Does Chinese type gigantic baby have many after all shameless?

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My Mom has bout to say, forest the aunt is very miserable.

Forest the aunt is an aunt of many years old 60, upstairs live in my home before, have an only daughter.

After the daughter gets married, also had a daughter. Husband home is begged child the heart is cut, contradiction happens between young husband and wife, within an inch of causes marital rupture.

Contradict for alleviation, the daughter chooses to resign the job, second birth a child.

But the 2nd remains a daughter.

Then contradiction is sent more intense, forest the aunt protects female heart to cut, receive the daughter answer oneself to be lived in, delicious good had drunk take care of, the grievance that wants to had gotten the daughter in mother-in-law home it seems that is made up for come back.

This lives is 3 years two.

Young daughter of the daughter can run in disorder everywhere, the daughter still is being lived in in mom, a bit did not want the meaning that take away, did not want the meaning that goes out to work again completely also.

Also was used to even husband, now and then call at sb's house is visited, do not carry receive them to come home.

Then forest the life of the aunt became: Take care of the husband, take care of a daughter, take care of the daughter's daughter, hold <> concurrently, get angry husband.

Forest the husband of the aunt wants transfer to go other city, forest the aunt made anxious: How do daughter and granddaughter do? Take them impossibly to go together again, not be willing to part with or use answers their drive out mother-in-law home.

The result that discusses finally is, she goes along with the husband new workplace, every month gives a daughter 3000 living cost, let them live former building.

Although such, she still is at ease no less than, can have the daughter taken care of oneself and child?

Then, sexagenarian old person, for the daughter, every week wants to rush about between two ground.

If be, not bad also. Happy after all and OK strong reach one share tired.

But not be apparently, because see my Mom every time, what what she says is how to work hard, how be anxious, and to husband how furious.

Listen to mom report to be over, what I think of the first times is: If still can buy " gigantic baby country " , must buy send forest the daughter of the aunt.

Adv unimaginably really, still need even herself to be taken care of, how can you raise two children?

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More than 10 years ago, such group is called to gnaw old a group of things with common features.

Till Wu Zhigong " gigantic baby country " publish, just make a person affirmatory, these are grown already, have labor capacity, but the person that still asks for to parents blindly, it is honest giant baby.

See the news that a feeling letting a person is between tears and smiles.

A Shenyang man of 32 years old, go up twice in the road one after another loot other mobile phone.

After be captured, he offers narrated guilty intention is unexpectedly: "It is to feel wronged and act rashly with the family member. "It is to feel wronged and act rashly with the family member..

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The family member in his mouth, not be a wife, however parents.

Original, two people come he and wife do not have the job for years, rely on bilateral parents give financial help to to live.

Did not know to build up how long courage, issued how old determination, perhaps also feeling such going down eventually is not method, this man decides to seek a job.

He can think of, such work sells outside just also resembling sending.

Outside sending, selling also do not do not have a doorsill, for instance, want to have an electric car and a mobile phone.

He is done not have, want to parents chronically.

Farther-in-law mother supports very much, looked for motor-car of a report to give him.

It is to look for him parents to want ministry mobile phone next.

But, this desire fails to be satisfied immediately.

Speak of this thing, this man is grievance very: "They agree well, did not buy to me again next... even if give me to buy a cheap mobile phone that 1000 money come forward,also go! Did not buy to me again next... even if give me to buy a cheap mobile phone that 1000 money come forward,also go!!

That, feel wronged and act rashly, go grabbing.

This is what nonsense logic!

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Be in previously newspaper office when, I ever had recieved a person that call in.

That is a rural old person of 75 years old of advanced age, holding a few pieces of wrinkled paper heads, say to want accuse son.

The accuse letter content of the old person is as follows:

I have one only son, as a child coddle since childhood, want star to dare not give a moon.

Was brought up is not obedient more.

To give say son's wife, my submit to humiliation, take a beating suffer scold 20 old (be hit by the son) , get hurt to be in more.

Family scandal cannot outside raise, be afraid of bad to say son's wife.

The traditional Chinese calendar because of a bit bagatelle, (son) broke my left arm, to give say son's wife, I not dare make public, dizziness of the bungalow on me does not take care to throw next stair throw say to the person.

Gave 2000 sought a target, will marry on October 1.

But daughter-in-law hears he broke my arm later, also do not wish to pass with him again, divorced.

Because of this matter, he insists stubbornly say outside my face, it is to become aggravated more the ground hits me.

outer work, answer one year twice dozen (close wheat and spend the New Year) , I must be endured twice dozen.

Arrive close wheat and arrive quickly too year, I am terrifying.

Do farm work, I was mauled hipbone, climb the domestic doorway that return from the ground (work simply with his woman, the anyway that pays no attention to me) , dare not take the home, it is secretary of a Party or League branch I carry me returned the home.

