The show that child father watchs after we often say to give birth to the child can know child father loves not to love you after all, this word does not have illness really, when be pregnant like some pregnant Mom, classics regular meeting sees a few successive teleplay, come up against the bridge that has unripe child by chance occasionally paragraph, see pregnant Mom is pushed when giving delivery room, child father it is condolatory treasure Mom first for a short while: "Wife, you worked hard really, thank you, I can follow darling to you double good, later you need not anxious " . Believe many pregnant Mom are in when seeing this kind of part, it is very excited in the heart, a little sensitive pregnant Mom still is met secretly wipe tear, after think better of thinks of he was produced, is husband also met such?
When Dan Dan still is written down so that he gives birth to the child at that time, can not be to resemble teleplay in so act, oneself are pushed when giving delivery room, cannot see husband person not only, and arrived ward when husband also is absent, after asking a mother-in-law, just be informed, because child father is too nervous go smoking downstairs, after the event, dan Dan asks the child dad, be because wait too frettedly to just go,of downstair smoking really, the answer red that husband vows solemnly, "That affirmed, when you do not know I am waiting for you, control sweats all the time, for fear that gave trouble, want more fretted more, I went down " . It is after all actually such, dan Dan also believed with respect to reluctance, chasing after again after all ask also meaning of it doesn't matter, after looking the expression of husband. Like red red husband actually this is planted of the circumstance not little still, although be in without what show consideration for postpartum comfort oneself, but also be first time after all, also can excuse, teleplay is teleplay after all, impossible also exactly like, and to giving birth to the expression of the child father after the child, also be endless and identical, do not believe you to look.
1, be absorbed in playing a mobile phone
Pregnant Mom gives birth to the child in delivery room, child father plays outside delivery room this kind of circumstance of the mobile phone is very common still, saying is to wait for pregnant Mom to give birth to the child, him heart too suffer, use so play the behavior goof that the hand swims, can be really such, before two days of treasure Mom that one just gave birth to darling are in group in say, oneself give birth to child to be pushed when giving delivery room, do not see the sign of husband at all, have mother-in-law and oneself close Mom only, the result is being pushed to go to in the process of ward, play on the bench outside seeing child father sits in ward mobile phone, and special still excited, the ceaseless still vituperation in the mouth is worn, after Mom waiting for treasure entered ward, still let the child father that the mother-in-law goes out to cry, this ability stops a mobile phone, of too impatient to wait asking is a boy or girl, after hearing treasure Mom to give birth to the girl, manner more ignore, after the event hears child father still sent trends, say oneself are very depressed, there should be many in heart of Mom of just think treasure afflictive, of own work laboriously produce in delivery room, child father is this kind of expression however, also can make a move treats one condition, anyway oneself are not to cherish any hopes to child father. Say so, actually the expression of child father gives birth to child hind in you, you can feel whether he puts you on the heart all the time really, whether to love you really.
2, be frightened muddled, do not know how to should do
Some children father is rolled out in pregnant Mom outside delivery room when be to be frightened muddled really, after all this is an identity go up change, a free person still is before oneself, can be about to promote after oneself be father, so hard to avoid has some of child father to be frightened muddled when seeing darling follows child Mom to come out from delivery room, had not answered a god all the time, already excited, do not know what to should say again gift is nice, actually to such child father, he has this kind of show also is very normal, this does not love oneself on behalf of child father, after just answering a god, just will care oneself, care darling, this also is a kind of show that loves you, not be to say your delivery room, before going up immediately, child father expresses sympathy and solicitude for, after all person and person are different, so occasionally, child Mom can not misunderstand child father, this also is a kind of show that loves you actually.
3, blame you to do not have natural labor
Usually, can the pregnant Mom of natural labor won't choose Caesarean birth, though the pregnant Mom of Caesarean birth is increasing also now, but for some more unified to passing family, still be natural labor of hope pregnant Mom, but you can not decide produce kind after all, however proposal decision of the doctor, group in a treasure Mom says, when oneself are produced at that time, encountered the situation of difficult labor, need clockwise analyse, if continue to hold to natural labor,at that time the doctor says, the circumstance of meeting occurrence danger, so can Caesarean birth, and later after risking life danger to be delivered of the child, mother-in-law and child father are apparent grouchy, still blame oneself all the time, also say ceaseless all the time when oneself are confined repeatedly, this lets him feel sad indeed very long time, fortunately oneself gave birth to a boy, him estimation is otherwise essential in the home with respect to position of it doesn't matter. Actually to child father if so expression, can say he loves you only far love the child not as good as much, say so, true order sees outside delivery room this word but really right.
Actually about giving birth to the child this thing, the expression of child father to treasure Mom it is very important, if he cares about you, love you really, so he can give birth to child hind in you surely, eyeful has you only, those who make allowances for you is not easy, but the case that also he loves the child to love you too more, but after all, give birth to child to be able to know child father loves you really really. So you, after giving birth to the child, what does he have to behave?
