If make fun of,say life
This word is right
Since had friend group
Our appropriate appropriate became spirit of a play alive
The friend encircles me in I in and reality
Sentence! If! 2! Person!
Today's this short name is " I false "
After seeing, feel very realistically
Life of the one part in reality is this appearance really alive, this contains the short film of acid imply, namely the sort of healing condition showed the network socialization with fake hair undisguisedly to come out! Is seeing what next short say you?
Do you resemble your friend really pass well in that way in the circle? Whether does the time that taking mask life feel exhaustion ~
In video, condition showed false network socialization undisguisedly to come out.
Wash gargle to make up dozen of large pink base, pretend to just wake;
Drive outskirts, pretend to have deep love for motion, hour to be in however ran;
Had not eaten food of favorite high quantity of heat, pretend the life that oneself hold to maigre health;
Obviously fruit juice exceeds drink hard pretend however delicate and clinking;
Try on countless dresses, from countless pieces the photograph singles out a piece of mix colors to send, pretend to be patted however live too simply namely;
Friend party brushs a mobile phone severally, closing however when illuminating, saying is happy chat spent;
Pretend to go out however in the home curtilage alone attend party Party;
Map of this kind of circumstance arrives on Everyman body, no more than gets tiredder, vanity alive namely stronger, go gradually with real life gradually far.
In fictitious world, arbitrary absurd is people, without the tie, the thing that the inconvenience in real world perhaps dare not do, can work in fictitious world, fictitious world released the spirit of people greatly.
Do you resemble your friend really pass well in that way in the circle?
Advisory expert of stable hospital psychology Mr. Wen Li says Taiyuan:
Vanity is a kind of mentation of the mankind: It is the disposition blemish that empty of a kind of pursuit expresses; It is a kind of screwy proper pride; It is for consumption of excess load of keen on face-saving (buy room, car, travel to consume... ) ; Be cause widespread attention and show a kind of when come abnormal mentation, it is a kind of psychology show that covers oneself to be not worth to the utmost and hyperbole behavior.
To peacockish person, get the attention of other, approve of, praise, it is the most valuable, most the thing of glorious. Once vanity is couldn't get,satisfy, with respect to the formation of the self-abased complex that meets aggravate person.
The psychology that the just that makes oneself terrifying be an upright person occasionally actually is him unbalance is in cause trouble, may not whole world is paying close attention to you, because very busy, it is oneself hope attention fears only desolate just. Peacockish angst let the life lose normal state!
The person should overcome peacockish heart. The heart of alleged vanity has material and mind two levels. Corporeal level includes basic necessities of life to go up show off a gender to consume, not be to satisfy requirement, however the social class for play the peacock; Mental level includes the excessive attention to fame, regard it as working motive.
On corporeal life, should take the attitude of contented and main demand, this ability is " solid " , showing off is " empty " . In quality of two kinds of products basic and same situation falls, namely when value is same, ought not to seek name tagvisiting card, namely a the price is high that. Overcame peacockish heart so.
On cultural life, should take attention process not to pay close attention to the manner of the result, the process just is " solid " , the result is " empty " . Pay close attention to the joy in composing a process more for instance, is not the opinion that concerns outpour edition and people. Although cannot be published, oneself also enjoyed the process of writing; Although the opinion is not high, oneself write bright good. Cast off peacockish heart so.
Humanness brings peacockish heart to be mixed flightily angst, and the heart person ability of dispel vanity lives dependably, honest.
Vanity expression is on behavior, basically be to vie blindly, crave for greatness and success; Value the opinion of others overly; Self-expression desire too strong; Its have intense envious heart to wait rear.
So how we overcome our vanity?
Vanity basically has 6 show:
(1) seeing oneself reputation seeing oneself reputation is more important than life.
(2) please other affirms to his with acquiring other.
(3) take other seriously overly to be evaluated to his.
(4) tall to the conscious sensitivity of the setback, bear capacity is small.
(5) braid crammer to satisfy vanity.
(6) vanity can cause the undesirable state of mind such as envious, depressed, much Lv, suspicion and form too by force.
Before we should face vanity, want to know the harm of vanity above all. Peacockish person, live very tiredly actually. Because, they are to live in exceeding self-respect to mix exceeding self-abased between, without footloose intermediate region.
So the worry that how should we cast off vanity. Change vanity to be motivation, walk out of vanity to do better oneself?
The reason of 1 vanity is to value others too the view to oneself, not was necessary completely actually.
Walk along good person to give birth to each inches of tightwire seriously, had done oneself, do yourself only, ability erupts adequately energy, what just can give oneself alive is wonderful.
2 calms go facing his surroundings.
The person's desire is infinite and outspread, peacockish psychology also is met as you of one pace go more and more intense. But if not the surroundings that the calm goes to facing his, do not have method to go. You also want to remember, in your surroundings, the most important role is your parents and family member.
3 want true.
Actually, life adversity nine times out of ten, always cannot at every turn flexibly, the demand that has some respect him short of or oneself have family of certain respect be not a patch on, this is regular job, yu Huai of beardless be troubled, need not be concealed more with false thing.
4 do not have harm without contrast.
Follow to compare the germ that is painful generation than the person, we want to become others too, had missed the life of others too. Forget however cherish before oneself, had lived your life, vie a bit lesser, much portion is happy.
5 should try hard, make oneself more powerful.
Regard vanity as motivation, one situation contends dependably forth, the life that you can get you want eventually and enough respect and applause.
