you see the handkerchief that I knit. You see the handkerchief that I knit..
Father looked sidelong at the handkerchief with that orderly and orderly needlework, gave out doubt.
"How may you braid this. "How may you braid this..
"Really I am knitted, father. " the girl tries to explain, "I learn with the elder sister next door, spent me afternoon. Spent me afternoon..
" good good, go playing. Do not come irritated I. " the little face that sees little girl is stubborn, father also is disinclined to continue " controversy " , dismissed only little girl.
Ground of little girl lose left father.
"Father does not believe those who knit to this is you, goofy. " there is a sound to be in in the heart resound.
"It is need is approbated one sentence only, why so difficult? " the little girl after be brought up keeps challenging in the bottom of the heart. After be brought up, she lives everywhere be rebuffed. She self-abased often becomes because of devoid confidence as a dust, be without existence to feel. She dare not hold to her footing before others, because she always feels, oneself idea is wrong probably. So, before the person her obsequious, delicate language of talking light tone, the eye also is staring at his calcaneal can uneasily only. This makes her total is with opportunity just miss the opportunity, no matter be duty field, still be feeling.
Childhood period, it is the optimal opportunity that the child develops self-confident heart. Once missed this opportunity, that is on the road of the life of in the future, self-confident heart is established again hard. And self-abased also meet take root of ground of very closely associated with each other is in mind, become the one large block that runs quickly to good future.
However, how to develop self-confident heart of the child, let the child have healthy state of mind in the process that grow?
1 avoid to be spoken to the child " you are very trashy " , " you are very disappointing " if waiting negative child a moment.
2 children made a fault, what should do above all is the mistake that guides him to realise him, blindly fling abuses mixes and rather than chasten.
The 3 advantages that seek the child, great undertake encouragement.
The 4 children that do not take oneself everywhere and other and outstanding child undertake comparative, want to allow the one side that the child realizes he is outstanding.
The circumstance should notice when 5 chasten child, be not criticized before alien and punish the child. Do not say the child's weakness before alien at the same time.
Of 6 understanding child in school case, teach the child and person to get along well, encourage the child to take an active part in activity of school inside and outside.
7 patience listen attentively to the child's idea and proposal, encourage him child to solve a problem, develop independent character.