From now on I became a lame person.

threaten, just divorce because of me, cannot say daughter-in-law, morning and evening should beat dead I, force my fast commits suicide.

At the beginning of good year 3, he breaks me bad to burn the boiler of the meal, shattered glass of my house door, should beat dead into the room I.

My what hit blood stream one ground, incarnadine coat.

To give say son's wife, I still was borne.

To give say son's wife, I ever wanted to go to Nanjing big bridge jumps river suicide (for do not send funeral good save money) , because money is insufficient, come back from Gao Tie again.

To give say son's wife, my bear and forbear. . . . . .

To give say son's wife, my first day of the lunar year dare not have his woman two packets dumpling (because I am sick, cannot wrap) .

To give say son's wife, I do not wish to disclose a full name.

To give say son's wife, the father and mother that persuades a singleton painstakingly does not learn me, godchild not in the proper way, suddenly wake up at once, not again coddle only son.

Heart of parents of terrible the world.

Offer a piece of advice it is a bit better to the old person that the youngster also wants.

This paragraph of character although utter words that do not hang together, but make a person special feel sad.

Old person of 75 years old, again and again by the son cruel dozen, arm and leg had been broken many times. Even if be large the beginning of the year 3, also can be thrown boiler kitchen, boxing foot photograph to.

And the only reason that this son calls father is: You should let me marry on daughter-in-law!

The most lamentable is, this old person also is certain, marry to the son on daughter-in-law is the responsibility that he must want to assume and obligation.

I ask an old person, he hits you, did you call the police to do not have? Look for judicatory place not?

The old person is speaking haltingly: Also had signed up for... but what still do not sign up for is good. (readers filling reason of proper motion head) is still must marrying son's wife to him?

This replies, let me drown almost in massive faint move.

Perhaps be told to a rural old person, want to be able to make son wive parturient pass only ancestor receive era, him what grievance is sustainable.

When cannot be being borne really, write down abreact.

He writes so: The father and mother that persuade a singleton painstakingly do not learn me, not again coddle only son. Heart of parents of terrible the world, offer a piece of advice it is a bit better to the old person that the youth also wants!

He was written " terrible " , I believe this is not a slip of a pen.

Yes, heart of parents of terrible the world.

I contacted after the event the town street that a respectful form of address for an old person is in is relevant branch.

A familiar friend tells me: Elder sister, you had not been waited for in basic level, how many do you know such thing has?

Original, although typical, be not a case however.

" Guangzhou daily " ever had made entire media investigation, the result makes clear, of 36.19% suffer the person that visit to state he once perhaps was gnawed now old. Of 30.95% suffer the person that visit to express, gnaw often be actual place approach, the choice of have no alternative.

And this is the crowd that can survey only.

Where is vast rural area?

Do those stem from family scandal nothing more than raise psychology and the old person of submit to humiliation?

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Cannot understand previously, why to have some of person always can so ground of one is assured and bold with justice, requirement parents does this to do that for oneself.

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As if everything perfectly justified of follow a rational line to do some work well.

By true probe into wanting planing machine, find fountainhead place of the thing, it is parents is freewill so.

When the child is small still, can get almost of parental meticulously take care of. Be afraid of falling, be afraid of touching, be afraid that the dress is worn little, be afraid of have a meal not goluptious, be afraid of outer bully getting a person... all sorts of is afraid of, be afraid of, be afraid that overlay is together, wish to monopolize everything for the child rise.

This is protection, also be control.

The child that grow leaves in strong control of parents, those who grow is the body only, intelligence of and rather than.

They lost themselves to handle the biology instinct of the problem gradually. Encounter a trouble, remnant a thought: Look for pa Mom!

And parents are commanded force inevitably turn over bite.

Because become the child to know not to need his to handle, can hold with oneself means accuse parents in order to achieve a goal.

The child is in grow, force increases, the desire grows.

Parents is in however anile, walking is logy, ability is weaker and weaker.

Did not change exclusively, it is the relation between them: One party is endless ask for, one party goes all out do one's best give.

Then, became so absurd occasion: Tremendous infantile absorb is worn shrivelled breast, straight epispastic blood comes.

Regrettablly, blood cannot satisfy gigantic baby, also cannot make gigantic baby truly grown.

When be inferior to taking the advantage of gigantic baby or child, parents regards him as independence is individual go fostering. is not at every turn is held do, excessive bestow favor on be addicted to.

After the child is grown, tell him sturdily: You should remember, you are you, I am me.

Your life, yourself is done advocate.

I can be accompanied, but I cannot be in charge of for you.

So, want daughter-in-law, oneself are married; Want a mobile phone, oneself are bought; Want a house, oneself are bought; Want easy and comfortable life, oneself go earning.

I can do, leave in your manhood namely after the door, all the way watch sb go away, let go from now on.

From now on country 10 thousand lis, way is long, it is yourself's scene. You yourself must discover, oneself go creating. I with respect to don't bother to see me out.